What did you learn from blind date?

Know what you want. Regardless of boys and girls, we may have our own set of mate selection standards since childhood, but as we grow older, we should realize that the standards of childhood are no longer suitable for us, and some of them are even unrealistic. Before starting a blind date, you should first think about what kind of company you need now, such as appearance, age, economy, personality and so on. Which aspects we will care more about and which aspects are not so important need to be considered in advance. If you think too much about one thing, the outline of the other half begins to be clear.

If you want to express it bravely, if it is not appropriate, tell each other frankly. Whether it's blind date or free love, you have a good impression when you meet the right person, so you must remember to express it. Communicate your thoughts to the other party, and give more positive feedback within an appropriate range and from an appropriate starting point. In this way, whether I succeed or not, I have no regrets. If the other party expresses good feelings, feels inappropriate, or needs more time to think, you can communicate well, express your thoughts frankly and strive for the other party's understanding.

Stick to your bottom line. After several failed blind dates, many people may fall into a state of self-doubt or even self-denial. Especially the three aunts and six grandmothers around me are urging themselves. Under all kinds of pressures, it is easy to have the idea that you are too demanding and whether you should find someone similar to you to make do with it. At this time, we should stick to our own principles. Failing a blind date doesn't mean you're not good, it just means you're not suitable.

Don't be married when you go on a blind date. Only a few people in the world have met true love. Only a few of them got married, and only a few of them were happy after marriage. We should have a correct attitude, try and make friends, and be just without desire.