Five selected essays on vanity and comparison.

Refusing to compare is a state of mind, and refusing to compare is a state of mind. The following are five selected essays on vanity and comparison that I have compiled for you. Let's take a look at them!

Selected five argumentative essays on vanity and comparison (1)

As the saying goes, "Man struggles upwards, but water flows downwards." In this ever-changing society, people are often eager to develop, pursue advanced and "go higher", which is of course inevitable!

The whole world is developing in constant competition, comparison and comparison. However, when the tide and atmosphere of competition and comparison affect people at all levels, people will have different understandings and practices. Everyone seems to understand that only by continuous competition can we make progress and not be eliminated and abandoned. However, some people have entered the "misunderstanding" and misunderstood competition and comparison!

Some students like to compare money and material things. They often look at money, clothes and daily necessities, and even compare them with their own financial resources; However, some students regard comparison as a friendly competition. At school, homework; In sports competitions, even among students, advanced classes and the like, we should actively strive for the upper reaches! It is precisely the nature of these two comparisons that is completely different!

Students who love money often grow up in a rich family environment, and everything pursues high-grade, luxury and style. Over time, they formed a vanity mentality, thinking that no matter what kind of community, they should be better than others, but they never thought that everything he got was not his own efforts, but his parents reached out for it. But most parents' wealth also depends on their own efforts and hard work! But these students don't understand that happiness and rich material life don't fall from the sky!

Those students who dare to compare their study and progress are truly ambitious and talented! They know that only through their own efforts, with their own sweat can they achieve results, win honors and succeed!

Faced with these two different motives and the results of comparison, what choice should we make? How to cheer up our spirits from comparison? How to make your academic progress, physical and mental health and make more friends through competitions? I think everyone who lives in the real society will have the right choice! I also believe that relying on mutual supervision and help among our students will gradually turn those incorrect comparisons that pursue honor, vanity and luxury into positive and correct friendly competition. Compared with learning, progress, unity and contribution, only in this way can we adapt to the future real society and make some contributions to the motherland and society!

Let's join hands to resist social comparison and welcome friendly "comparison"!

Five argumentative essays on vanity and comparison (2)

In the process of growing up, everyone will inevitably make mistakes, and I have made mistakes, but this makes me understand a truth: don't compare with others because of vanity.

That day, the students were talking endlessly about a question: what magazine to buy. It turns out that the teacher sent us a pictorial of magazine subscription a few days ago. After subscribing to the magazine, we will also send colorful prizes, which makes people want to order more.

During the break, Xiao Ming, the deskmate, proudly shouted, "Isn't it amazing that Dad will buy me four kinds of magazines?"

Xiao Hao behind him looked at Xiao Ming with disdain and said loudly, "What are you?" ! My dad gave me 300 yuan to buy magazines this time! "

This sentence made the students explode and have a heated discussion about how many kinds of magazines my father bought for himself and how powerful it was. ...

Suddenly, Xiaoming pointed at me and said, "Hey, how many magazines did your father buy for you?" My face turned red in an instant, and I couldn't wait to find a crack in the ground, because my father liked to buy me classic literary works and didn't like to buy me magazines. He also said that it was a fast food book and had no nutrition. I was also secretly angry and felt that my father was too stingy. Everyone else in the class laughed when they saw it, and then dispersed in a hubbub and went to the other side to compete.

I came home angrily and said to my father, "Dad, my classmates bought many kinds of magazines, and I want to buy them!" " "

Dad smiled and said, "Do you subscribe to so many magazines because you want to learn more extracurricular knowledge, or because other students subscribe more?" I bowed my head in embarrassment. In fact, my parents bought me a lot of extra-curricular books, many of which I haven't read yet! Dad looked at me and said, "knowledge needs to be accumulated bit by bit, not greedy." Don't compare the number of extracurricular books with others because of vanity. It is a wise choice to choose the book that interests you most. "

"But I really like that military magazine. Can I just order one? "

"If you really like reading, you can order two books. If you want it just because someone else owns it, I won't book it for you. "

It turns out that dad is not as stingy as I thought. He just doesn't want me to get into the bad habit of keeping up with the joneses. When I think about it, I feel that he is not as generous as other people's fathers, so I get angry and my face burns. ...

I suddenly realized, and said to my father, "I know, to develop good study habits, we should compare who has a better learning attitude, makes faster progress and is more polite ..."

Dad didn't speak, just looked at me approvingly and touched my head. ...

Although I only ordered two magazines, I was extremely happy, because I understood another truth: "Don't compare with others because of vanity", which is more important than the book knowledge I learned!

Five argumentative essays on vanity and comparison (3)

Everyone has a very strange psychology. It's about envy and jealousy.

I saw a story before. A man was very happy to wear a new dress one day, but when he arrived at work, he saw other colleagues wearing new clothes. When he asked about the price and brand, it was more expensive than his own and upscale. Originally happy mood, because of this contrast, suddenly depressed.

A man bought a new car. He was very happy at first, but he saw that his neighbor also bought a new car, which was higher than himself. The joy of buying a new car was immediately destroyed by this small comparison.

That's what people do. If you see strangers with tens of millions of luxury cars and hundreds of millions of luxury houses, it's okay for you to say something sour casually. But for Zhang Si, who grew up together next door, having bought a new TV today and added new jewelry tomorrow, the feeling of envy and jealousy suddenly came out.

Then, I began to be unhappy for no reason.

In fact, everyone understands the truth. This is giving your emotional password to someone else.

The good and bad of others directly become their own emotional switches. Even if they are in a good mood, the result is affected by that little vanity and small comparison.

I think this kind of psychology is morbid, although most people will have this kind of mentality. It's just that some people have high self-control, and some people try to suppress this negative mentality with a positive attitude.

