It is difficult for younger brothers and sisters to have children. Tell me about it.

Editor/Lu Nan

Irene Wan was born in Hongkong on 1966. She has eight brothers and sisters, four brothers and three sisters. She is the youngest daughter in the family.

Irene Wan was born in Sihui City, Guangdong Province. Her father moved to Hong Kong before she was born and was placed in Tiaojingling.

The living environment there is simple and the eaves leak all the year round. A family 10 people are crowded in a small room of 30 square meters, so they can only squeeze into the upper and lower bunks.

Dad is a veteran. When he went to Hong Kong with his family, he had nothing. You can imagine how difficult it is for this couple to raise eight children.

This also led to the fate that Irene Wan, the youngest daughter who should have been cherished by her family, was almost sold by her parents when she was young.

The family is poor all the year round. Children at home will go out to work to earn money to subsidize their families after graduating from primary school. Some children can't even go to school. Irene Wan's elder sister loves reading very much, but she had to drop out of school for her younger siblings.

Material poverty worries parents. After the birth of the youngest daughter, the family's economy became more difficult. Mother had to grit her teeth and stubbornly decided to give Irene Wan to someone else to raise.

One day, my mother took Irene Wan to see an uncle. She saw her uncle give her money, and then her mother asked her to go with her uncle.

According to Irene Wan's later recollection, the uncle had a good family condition and loved her very much, but she didn't want to leave her parents, brothers and sisters.

She began to cry, but refused to leave. As a young girl, she has always believed that no matter how difficult it is, she should not be separated from her family.

Every child is a mother's pet, and no mother wants to leave her children. The mother suddenly relented and cried with her little daughter in her arms.

Fortunately, God is merciful. My kind uncle didn't take her away, but left the money alone.

Irene Wan went back to her familiar hut and her brother and sister who loved her.

She didn't resent her mother. Years later, when she talks about her mother, she will still unconsciously show admiration: my mother is great, and our family depends on her. She is a person I admire very much.

But Irene Wan will never forget this nightmare day.

Even if she can empathize with her parents' difficulties, she knows that their parents don't really want to abandon her, just want her to stay away from the bad living environment, receive a good education and grow up carefree.

But many things have happened, and nothing can erase them. It is almost inevitable. This experience has left a lifelong shadow in her heart.

After that, the mother completely broke the idea of sending her little daughter away and cherished it even more.

Life seems to be no different from the past, but the special experience has deeply stimulated the young Irene Wan, and her inner world is inevitably changing.

After that, she secretly made up her mind to make things better at home through her own efforts.

Slowly, Irene Wan's personality became more and more independent and self-centered. She kept telling herself that only by becoming strong can she control her own destiny.

With the freedom you want, you won't fall into a miserable childhood again.

Irene Wan went to middle school, slim and graceful, but her personality is more rebellious than that of girls of her age. She ran away from home, smoking and drinking.

/kloc-started dating a bad girl at the age of 0/4, and her parents became more and more strict with her, but in exchange for her growing rebound, she began to stay up late.

Because of the noise at home, in order to get rid of her parents, Irene Wan moved out of the house and rented a house alone as soon as she became economically independent. That year, she was only 15.

Irene Wan, who tasted the sweetness for the first time, strengthened her determination to develop in the entertainment industry.

Although Irene Wan never wanted to be an actress, fate gave her a beautiful face and an innate talent for acting, which doomed her to embark on this road.

198 1, Irene Wan, who was walking on the road, caught the attention of David Lai and Wen Juan, and both of them shone at the same time. The girl's appearance fits the role in their film.

It turns out that Wen Juan is preparing a film "Lonely Fifteen" that reflects the juvenile problem, and is struggling to find a candidate for female No.2 Irene. At this time, Irene Wan, who looks pure and smart, just appeared in his sight.

They stopped Irene Wan and excitedly asked her if she was interested in going to an audition and a movie. They handed Irene Wan a business card and invited her to audition the next day.

"These two people are not liars, are they?"

The doubts raised in my heart made Irene Wan hesitate, but curiosity prevailed.

With a playful attitude, Irene Wan went to the audition excitedly.

