I am always scolded by my parents, and I feel sad every time. I dare not tell them the truth. What should I do?

Dear, remember: beating and scolding children is a sign that parents are incompetent and unable to control their emotions. Don't be stubborn and punish yourself with their mistakes!

Before finding a solution, analyze why your parents behave like this:

Parents have pressure in their work and life and can't solve it by themselves. Transfer their emotions to you.

Solution: This is the most difficult to change, because parents' cognition and behavior have existed for many years and solidified. Therefore, you need to learn to enlighten them, take them out for fun and tell more unpleasant stories around them, which will ease their mood.

Your parents feel that your grades and other behaviors don't meet their expectations, causing anxiety and taking extreme measures to educate you.

Solution: This kind of parents' educational thinking mode is limited. In the past, people thought that children should fight if they didn't obey, and they didn't understand their psychology. In view of this situation, I suggest you express your feelings bravely and study hard to meet their requirements.

Your parents think you are very disobedient, so you are emotional.

Solution: The deep-seated reason lies in your rebellion and reaction, which challenges their dignity and makes them feel irritated, thus beating and scolding you. Therefore, you should also control your temper, don't cry, and don't have a hard time with your parents. This will irritate them and aggravate their emotions. Try to listen to their superficial words and maintain their so-called self-esteem.

Beat and scold children

Generally, parents who beat and scold their children are not very literate, and their thoughts have been solidified by the old school. If the above methods can't be solved, then study hard and strive for an independent life. Life in the future is still beautiful. Young people today know how to respect and understand, and you will have a good future. Come on!