As Mr Jiang Yang said, we think too much and read too little.

If you really walk into the ocean of books, in that vastness, you will know how insignificant that little vanity and small comparison are.

Five argumentative essays on vanity and comparison (4)

In the Western Jin Dynasty, Shi Chong and Wang Kai were very rich. Wang Kai used silks and satins as curtains on the 40-mile road, and Shi Chong surrounded the 50-mile road into a gorgeous corridor. Wang Kai learned that the coral of the emperor's nephew was two feet high, which is rare in the world. Shi Chong took an iron mill and took out his corals, each three or four feet high. Shi Chong's generosity is beyond the average person's reach, but the heart of comparison is really everyone's.

It is said that even during the financial crisis, the sales of luxury goods in China are soaring, because if an ordinary employee saves money and buys a Coach bag, her supervisor will definitely throw away the original bag and buy a more expensive Gucci bag, and then the senior supervisor will have to buy a more expensive and upscale bag when he sees that the middle supervisor actually uses the same style as her. China people are probably afraid of poverty, so if they have money, they should show off their wealth, and if they have no money, they should also show off their wealth and compare with each other. This is a deformed culture. In fact, Shi Chong in ancient times and some rich people who spend money like water in contemporary times are caught in a strange circle, that is, they have a mentality of pursuing self-satisfaction by showing off their wealth. High-end goods, in their consciousness, have become a symbol of wealth, status and identity.

Everyone knows that it is not good to compare with others, but it is difficult to say "no" to it. Political books have long told us that we should reject improper consumption caused by comparison psychology and establish real values. However, when we see the disdain and ridicule in the eyes of others, and when we see that those people are consciously superior because of famous brands, have those "unmoved by ambition" been left behind?

Do you just want to "compete" with others to get rid of the shame of being underestimated? The prevailing trend of comparison is not the fault of one person, but the fault of a society. From clothes to houses and cars, from parents to children, there is always something worth working for. A morbid competitiveness is rooted in people's hearts and makes the world crazy and chaotic. 16-year-old boy selling kidney to buy iphone4 is just an extreme example. How many children quarreled with their parents to buy a better bike? Who knows?

Many people say that money does not bring death, and money does not show off. So, what did Shi Chong show off by taking wealth as his enemy? We all remember a rich man, Shi Chong, who despised his personality under the guidance of a Chinese teacher. Who else remembers that he was also a writer, Shi Chong, and Shi Chong, whose lyrics and songs were all good?

It's hard to refuse comparison, but always refuse. It is a naked vanity, which unconsciously makes people give up the nourishment of personality and indulge in the temporary happiness brought by material things. If one person does this, it will harm the whole family: if all people do this, the rise of the country is only an illusion: it is still difficult to protect themselves, how can we talk about revival?

It's better to do something meaningful if you have money, and don't do boring things like comparison if you don't have money.

Five argumentative essays on vanity and comparison (5)

Haizi said, from tomorrow on, be a happy person, feed horses, chop firewood, travel around the world, have a house facing the sea, and spring is blooming. What kind of peace and indifference is needed to make our hearts ride the sea breeze and listen to the sound of flowers.

There was once such a person. As far as family wealth is concerned, he has never been on par with others. He just keeps his humble and insignificant life, looking forward to becoming a happy person and looking forward to peace and security. How many times, facing the sea, I think of such a simple soul, how many times, spring blossoms, see such a calm time!

Refused to keep up with the pace of competition, I silently shouted in my heart, no matter how many brand-name clothes and money, they only satisfied the growing vanity, but they could not bring us unlimited hope of indifference.

You see, Shanghai, an extremely luxurious capital, is full of comparisons. In order to show their superiority and wealth, how many people at Bund 18 hold their savings for several months, just to buy a brand of clothes or a valuable bag, just to satisfy their heart of comparison; Lujiazui financial center is full of small white-collar workers, full of luxury and cocky. Although there is not much verbal communication, we can see disdain, irony and ridicule from their expressions, which is tantamount to feeling superior to others because of a famous brand. Comparison makes them lose themselves in life, comparison makes them so snobbish, and comparison makes this city so noisy and smoky! So I have always wanted to shout: refuse to compare, refuse nothingness and vulgarity, and create a peaceful and pure world in a luxurious city.

But this wind of comparison has blown into the campus, and many of our lovely classmates are also comparing with each other. Although there is no economic ability, it is still better than food and clothing. They are very avant-garde. Those with good family circumstances will "get ahead" and those with poor family circumstances will "catch up". Some even ignore the financial ability of their parents' families, only for this selfish interest, and with the help of their parents' love, they are shameless to satisfy that vanity. Compared with others, they have lost the direction of life, forgotten their conscientious responsibility as children, lost their dignity as human beings, and polluted the pure land of the campus! Refuse to keep up with the competition, regain the indifferent and peaceful mind of the deceased ancients, enjoy the leisure of "picking chrysanthemums under the east fence and seeing Nanshan leisurely", and quietly watch the night of "moonlight in the pine forest and crystal stone in the stream". Perhaps the grandiose wind of comparison will gradually fade away, and the campus should be clear and quiet!

Refuse to compare, refuse is a kind of nothingness, vulgar life.

Contrast is the cold wind in spring, the dew that never falls in summer, the withered leaves in autumn and the heavy snow in winter. Refuse to compare, let us enjoy the tenderness of spring, the coolness of summer, the harvest of autumn and the warmth of winter, and let this pleasant four seasons take away the consequences of comparison!

Refusing to compare is a state of mind, and refusing to compare is a state of mind. Let's refuse to compare, stay with Haizi, and be a happy person, facing the sea and blooming in spring.

Five papers on vanity and comparison were selected:

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