After a short communication, Wen Juan was keenly aware that there was a rebellious heart under Irene Wan's beautiful appearance. When she finished reading the lines, they immediately made a decision on the candidate.

Irene Wan, whose appearance is pure and clever, but her character is rebellious and unruly, and her internal and external contrast is great, is simply the perfect candidate for Irene.

Irene Wan, who is still in ignorance, stepped into the entertainment circle, filmed his debut "Lonely Fifteen" and nominated for the Best Newcomer Award in the Second Hong Kong Film Awards.

Irene Wan's first salary was 6000 yuan, ten times that of his father.

When he was a teenager, Irene Wan decided to give up his studies and formally signed a two-year contract with Johnny Mak.

At that time, Irene Wan was a minor and had to be accompanied by his family when signing the contract. But his father disagreed: "15 years old, you are filming, don't study?"

Mother is also worried that Irene Wan is not doing well in school. Later, under her pleading, her mother let go of her promise. After all, she has always felt guilty about her little daughter.

When her mother finally persuaded her father to help Irene Wan sign the contract, the conservative and tenacious woman finally burst into tears. Under the daughter's repeated comfort and assurance, the contract was successfully completed.

Irene Wan finally managed to get the job he liked and pursue the freedom of his dreams.

1983, the film Love Can't Stop, which was co-produced by Irene Wan and Andy Lau, was a big box office sale, and Irene Wan came into the eyes of more people. Her humble, stubborn and sad Pei Jun made many audiences tense their hearts.

The audience felt sad and angry at his misfortune, and they began to expect more and better works from Irene Wan.

At this time, Irene Wan's contract with the company expired.

Irene Wan, whose career is booming, made a decision that surprised everyone: to go back to school.

Why did Irene Wan leave show business and her favorite job?

Did you find that from Lonely Fifteen to Skillful Schoolgirl to Love Can't Stop, almost all the roles played by Irene Wan are rebellious problem girls?

The girl who smokes and drinks and doesn't come home at night in the play is so much like Irene Wan!

Perhaps the characters in the film touched her, or perhaps the growth of age made her finally realize her willfulness. Irene Wan finally moved from lush to mature, and the rebellious problem girl became a good girl.

With the ardent expectations of my parents, I will pick up my books and go back to school.

Two years later, Irene Wan returned to film after graduation.

This time, her parents never stopped her.

1992, the fire rose made Irene Wan popular all over the mainland. She interprets the tide girl as a flame-like woman, and the tide girl with long waves and shawls becomes an eternal classic in the hearts of the audience.

Twenty-nine years have passed, and no one dares to remake The Fire Rose, because there is no such perfect hostess as Irene Wan.

Just as Irene Wan's acting career was booming, a large-scale movie made Irene Wan suffer from the waterloo of his career.

1995, Irene Wan and Yam Tat-wah co-produced the film Mutation. In order to make the film present the best effect, she decided to break the established image and make an unprecedented bold breakthrough.

Never thought that her bold performance became the biggest stunt at that time, turning the suspense thriller Surprise into a romantic movie.

Many viewers can't stand the change of Desire for Women. Since then, the criticism of Irene Wan has become louder and louder.

Irene Wan didn't expect that his efforts and sacrifices for art met with overwhelming criticism.

She doesn't understand why the audience can't see the proper value of the film, don't pay attention to the plot, but always hold on to her.

The low point of her career discouraged her, and she fell into deep confusion.

It rained all night. At this moment, Irene Wan received a phone call, and her father had a heart attack. When she got to the hospital, she couldn't even see her father for the last time.

A double blow from the sky almost brought Irene Wan down. She deeply realized the sadness that her son wanted to raise and not kiss. She has never been able to accompany her father well, but she has never had a chance again.

Unresolved depression and guilt made her lose her mind. She quit her job and can't record any more. She went abroad alone and spent a whole year healing.

Unexpectedly, Irene Wan, who has gone abroad, has tasted the taste of "a lost mulberry in the east corner".

From 65438 to 0996, Irene Wan met the most important person in his life, his later husband He Zuguang.

With the nourishment of love and the care of her boyfriend, Irene Wan walked out of the trough of her life and turned over a new chapter in her life.

The only boyfriend she admitted, and her later husband, He Zuguang, entered the public eye after years of marriage.

