What is the state of a full-time nanny at home?

What's it like to be a stay-at-home mom? I've been at home full-time for almost four years, which can be summarized in the following words.

1 Busy

Many people think that it's just taking care of children. How easy and relaxing it is. Children can sleep with them. If they are hungry, they can feed them. When they play, they can watch their mobile phones by themselves. However, is this really the case? No, it's actually very busy to take care of the children at home full time.

working hours are 24 hours, with no rest. Children are not machines, they don't sleep when you want them to, and they play when they want them to. There are too many uncontrollable factors. My family is two boys, and the destructive power is not as simple as doubling. It's hard to clean up the tidy house, and you'll make a mess in less than five minutes. Three meals a day, urge the big ones to eat, and then feed the small ones. Finally, I quickly grabbed a few mouthfuls of rice to eat and clean up the messy dining table. During the lunch break, the older one fell asleep, the younger one was still excited, and finally the younger one fell asleep, and the older one woke up. So I have no rest again. Every day is trivial, seemingly insignificant, but in fact it takes a lot of time to complete.

2 tired

I am tired physically and mentally. The most tiring thing about taking care of children at home full-time is that I can't do one thing continuously with peace of mind. For example, let's eat. It's so simple and enjoyable. It's a pleasure to sit and eat a meal without being tired. However, for me, eating is also very tiring. I arranged for two children to play with toys, trying to have a full meal quietly, but I couldn't eat a few mouthfuls. The crying came, and my brother destroyed my brother's toys, and my brother pushed my brother again, all kinds of complaints. Continue to eat after processing, and the little one wants to join in the fun. I'm eating, and he's doing it. If anyone doesn't pay attention, he'll knock over the good food in minutes. A ten-month-old baby can't expect to reason with him. After a meal, I am also very tired, not to mention other things.

if family members don't understand, they are also tired. Scientific parenting with painstaking thoughts, but there are always all kinds of empiricism of the older generation that make you tired of explaining.

when a child is ill, it is even more exhausting. Children's resistance is low, and colds and fever are inevitable. Sick children are particularly noisy and clingy. The child has been hanging on his mother like a koala, and no one follows him. I can't sleep well at night. I have to get up countless times to see if my child has a fever and is there anything uncomfortable.

3 blessings

This blessing can be happiness, good fortune and good fortune ...

Stay-at-home mothers are very busy and tired, but they are also very happy. Looking at daily growing, a child whom I have taken good care of, I feel a sense of accomplishment. Every progress of the child is gratifying.

I am lucky to have two healthy and lively babies, and I am very lucky to be with him every day.

Many of my friends are stay-at-home mothers, and I have never dared to be a stay-at-home mother. I once experienced the state of being a full-time nanny for a week. I can only say that I felt terrible, so I gave up. My mother will go back to her hometown in a few days. I take my baby alone. Every morning, I get up to make breakfast. After breakfast, I have to tidy up my home. I have to start preparing lunch at noon. I will drive my baby to the Children's Palace at once and finish at 12 o'clock. After that, I will drive home to make lunch. After lunch, I will let my children take a lunch break, clean up after lunch break, and prepare dinner. After dinner, you should do the laundry. Every day I live in a busy process. The core of these busy lives is for others, not for myself. So I have very little time to myself, very little.

I'll start with my Dabao going to kindergarten. My family Dabao started kindergarten at the age of two and a half. At that time, I was pregnant with Erbao (five or six months). I got up at six o'clock every morning to make breakfast, wash clothes, help Dabao get dressed, and it was almost eight o'clock after breakfast. Then I started to send my children to school and stopped by to buy food. I went back to prepare lunch, and it was almost ten o'clock to wash and cut the dishes. Kindergarten finishes school at 1: 5, so it's time to pick up the children when everything is ready, so there are only a few minutes to rest at noon. Steam the rice before picking up the children before cooking. It's a little easier in the afternoon. You can go shopping or rest at home after seeing the children off, and then pick them up when it's time. So busy every day ...

When Dabao was almost three years old, Erbao was born, too. You can imagine how hard my life is ... Every day at home, it's like fighting, crying and screaming. Dabao hasn't packed up yet, and Erbao has been urinating and defecating … After Erbao May and June, he began to know how to fight for things and protect food. After I can walk, sometimes the two children start fighting, complaining, or doing bad things together for something. Anyway, the situation is constant … I cry and laugh for a while, and it rains for a while, and I feel like I'm crazy.

When I go to kindergarten, I mainly play with my teachers, and I have little homework. When I go to primary school, that's a sour feeling. If I don't learn from my mother's kindness and filial piety, I will learn to fly a dog and jump … for my own sake.