1, when you are depressed, you'd better stay alone for a while, and then face others when you are calm, otherwise someone may be swayed by considerations of gain and loss. It's best not to spend too long in the depressed period of mood, and learn to get yourself out of trouble. 2. Some people may ask that after reading so many books for so long, girls will eventually return to an ordinary city, do an ordinary job, marry a wife, do laundry and cook, and teach children. Why bother? I think we stick to it, even if we end up in triviality and wash away the lead, the same job, different mood, the same family, but different emotional appeal, and the same offspring have different qualities. One day you will find that it is not easy to get along with yourself, and you will finally understand that it is not others but yourself that you need to care most. A person's life is like a blank sheet of paper. We have many opportunities to start, but don't end in a hurry. 4. Life should be like this: get something in the first half of your life, and then lose it one by one in the second half. Be sure to leave some time to lose. Parabola is the most beautiful, the ending of free fall, which is a mature fruit. I just want to advise you to slow down, have a rest and be gentle for a while. You catch too much, you don't realize that you are terrible. Sometimes you need to think seriously. Don't waste your time, don't mix with decadent spirit, don't waste your life, do something meaningful in time to make your life stronger and your destiny more exciting. Don't care too much about other people's eyes and attitudes. Nobody's been staring at you. No one always cares about what you say and do. Your inner loneliness, confusion and helplessness are only known to you. To change it, from now on. 6. It is unrealistic to say that no money is particularly happy; With money, you are not necessarily happy. In other words, the quality of a woman's material life will affect her appearance, but it is only a certain foundation. 7. If a person loves you and especially cares about you, one manifestation is that he is still a little afraid of you. 8. Many pains in life are caused by not being able to distinguish between needs and desires. The less you need, the easier it is to meet; The more eager, the more disappointed. Too much of our disappointment and dissatisfaction stems from excessive demands on life. If we can distinguish between needs and desires, plan our own needs reasonably and restrain our desires appropriately, our sense of satisfaction will be stronger and our happiness will be more. 9. No one can really let go of a past. Everyone has the ability of self-healing. The wound of the soul is like the wound of the skin, there is no specific medicine, and it takes time to recover slowly. But if you torture yourself and the wound is not handled properly, how can you be as good as before? Put yourself down, turn over this heavy page in your growth diary, and read it again in a few years, and it will be completely different. 10, a person in the world should care about other people's comments and opinions, take other people's opinions as a mirror of himself, if there is, change it, if not, encourage it. However, if you care too much about what others think of you, you will be swayed by considerations of gain and loss and lose yourself. After all, life is your own life, and the most important thing is to make your own decisions. 1 1, life, being alive, that's a state of mind. Believe, believe in beauty, believe in goodness, be a man, no regrets are the Tao, and no complaints are the virtue. Life, everything, how can everything go smoothly, what's more, pain is not the whole of life. I have been hurt, cried and lived. 12, if there is no equal love in the world, let me love more. 13. It used to be easy to disappear in this city, as long as you didn't answer the phone. The relationship between adults and their peers is no longer what it was when they were teenagers. Many people only know each other's phone number. 14, life is a one-way trip, if life is a dream, the dream doesn't follow people's wishes. Only when loneliness is broken can people regain their hustle and bustle; Only when you have exhausted your sadness can you see your happy face again; Taste all the bitterness, and naturally it will be sweet. If you believe this, you can face the gap in life more calmly and go through the four seasons. 15, in the emotional world, the more you take, the poorer you are. Everything can't wait, can't wait to look forward to it. 16, life needs some wisdom, and learn to put yourself in others' shoes. Life is a struggle, and only by bravely climbing can we create brilliance; Life is innovation. Only by keeping pace with the times can we keep up with the times. Life is about giving, and only by giving pain and sweat can we realize our ideals; Life is enjoyment. Only by savoring life can we feel the happiness of life. 17, when you are in a bad mood, always ask yourself, what's the puzzle? What don't you like? If you feel unhappy, just look out the window, where there are infinite scenery, look at the vast sky, and learn that the sky is not closed. There is no despair in life, only think impassability, life has no end, only can't see through. Why do new ideas care about old dreams? They will come back to life one day. Looking back is hope, and looking back is the afterlife. 18, life is actually a practice, and the practice is a heart. Everyone will be tired, and when fate throws people into the lowest valley, it is often the best time for life to turn. Success is the exertion of advantages, while failure is the accumulation of disadvantages. There is only one reason for going right and many reasons for going wrong. The prophet changed his life before he knew it, but he accidentally ruined it! 19, the biggest stain at work is not doing something wrong, but falling out with colleagues. -Yi Shu's "My First Half Life" 20. I can't stand falling in love too early, meeting too late, hurting too little fate, and loving too many peaches. True love is neither too early nor too late, neither too much nor too little, it is you, it is you.
2 1, in this dark but lonely night, listen to a sad music, watch the sad words written by yourself, and then slowly give your heart to sadness, indulge in sadness, think in sadness, and experience another kind of truth and beauty in sadness. 22. Life is not a stop, there will always be many unexpected things. Mount Tai collapsed in front of it, the color remained unchanged, and the wind and cloud suddenly rose, taking it calmly. Turning the corner often requires a superb mind and a good attitude. Think more, be less excited, be more kind and hate less, and life will be better. When you think that your choice suits you and bravely accept everything that comes with your life, you gain a self-esteem and self-confidence. 23. Every excellent person has a period of silence. During that time, I made a lot of efforts, endured loneliness and loneliness, didn't complain, didn't complain, and even talked about it later. 24. Instead of expecting others to be perfect, it is better to practice your imperfect self now. 25, happiness is silent, such as ending a whole day's trip and peeling a golden orange in front of the computer; Sadness is always sudden. For example, I was going to use the sweetness of oranges to relieve the fatigue of a day's journey, but I took a bite and found that oranges were sour. 26. If you look back, the road will be difficult; Let go of the past, and there will be a vast sky behind. 27. If one day, the memory between us is deleted, will you still love me as before, just as we have never hurt each other? In my heart, companionship and understanding are more important than love. 29, never give up, keep going, there will be unexpected scenery. Maybe it's not on the road you originally wanted to go, nor on the top of the mountain you originally wanted to climb, but another road also has the scenery of another road, and different peaks will have beautiful sunrises and embark on a new road. 30. No matter how unforgettable your past is, it is the past, just the past.