My best friend was very calm after the breakup, but I feel that she is often distracted. How should I let her come out?

We have all faced breakups, and breakups are very painful. After all, it is not easy to separate a person from the familiar living habits, leave the person who was very familiar to you, and leave the relationship that made you feel familiar and safe. So it is normal to feel depressed after a breakup. We all will also go through this stage when facing a breakup. First of all, everyone should look at this incident with a good attitude.

We all know that after a breakup, there will be a surge of emotions, such as low self-esteem, unwillingness, anger and resentment. My best friend seemed very calm after the breakup, but the subject felt that she was often distracted. It proves that the subject of the question is an observant and meticulous person, which is very worthy of recognition, and you want your best friend to get out of the predicament and face a new life, which proves that there is a true friendship between the two of you. Only true friendship will help you. The other side gets through it. We are also touched by the friendship between the two of you. But what I need to tell the subject here is that relying on your strength alone is useless. You can only rely on your best friend to do this.

In the matter of breaking up, except for yourself to figure it out, accept it strongly and work hard to get out of the shadow, others can only assist in the end and cannot be of much help. As the saying goes, the most important thing is the passing of a relationship. It's time and new love. As best friends, we can introduce a few reliable opposite sexes to our good friends who have broken up, or we can take her out to relax and relax. The most important thing is to let your best friend know that a breakup is a breakup. From now on, her ex will have nothing to do with her. She cannot dwell on the past and want to know what her ex is up to. This is stupid.

As friends, we can't help much with the breakup. All the pain needs to be digested and experienced by your best friend. After all, you will never be able to protect her from wind and rain all your life. Choosing to travel is a good choice. Get to know more good friends and expand your circle of friends, so that you will not fall into a pessimistic state all the time.