Do you agree that people who are stingy with themselves will not be generous to others? Talk about one's own views

Generally, he doesn't deduct himself from his friends and lovers, which proves that he is a person who is strict with himself, sincere to his friends and loves his lover! A man always has his own circle of friends outside, his own intimate friends and brothers, and friends who usually pay for meals, which proves that he values friendship more than money. There are many such people and friends! Being generous to his lover proves that he loves his wife very much and is willing to do his best to give it to the person he loves most! Deducting himself shows that he is a person who is strict with himself and will not spend money casually for unnecessary expenses! So, this kind of man is good!