What kind of beauty is a sexy girl to the extreme?

What kind of beauty is a girl who is extremely sexy?

I think most women, like me, are probably living in a very ordinary way. What age, what to do, everything is so well-behaved, according to the trajectory set early, step-by-step life.

But there are still some girls who dare to live different from us, fearless, free and willful. In my opinion, this is the real ultimate sexy.

do you dare to be different from others?

Vivin, my classmate, is 35 years old, single and a gold collar of a famous enterprise.

at least one third of the time in a year is on the road.

Turning to her circle of friends, my maverick female classmate went to Nepal some time ago and walked through Annapurna Base Camp. Generally, it takes at least 7 days to reach the finish line. She wanted to challenge herself and successfully crossed it in only five days. These five days are not going flat, but going up and down in the mountains. By the end of the race, it was the evening of the fifth day. She was so tired that the weather changed suddenly and she was frozen all night. But on the sixth morning, when she opened her eyes, there was a vast white snow-capped mountain in front of her, shining with holy light in the morning light. All her fatigue was swept away at that moment. She was so excited as a child, jumping and laughing, and took many photos of her invincible youth. She said that at that moment, she was especially grateful to God.

Looking forward, she stayed in the Potala Palace in Tibet for half a month, stopping and stopping. On the way, she met street artists of all walks of life singing. Sometimes, she stepped forward and sang along with them. When she met familiar songs, she suddenly became closer to them, listening to their wandering stories, telling their own scandals or jokes on the trip, and feeling the years like songs. What moved her most was that every day when she saw the devout worshippers and heard the familiar melody, her heart would be moved by it, and she often burst into tears.

the publishing company asked me to find some literary pictures because of the preparation of a new book, and I immediately thought of her. So I paged her on WeChat. She was very frank and agreed at once. Then we chatted for a while.

"Girl, are you married?"

"I'm not faint."

"a free life is enviable."

"If you don't play by the routine, you usually have to bear a lot of pressure to see what you want. Hey. "

"Happiness is the most important thing."

"Yes, life is too short, so try to live what you want."

"You did what others dared to think but didn't dare to do, such as me."

"You have your happiness."

After chatting with her, I suddenly remembered an advertisement: "Always young, always in tears, always on the road." It seems to be written especially for her.

Think about yourself and look at most people around us. We are busy for life, saving money for work, buying a house and a car, and the child has a second child, so we can't be idle for a moment. It is euphemistically called "success in the secular sense" and become "the winner in life in the eyes of others".

It seems that only in this way can we find a poor sense of existence in the crowd.

We are covered with all kinds of labels, such as other people's wives, parents' daughters, children's mothers, the supervisor of the unit … except ourselves.

gradually, we also get used to it and become numb. We never ask whether our hearts are happy or not, and whether this is the life we want.

Ordinary people's life, after 25 years old, is not to pursue their dreams, but to get married in a hurry, fearing to become a leftover woman in others' eyes. By the age of 3, if they are still single, it is simply a "paradise", and they are extremely guilty. In the face of other people's strange eyes, they look down on themselves. At this time, as long as they are a man, as long as they are alive, no matter what their conduct is, they are.

We are always afraid that even if we are a little different from others, we will become the laughing stock of others.

This is nothing more than to fulfill a woman's mission at a certain node, and then continue to live someone else's life with various labels for the rest of her life.

there is no longer the word "brave" in life.

"The days when you don't dance are a disappointment to your life!" When we were young, we were all white teenagers, full of poetry in our hearts, but they all disappeared with age.

We envy a girl like Vivin, who is in her thirties and can still live so bravely and willfully. That face is still full of youthful vigor, sitting on the jeep head, dressed in gypsy woman's costume, with a bright smile on her face, which is really charming.

Look in the mirror, and then look at ourselves. This middle-aged face has already become blurred, with dull eyes, and life has worn away all the edges and corners.

A female classmate wrote on her qq chat: Don't complain that life is boring at any time. What is boring is the lifestyle you choose. What I pursue in this life is true love and freedom. If I can't meet the person I love, if the person I love can't give me freedom, what's the harm if I face the joys and sorrows alone? Live a happy-go-lucky life with fearless spirit.

when you see this, you will definitely say how boring it is to live alone.

No, people live a very full life every day. After work, they keep running for many years and have a good figure. When wearing jeans, they show a beautiful vest line, and their female friends blush and heartbeat. Not to mention male animals!

Only such a girl can "talk big": being loved all her life is a blessing and luck; It is strength to be chased all your life!

Beneath the Uber's appearance, a queen's heart is obvious.

The first thing that women get old is not their looks, but their desperate enterprising spirit.

Only a woman who is independent of others, keeps herself curious about the world forever, loves life and tries the unknown can be called the ultimate sexy.

A woman's name is weak, and she often has to submit to social norms. She should be obedient when she goes to school, get married when she reaches a certain age, and hurry to have a child after marriage. When the child grows up, the whole family should take good care of it, and friends and relatives should not be careless.

in this process, it seems that we are all involved, but there seems to be no shadow of ourselves. In fact, what affects us is not social ethics, but resignation rooted in our hearts, and we dare not make our own voices, do what we like, or even love the people we love.

Ordinary life has ordinary happiness, stability, no waves, not very good, and it seems not bad.

and those who break the routine, they live their own state, live the life they want, don't care about others' eyes, and don't ask others for comfort and pity. From the perspective of the truth of life, this is a vigorous and energetic life.

Sexiness does not come from exquisite makeup and beautiful clothes, but from the inside out. Love life and life, love yourself and control your own life path. No matter how old you are, you can live a vibrant life. It is these spiritual cores that make you sexy. It is these that make us realize what is the freedom of life.

A really sexy girl never becomes a good person or a perfect person in others' eyes!