I give you 10000 yuan every month. Do you want three children?

Dear friends, let's discuss a topic. If I give you 10000 yuan a month, would you like to have three children?

My answer is no, I don't want to. There are too many reasons. Let me state them one by one.

First of all, I lack the conditions for triplets. Because I don't have a second child, where can I have a third child? Ha ha ha, isn't that a great answer? But think about it carefully, is this the truth? The first condition of having three children is that you have already given birth to a second child. So those mothers who have a second child, are you willing to have a third child? I dare not speculate, but let me talk about my opinion from my standpoint.

From the HR point of view, triplets are equivalent to giving up their career for a woman. Generally, we are all around the age of 22 when we graduate from college, and then we are 24 at the earliest when we get married and have children. According to the fastest speed, the third child will probably be 30 years old. In the past six years, others have been trying to improve their careers. And your six years were spent in pregnancy, breastfeeding and raising children. What are your career prospects after giving birth to your third child?

Secondly, the economic pressure is too great. After giving birth to the third baby, is your housing area enough? Three children plus parents who help take care of the children, at least three rooms, this cost is not low. There are also expenses for raising three babies, milk powder, diapers and education. Counting seven, seven, eight, eight, that's a lot of money. Anyway, 1 10,000 per month is not enough.

Because my mother has been pregnant with a baby and rarely makes achievements in her career, her income is definitely not high. All the financial pressure in the family is on dad. If there is no mine at home, life will be very hard.

Then, energy is limited. These three babies have different diets and different ways of care according to their age groups. A little food for three babies is enough for the mother to be busy all day. Not to mention the education of children. In the past, there were training institutions to help me throw my children into the training center, so I could enjoy the feeling of freedom for a while. Now after the double reduction, there are no training institutions. Three children, you should not only teach mathematics and physics, but also teach writing, read English, tell stories, do logical thinking and take your children to exercise. This long list of things, the premise is that the baby is not sick, in case he has a cold and coughs and runs to the hospital. I think a mother with a baby is understandable.

I finally have my own life. I can be a mother, but not just a mother. I also have my own career pursuit and hobbies. I am willing to pay for my children, but I can't lose myself because of this. I don't want my life to revolve around children forever. My life is only necessities, children and diapers.

After writing here and reading the full text, I always feel dissatisfied. Because I want to say too much, I always feel that I didn't express myself clearly and didn't get to the point.

However, I felt very tired before I finished writing this article. This society demands too much of women. As Sebrina once said, after she got married, many people asked her how to balance family and work. She said why not ask my husband. We are a member of the family, why should women bear the responsibility of the family?

Yes, mom is not superman either. Aren't you tired of having three children?