How to change your personality

How to change your own personality

1. Don’t like to think (stupid) think more, observe things, look for patterns and consistency, sum up experience, and use it to solve similar problems next time deal with.

2. Speak without going through the brain (one meridian). It is better to reply later than to say the right and precise words. Repeated training in this way gradually improves the speaking skills and speaking speed.

3. No sense of time (procrastination), super planning ability, constantly setting goals for yourself, and never wasting any time.

4. No persuasive ability, easy to compromise, not safeguarding self-interest, always being fooled (stupid). Use more logical and clear three-point expressions, and use dialectics to argue yourself before communicating. There will be no logical loopholes. Go and convince others.

5. Don’t know how to refuse and have no opinion (weak). First identify your point of view three times. If you think there is no problem, speak out your point of view boldly. Say more about everything, I feel, I want, I want, I don’t want, reject. Can you say more? OK? Please inspire your desire to conquer.

6. Not interesting, not humorous, slow to respond (stupefied). Watch more variety shows, weird stories, and complaining conferences, talk to more people, observe other people's speaking skills, and apply what you learn. It is normal to be unable to answer words at first. Gradually, if you pick up a few more words, you will gradually master the rhythm of communication.

7. Being cowardly, doing stupid things, and making embarrassments (2) Pay attention to your image in everything. It is right to go your own way, but you can’t ignore your image and think that’s it for you. You must be tough, behave competently, speak with confidence, and look into your eyes firmly to give people a strong invisible aura. You can maintain an artistic temperament (dress up) but have a sense of independence. And be cautious and considerate of everything. When you need to save face, you should save some face. When you feel embarrassed, you will never allow yourself to make low-level mistakes.

8. Afraid of making decisions, taking responsibility, repetition, entanglement (chaos). Every day, I struggle with small things, and then with big things. After struggling, I still have to tell others. Because you are afraid of making decisions, you rely heavily on asking others for their opinions and trying to let others help you make decisions. This is actually a sign of fear of taking responsibility. Try to be bold and make the happiest decision after analyzing everything, and then stand up in time if something happens. Never shirk responsibility and avoid taking the blame for your own mistakes in judgment, but when the blame comes, you must bravely bear it.

9. Being in a hurry, panicking, and making a fuss (a big-hearted, weak person) will lead to chaos when encountering problems. The first reason is that the risks have not been estimated in advance and the solutions have not been thought out. I have never seen strong winds and waves, and my lack of experience is partly to blame. Let’s see more and feel more. When you see someone else being abused, you can think more about what you would do if it happened to you.