Because your mother wants a hundred thousand bride price, you have to earn money to pay off your debts every day now. what do you think?

Not long after I got married, I already felt the disharmony of the family atmosphere. To say that all this was caused by the differences between our two families on the bride price before marriage, and now my mother-in-law retaliates against me and makes my life miserable.

My husband and I were introduced. Before I got married, my mother opposed my association with my husband, thinking that he was a very selfish and self-centered person, fearing that I would be wronged after I married him. Another shortcoming they think is that he grew up in a single-parent family. His father died when he was a child. He was brought up by his mother-in-law and somewhat feminine. He is worried that he will be affected and his character will be flawed. But I think he has good conditions in all aspects. I don't want to miss such a man. I was not young at that time, so I wouldn't listen and insisted on getting married.

Later, my mother couldn't beat me, so she took a step back and agreed, but asked their family to give 100 thousand bride price, and our own family didn't give much dowry. At that time, she made it clear that she was also threatened by such conditions, meaning that it doesn't matter if our marriage is ruined. But what I didn't expect at that time was that my husband and mother-in-law agreed at once, which made me like them more and firmly believe that I must marry him in my life. Seeing that things have come to this, my mother can no longer object, so she has to let us hold a wedding. Just to be on the safe side, my mother didn't give me money after marriage. She said she was afraid to keep it for me just in case. As I am the only child in my family, I am not worried that my family will take the money away, and the money together with my family's property will naturally be mine in the future.

But what I didn't expect was that as soon as the wedding was over, my husband's family changed face. Because it was agreed in advance that my family didn't give him enough dowry, my mother deducted 6.5438+ 10,000 bride price from their family, and my mother-in-law and husband were not good to me, so they made me look bad on the second day of their marriage. Let my heart suddenly fall to the bottom. Now my mother-in-law is porridge and cabbage every day, and she doesn't see meat for a long time. This kind of food is not only suitable for adults who need to work every day, but also for the elderly and children. But when I complain, all I get is my mother-in-law's finger pointing and cynicism. She said that my family is greedy for money and snobbish, and marrying a daughter is like selling goods. I was angry and had a quarrel with her. At that time, she was anxious to make it clear to me: "Blame your mother for asking for a hundred thousand bride price. Our family can't afford so much, and the money is borrowed from others. " So now porridge and cabbage are cleaned every day, and you don't want to be comfortable. You have to hand in your salary card every month to earn money to pay off your debts. "

That's not all. After my husband came back, before I could speak, my mother-in-law cried, saying that I didn't like her, didn't respect her and made things difficult for her everywhere. Her reversal of right and wrong attracted my husband's scolding and accusation. When he opens his mouth, he sounds just like his mother, because my family is dissatisfied with the bride price. But that's just what happened at the time. He also knew that our family didn't agree to our marriage, but since he couldn't accept this condition, he refused it directly. Why are you taking it out on me now? Tell us, is this my family's fault or my husband's fault?