Life should be interesting. _ There is no interest in life, only a sense of practicality.

Our family has never been very festive. In the past, I only remember that there was little festive atmos

Life should be interesting. _ There is no interest in life, only a sense of practicality.

Our family has never been very festive. In the past, I only remember that there was little festive atmosphere during festivals, such as eating, visiting relatives and friends ... and some special festivals were rarely celebrated, such as birthdays. I have been used to it since I was a child, but I don't think there is anything wrong with it.

I'm not interested in many ceremonial things. Maybe I think it is enough to live a simple and plain life without wasting time and energy to make it complicated and noisy. Even once thought this way of life was extremely noble.

I met a friend in high school. She especially likes to buy me some small gifts on my birthday or various festivals. I will naturally give her various forms of feedback (I always don't want my friends to suffer).

But I seldom send her gifts on her birthday, and I seldom send some blessings on her birthday. It's not that I don't care about this friend, but that I really don't pay much attention to all kinds of "special days". In my opinion, as long as I am kind to her at ordinary times, I don't have to do anything on a certain day.

I didn't feel anything at the time. After I went to college, I gradually found that compared with the people around me, I didn't seem to have any sense of ceremony. On some special days, even if we are busy, everyone will take time out to celebrate a little.

But I still don't care about these. In my opinion, this is just an artificial festival. How significant is it? How about celebrating the festival? But what about the festival? This is just an ordinary day in our lives. If there is anything special, it is also artificially endowed, not that this day is so different.

Even for a long time, I thought so. Even if I begin to change and accept it slowly, my explanation only stays at: different lifestyles should be caused by different family environments and growth environments, which is nothing wrong and conducive to seeing a bigger and richer world. Moreover, people should seek common ground while reserving differences. Everyone has his uniqueness. We should learn to accept others and ourselves.

In a word, my explanation has nothing to do with the sense of ceremony. At that time, I didn't realize the existence of the sense of ceremony.

My friends often buy me presents on my birthday, and they will also buy me a small gift after my first month's salary. If I knew, I would persuade her not to buy me anything.

Here are the languages I have tried hard before:

Looking back on what I said in those years, I suddenly felt like an older woman. There is no interest in life, only a full sense of practicality.

Yes, a sense of ceremony really needs time, energy and money. Some may not even seem like necessities, but at least they can live as usual. However, without a sense of ceremony, life may also lack the interest of life. There is only one chicken feather left in a day, which is completely tasteless, colorless and not rich, which is bound to be terrible.

Because there is no sense of ceremony, there is no expectation, no surprise, no vitality and no expectation in our life. What is lacking is not only a little heartache, a little beauty, a little happiness, a little happiness and vitality. Isn't it a great sorrow that the long life is numb and boring?

Life is short, and no one knows who you will meet tomorrow, so we all know that we should cherish the present and make life meaningful.

It's just that "alive" and "alive" are completely different. They are like two apples with completely different tastes, one is sour and sweet, and the other has no special taste.

Take the initiative to feel and enjoy life in a limited life, and feel the joy of life with the most enthusiastic heart.

Now I have a deeper and more thorough understanding of other people's sense of ceremony, and I am no longer limited to asking myself to seek common ground while reserving differences. This feeling of understanding is also wonderful. Not only will I be more comfortable with others in the future, but my life will be enriched and enriched.