My husband is too narrow-minded and obviously opposed to my relatives. How embarrassed am I?

First of all: the relationship between people is actually very subtle; Your husband is not necessarily narrow-minded;

Actually, you weren't there. What happened at that time was a very good idea. You want to ease the relationship between relatives, and you also intend to. Then you can call your cousin's husband, you can invite your cousin's husband to come, and then you take the initiative to communicate with them, and don't mention the things of that year; Some things are boring to say too much, and it is meaningless to mention them again; No need to apologize; Just ask you to come, which means to apologize;

Your husband has ideas about each other, and the other person has ideas about your husband. It's okay for them not to communicate with each other. But you are the intermediate link, you are the lubricant, and the active person should be you. I hope you can promote this relationship. When you take the initiative to solve this problem instead of letting two people who are already in conflict deal with it, you have successfully touched them in their hearts.

Your efforts, your husband and your cousin will be moved, and everyone is not bitter, but actually a little unhappy.

Above, I hope it will help you. I wish you a smooth job, a happy life and all the best.