My brother always disrespects me. What should I do?

For a second-child family, the younger child will be spoiled a lot, because the focus of the whole family may be on him, and there will be overprotection. Then such children will become selfish, self-centered and have no respect for others when they grow up.

If he doesn't know how to respect you, on the one hand, he may think you are his sister or brother. You two are very close. When you grew up together, he would think you were close to him. Then, we tend to have fewer restrictions and rules for those closest to us. We will express our ideas directly and will not consider the feelings of many others. So if your brother is like this, it may be because he thinks you won't be angry with him.

If there are other reasons, it may be caused by your family. When your brother was in conflict or unhappy with you since childhood, your parents or other elders always asked you to make your brother suffer a little injustice. This is very common. Many people think that you are old and should be sensible, and you should learn to let go of your brother. After all, you are still young and not very sensible. So your brother has left such an impression in his mind since he was a child. I will always be the king and everyone will listen to me.

I don't think you should be angry with your brother either. Maybe he didn't mean to hurt you. You can talk to your brother sometime and tell him about it. His attitude towards you has done great harm to your psychology, and you are very dissatisfied with his behavior, so I believe your brother will still know that his behavior is wrong or incorrect. After all, children are cute and simple. He may not have thought so much, and of course he didn't want to hurt you. We still have to have an inclusive heart. Take some time to let him correct his mistakes, and maybe you will become very good and close brothers and sisters in the future.