Should men be hot and cold to girls?

You should be hot and cold to women, but you really like women. This is an avoidant lover, but often women think that such a man can't be tied up, he won't know his true intentions, and he is very insecure. Because when they fall in love with others, they will start to protect themselves, afraid of losing each other and being too good to themselves. At this time, women should know how to leave corresponding space for him, have enough patience to give him, and occasionally do something different.

If a man pursues a girl for a long time and suddenly disappears one day, it means that his patience has been exhausted by this girl and he has decided to give up. There was once a story in which a woman told a man that if she could wait downstairs for a hundred days, she would consider falling in love with him. At first, the man really insisted that no matter whether it is windy or rainy, he can't be stopped. Until 99 days later, the woman was really moved by the man's persistence.

But on the last day, the man didn't come and the woman didn't understand. She persisted for 99 days. Why didn't she persist on the last day? The reason is very simple, that is, men used the first 99 days to prove that their love for women is sincere, and they used the last day to safeguard their dignity.