What should I do if I meet such a big sister?

My husband and I have been married for more than three years, and the relationship between husband and wife has always been very good. My mother-in-law is also very kind to me, and there is no contradiction at home.

Last year, this family added a pair of twin sons, and my husband and mother-in-law even held me in their hands. If there is anything delicious at home, they will hold me tight first. I've always been happy that I married the right person.

But everything has changed since my in-laws divorced and moved to my parents' home.

In fact, I also sympathize with my in-laws and sisters. Although she gave birth to three children to her ex-husband in her in-law's house, her husband is a domestic violence maniac and often punches and kicks his sister when he is unhappy. When she was not divorced, she would cry when she encountered domestic violence and would come back to her family to cry. I didn't deserve it for my sister at that time. Elder sister-in-law is handsome and virtuous. Why did she put up with her husband's unreasonable domestic violence? At that time, I cheered up my sister and said, "Sister! As long as you leave this marriage, the door of your family will always be open for you! "

However, what I didn't expect was that after the divorce, my sister didn't bring any money from her ex-husband's house, but only brought two daughters who went to kindergarten. Isn't this a clean house?

Alas! Their divorce papers have all been signed. What should my brother-in-law do if he is unwilling?

Since then, several people have eaten at home. After the divorce, my sister stayed in Lacrimosa all day, bedridden and depressed, with no plans for her future life.

Husband and father-in-law watched a large family waiting for dinner with their mouths open, so they all went out to work to earn money. There are only a few women and children to take care of at home.

Sister-in-law has been divorced for more than a year and has not been able to get rid of decadence and depression. Usually my sister lies down for a day and does nothing. Her two children, also mothers-in-law, are helping to send her to school. In the past, a person with a pair of toddler twin sons had a hard time and needed her mother-in-law's help. Now that my mother-in-law is focusing on taking care of my sister's children, my children naturally take less. The longer it takes, the worse it gets. In particular, I can't stand my sister's sad face and listlessness all day.

The day before yesterday, I took a nap upstairs with one son, and my mother-in-law slept downstairs with another. Then at four o'clock in the afternoon, my sister was not learning to drive at home, so she asked my mother-in-law to pick up her daughter from kindergarten. The mother-in-law left her little grandson to sleep alone and went to the kindergarten to pick up her eldest sister's daughter.

Later, my son woke up and saw no one around, crying desperately. I heard crying and ran downstairs. When I saw my son alone, my mother-in-law had disappeared. I was so angry at that time! Such a small child, her mother-in-law is so relieved to leave him there to sleep alone? What should I do if I turn over and fall out of bed? Or climb out on the road alone! If you really have something to go out, can't you take the children upstairs and let me know before you go? Only then did I know that since my sister divorced with her children and moved into her mother's house, my original happy life was completely disrupted!

All day, a group of children chattered and couldn't sleep well. Now, the delicious food at home is also waiting for her two children first. My sister doesn't work. All food and drink are earned by my husband and father-in-law. Originally, it was enough for my husband to support our small family, and now he has to support three sisters and mothers. Although my husband and father-in-law are working hard and making progress, our family just barely sticks to the family's rations. Milk powder and diapers in Bao Xiao cost more than 2,000 yuan every month. Not to mention some daily living expenses.

I have mentioned it to my husband several times, asking him to talk to his sister and find a class to ease the financial pressure at home. We can't just eat and not work. In the long run, it will only drag us down more and more. After all, her two daughters have to pay tuition fees to study, and it costs a lot of money to buy clothes and snacks all year round. However, my husband just can't open this mouth. As a younger brother and daughter-in-law, it's not good for me to speak too bluntly to my face.

Alas! It's nerve-racking enough who this matter is spread out on.