Reflections after watching the lecture on parent-child *** growth

Review of the 2017 Parent-Child *** Growth Lecture 1

Speaking of children, every parent has endless topics to talk about. How should we educate our children well? Let me first talk about some of my personal views and opinions.

Nowadays, children in primary school are lively, cute, innocent, and have poor ability to distinguish right from wrong, but their ability to imitate and accept is very strong. We should start from the parents themselves. Only if the parents do it themselves, will the children learn from it. If you only reason with the children and cannot serve as a role model for the children, it will have no effect at all. At the same time, school education is equally important. Only by active cooperation from both sides can the effect be seen.

We usually advocate the all-round development of children's moral, intellectual and physical aspects. In terms of moral education, children should be educated from an early age to love their home and family, respect and care for their parents, and obey their teachings and guidance. In terms of intellectual education, we should always pay attention to the learning situation of our children. It is not enough to just ask. You must have a deep understanding of the situation and communicate with the teacher. Also pay attention to cultivating children's good study habits and learning methods. In daily family education, we must find ways to guide and stimulate children's interest in learning, because interest is the best teacher for children. If children are not interested, they will not do anything well. In terms of physical education, primary school students are in the period of physical growth and are characterized by their love of movement. Parents must guide their children to exercise appropriately. However, excessive play should not affect the child's learning and rest. Let the child do legitimate, safe and beneficial activities to promote the child's health and development. In terms of diet, try not to be picky or picky about your food.

In terms of learning, you should usually pay attention to rewarding children, encouraging them to learn and progress, and study hard. It is normal for children to be clumsy and childish in their learning behavior, because learning is detailed and can only be mastered through gradual contact. If the child's writing is poor, tear it up and let the child rewrite it. If this happens too many times, the child will not be willing to write. Therefore, the child should be allowed to have a gradual learning process, and pay attention to the child's learning with appreciative eyes and words of praise. Praise and encourage children's progress as much as possible. Is there a child who doesn’t want his parents and teachers to praise him? In addition, when rewarding children, we should also pay attention to the combination of material rewards and spiritual rewards, so as to achieve the results that parents want to achieve.

In addition, as a parent, I think we need to have great tolerance and enough patience to treat our children. Never tell your children about the troubles you encounter in work and life, or even use them as a vent. You should still guide and persuade patiently. If a child does something wrong, the child should be punished, but it should be appropriate, and the child should be actively guided and be a good friend of the child.

As a parent, you must have a scientific concept of family education. The concept of family education that keeps pace with the times can push parents to improve family education, so parents must continue to learn and make progress. We should treat our children not only as children, but also as friends. Such a family atmosphere will be conducive to the growth of children. In short, for children’s family education, we must learn to communicate with children attentively, that is, we must be patient and meticulous, but also flexible and diverse. As long as we all become good friends of our children, are we still afraid of failing to teach them well? 2017 Parent-Child*** Reflections on the Growth Lecture 2

I was fortunate enough to listen to Teacher Hu Yumin’s lecture, and I gained some insights of my own.

First let’s talk about Teacher Hu’s book about family education. I heard it during the new teacher training. I also read Teacher Hu’s "Family is the Main Front of Education", so I will take a closer look at this book. , read it carefully and feel that you have gained a lot. Recalling that the affluence of material life in today's society has made parents full of expectations for their children's achievements, the social psychology of hoping that their children will succeed has brought distortions to the educational pursuits of thousands of families. Exam-oriented education has been launched in advance, and parents are willing to spend huge sums of money to compete for the best educational resources. Get a head start on your children’s success. As a result, the child was under great pressure and lost his childhood of playing games. He went to various tutoring classes and specialized classes every day. He became tired of learning and lost interest in life. . .

As an educator, I feel that it is really not easy for today’s children. They seem to live to satisfy their parents’ wishes. They have to face heavy academic work every day, as well as countless Keep recharging so that you won’t fall behind others in the future.

I recall that when we were young, we would run around wildly after school every day, be happy every day, complete our homework easily, and be happy every day. But today's children see more and get more. On the contrary, they also have more problems: those who are tired of studying, those who fight, and those who commit suicide. . . Behind this series of problems, a major problem is family problems.

Family is the first stop for education. Parents are their children’s first mentors and great teachers who never leave their posts. They are not only their children’s learning models, but also their children’s moral role models. Therefore, we must create excellent children. The humanistic environment for growth is the responsibility of every family and every parent. appoint.

However, as teachers, first-grade children’s enlightenment teachers, they should also be good role models for their children at all times. Together with family education, they should not encourage others, blindly compare, or ignore them and fend for themselves. . When children achieve results, they should be encouraged in time; when children encounter difficulties, they should be given the right medicine to help them solve problems. Therefore, children must be relaxed and relaxed when it comes to their learning. They should not be nagging in their ears all the time. Instead, they should be allowed to have their own plans and complete tasks with motivation, and parents should provide guidance.

There is no doubt that family education plays a very important role in the growth of the younger generation. However, family education is affected by parents' cultural accomplishment, educational concepts and methods and has its limitations. It requires guidance and help from the school. According to the situation of individual students and special families, teachers must do a good job in ideological work for different parents and students. Teachers should cooperate with the head teacher and visit parents from time to time to understand the students in depth. Family situation is very necessary. This is an important task in guiding family education. However, we must avoid the practice of not visiting every month and "complaining" as soon as we visit. Parents and students must sincerely educate students, respect each other, and study educational issues with parents in a collaborative manner.

Practice has proven that school education, family education and social education are closely linked and have a mutually complementary and perfect relationship. Only by combining the two can all forces be fully mobilized to care for and promote the development of the younger generation. Healthy growth.