No hobbies, no friends, 63-year-old aunt: Qingming sweeping the grave has made me happy all my life.

At a certain age, some people's temperament will become contradictory, for example, they like silence and are afraid of loneliness; Sometimes calm and sophisticated, sometimes innocent and lovely, the so-called old children should refer to them.

Different from young people's self-reliance and pursuit of individuality, many single elderly people are inevitably empty and lonely because their children are not around and they have no hobbies and friends, and they are eager for the companionship and comfort of others.

After retirement, 63-year-old Aunt Bian also entered such a state. She looks very comfortable, but in fact she is single and lives alone. Life with nothing to do all day is boring, boring.

But fate is so wonderful. Over the past few years, she often felt that sweeping the grave once in Qingming actually made herself happy for a lifetime.

Lao Yan and I were childhood friends. We grew up playing together and got married with the blessing of our relatives and friends. Along the way, we love each other and have very deep feelings.

In the second year after marriage, we had a son. A family of three is happy. I teach and Lao Yan works in the system. On holidays, I either visit the elderly or go out to play together.

However, with the development of society, more and more people are doing business around them, and more and more people are rich.

On one occasion, Lao Yan told me that he was going to quit his job and go to sea, work hard while he was young, earn more money, change his living environment, and let my son and I live a good life.

Although I was a little reluctant to lose his iron rice bowl, I agreed with his idea with great expectation when I saw other women wearing gold and silver and holding their heads high.

Because of lack of experience and in order to reduce some risks, Lao Yan chose to start a business in partnership with friends.

I don't know whether it's luck or choosing the right product. In less than two years, they actually made a lot of money smoothly.

Next, these two people are more ambitious. They not only expanded their business scale, but also registered a company of their own, claiming to do business in various cities.

I am happy to see Lao Yan in high spirits, but I still have a trace of unspeakable anxiety. As the child grew up, he also became a famous boss in the circle of friends.

Rich and famous, Lao Yan seems to be a different person, spending less and less time at home, not drinking and socializing every day, and being very busy.

During the small holiday that year, Lao Yan rarely asked for a few days off, saying that he would go out to play with his family. No one expected that misfortune was quietly coming.

On the third night of business trip, Lao Yan suddenly received a phone call, saying that the company had a problem and needed to be solved immediately. He said that we are finally together, so let's play for a few more days and go back by ourselves.

But this farewell has become a farewell. Because of their decision-making mistakes, the company was finished, but Lao Yan failed to resist the sudden changes and left silently.

The old man is old and his son is not married. All the pressure fell on me, and the pace of life suddenly got out of control.

I have always been a cheerful person, and I have become silent, but in the face of reality, I dare not give up, and there is nowhere to escape, so I can only grit my teeth and stick to it.

In the next few years, although I have been living a hard life, there is one thing that puzzles me.

When the old man died, everyone sent a lot of money; When my son got married, someone accompanied him with a big gift. Although I left the same name, I didn't know it.

After retirement, I became an unsociable person, with no special hobbies and no good friends. Besides eating, drinking and sleeping, I was left wandering around and being a lesbian.

The seemingly carefree life every day is actually very boring. In the dead of night, I will toss and turn, listening to the ticking clock, and it is difficult to sleep.

It is said that elderly people like to be quiet, but being too quiet can be a bit lonely. That kind of emptiness and helplessness makes people suppress their fears.

When I feel uncomfortable, I will quietly go to see Lao Yan and talk to myself. I will feel much more comfortable.

Mourning day, drizzle like tears; Pedestrians on the road want to die. In Tomb-Sweeping Day that year, I went to visit the grave of Lao Yan, and a man in black sat in front of the tombstone from a distance.

There are two cups on the ground, and he is talking about something while drinking. Suddenly, I remembered, isn't he Lao Feng? The brother who is doing business with Lao Yan.

Seeing me coming, Lao Feng burst into tears and got up and knelt on the ground. He said sadly, "Sister, I'm sorry. I went my own way and ruined the company and hurt Brother Yan!" " "

In fact, I learned about the situation in those days, and the responsibility was not entirely on Lao Feng. As a big boss, Lao Yan is also negligent.

Over the years, Lao Feng has not been happy. After the business failed, the daughter-in-law left him to the children. Because of guilt, he silently helped me, and returned to my old job and started a new business.

I told Lao Feng that I didn't hate him, and he really didn't have to blame himself. Things are over, let's move on and live a good life.

Since then, our contact has gradually increased. Lao Feng is kind-hearted, grateful, respectful and concerned about me. Unconsciously, we are getting closer and closer, and we both have subtle feelings for each other.

In this way, we came together. He gave the small company to my son, and he accompanied me every day. He said, the rest of my life is short, so let him accompany me through this journey.

Young people pursue careers, while old people want mentality. Only when the spirit is cheerful and the mood is comfortable can we get happiness and happiness.

This kind of emotion is universal and includes the whole world. The world belongs to everyone, but the heart belongs to oneself. Follow your inner feelings and find the life you want.

When you are old, you should let go of the past, focus on the present, warm yourself with your family, warm the people around you, and move forward with happiness.

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Author: traces of love, a cheerful and playful emotional narrator, willing to accompany teachers and friends to taste life and laugh at life.