He Zuguang, a wealthy Hong Kong businessman, is He's nephew.

Returnees, rich, romantic and perfect men are his labels. The marriage between Irene Wan and He Zuguang is like an unspeakable beautiful fairy tale.

Although their meeting was not romantic, they met with various obstacles in the early stage of communication.

Because of the great difference in life background, Irene Wan was questioned by people around He Zuguang.

After all, in the eyes of outsiders, Irene Wan is a female star in the entertainment circle, and she has made passionate scenes, which is by no means a good match for He Zuguang in life.

During that time, rumors spread to He Zuguang, and we don't know if he ever wavered.

Knowing this, Irene Wan made a decision that all women admired: breaking up.

You are very nice, and I like you, too.

But if you listen to others' words and question me and don't want to trust me any more, I will leave proudly and never appear by your side again, because such feelings are not what I want.

Irene Wan has always lived a sober life, and he is by no means a useless vase, whether for his career or his feelings.

Because of this, proud, stubborn and independent Irene Wan completely won He Zuguang's heart.

After they got back together, He Zuguang took Irene Wan to heart and treated her better than before.

He Zuguang sincerely cherished Irene Wan. He made every effort to create one romance after another in Irene Wan's life and wrote one unforgettable memory after another.

In order to surprise his girlfriend, He Zuguang carefully designed a romantic proposal ceremony, a grand birthday party, the witness of relatives and friends, and a diamond ring hidden in her handbag. Is it like a proposal in an idol drama?

Because Irene Wan didn't know, he almost ate the diamond ring.

Many years have passed, and when Irene Wan recalled the scene at that time, his face was filled with a very happy expression.

Irene Wan still remembers the romance of the wedding. Against the backdrop of gorgeous fireworks, Ran Ran, a lantern carrying happiness, rises in Ran Ran in the night sky, just like the stars in the sky.

Irene Wan got all the girls' dreams.

Moreover, He Zuguang respects Irene Wan's career very much, and Irene Wan can still film, sing and take photos after marriage.

Even during the interaction, he watched Surprise with Irene Wan.

This man is really in love with Irene Wan. Irene Wan didn't want children, so he accepted.

Suddenly one day, Irene Wan wanted to adopt a child, and he supported his wife unconditionally.

The application started in 2009, 20 1 1, and He Zuguang finally got their child: He.

If the husband is like this, what can the wife ask for?

Some people say that Irene Wan doesn't know when he is happy. In order to keep fit and beautiful, he cut off her husband's blood.

After all, women who don't have children will only face the doubts of their families, while female stars who don't have children not only have pressure from their families, but also face heated discussions from outside.

At that time, all kinds of speculation, Irene Wan has its own explanation.

In an interview, she said that witnessing her sister's pregnancy experience made her afraid of having children.

Pregnancy will make you ugly, deformed, nervous and depressed, and you can't stand the process of giving birth, even if you like children.

Great, Irene Wan was not only criticized as extremely selfish, but also rose to her attitude towards marriage.

After all, maybe all this has something to do with Irene Wan's early experience of being almost sold by his parents.

Everyone has deep wounds that can't be faced or healed. Time will pass and memory will fade, but the original energy has already been stored in the body, and memory is in the cell, appearing in different stages of life with different faces.

The pain inside can't be easily erased. I don't want to go through the pain of my childhood, get hurt again, and something uncontrollable will happen again.

When aware of possible dangers, people's subconscious will jump out to protect themselves, which is instinct.

Zhang Defen said: Many people spend their whole lives healing their childhood.

Some unpleasantness and crises in life are actually related to their parents.

Once you have experienced the pain that you suppress or dare not feel, you will not be dominated by unconscious programs.

Applause, flowers, disaster and pain are all precious gifts given by fate. The hardships of childhood have created Irene Wan's strong heart.

After the storm, fate especially cared for this maverick woman. Irene Wan has everything in love, career and family, and she has become what women expect most.

However, when a beautiful woman is dying, the so-called frozen age goddess is only a moment of eternity. Although the rhyme is still there, it has begun to look old.

If Irene Wan is mentioned again, people will still remember the truly beautiful "Su Daji".