Talk to someone who stays away from negative emotions.

First of all, we should tolerate people who like to complain with a tolerant heart. People can't always meet gentle and harmonious people in this life, so when they meet people who like to complain, they should also be able to understand and tolerate her. Only if we can have a tolerant heart can we try to get along with her. Tolerance can solve everything.

When you complain in the opposite direction, you should first listen silently, understand the content of her complaint, fully understand the reasons and content of her complaint, and then analyze the whole story with her. If it's a small matter, it's best not to criticize, not to discuss, just to listen.

After fully understanding the content of the other party's complaint, I find that the other party is complaining just because of complaining, or it is simply their own problem, and they lack reflection and just complain blindly. We should discuss with her how to think about similar problems in the future to avoid the recurrence of problems.

When you touch the bottom line in front of right and wrong, such complaints are unforgivable, so you must argue to the end and make the other party fully understand that your complaints to her are unpleasant and completely negative. The bottom line must not be touched. Respecting each other's bottom line is the basis of getting along.

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If people who like to complain are really complaining without a bottom line, then breaking up is inevitable. In the face of the breakdown of friendship, we should keep a peaceful attitude, instead of seeing blood at once and not talking to each other. Complaining is more about personal character. Maybe she is kind and just likes to complain, so please understand.