"I'm sorry, dear, I shouldn't have done this stupid thing. I was just too afraid that you would leave me." When you accuse him of some excessive behavior, a scumbag will often use this excuse to deal

"I'm sorry, dear, I shouldn't have done this stupid thing. I was just too afraid that you would leave me." When you accuse him of some excessive behavior, a scumbag will often use this excuse to deal with you. The genius of this move is to shift your focus from what stupid thing he did to why he did it because he loves you, that's the logic. 2. He will make you feel guilty all the time. There was once a saying that the most vulnerable time for a person is when he feels guilty. Therefore, in a relationship, if you are willing to be led by a scumbag, it is often because of you. The feeling of guilt you feel for falling into their trap and being caught by them. A scumbag will use various ways and means to convince you to feel guilty about your actions, even if you did nothing wrong, so that he knows you will be more willing to do what he says. For example, "Honey, tonight's dinner was great, although it's not as perfect as I imagined. I might want something else, but as long as you're happy, I don't care." Raising it first and then suppressing it not only calms your emotions, but also indirectly puts forward your own weird requirements. It seems very great, but in fact, is it okay if you like to eat it or not? A simple way to identify a scumbag: 1. A scumbag always seems self-righteous, likes to sarcastically compare to others, disrespects girls, and even likes to make irresponsible remarks to others, always acting condescending. 2. Scumbag men are irresponsible in their work and feelings. They do whatever they want. They run away from any problems without taking responsibility. This is the most typical characteristic, so women must be careful when interacting with such people. Think carefully. 3. Scumbag men especially like to lie. They don’t dare to admit when they have done something wrong. They are very face-conscious and talk about things all day long. When dating such a boy, a girl will not only waste her time but also her feelings. When dating a boy, You must listen carefully and don't fall into the whirlpool of love easily. Scumbags are unscrupulous at their core. 1. The common trait of scumbags is that they can act, and lying is as indispensable as breathing. The scumbag must be dazzling when he appears. No matter his appearance or personality, he is the same as the male lead in the TV series. He is always so sacred and charming, but what? All of this is staged. He just wants to use this skin to make you fall into his trap. Once he successfully conquers you, his true colors will be revealed immediately. 2. People say that scumbags are heartless, so they must be heartless and coldhearted. Their understanding of the word "friendship" is far shallower than that of ordinary people, which means that they have no concept of love. This is also true. This causes them to have misunderstandings about the relationship between men and women. They don't think lovers have an intimate relationship, or he suddenly said "I love you" to you today just to achieve the purpose of wanting to sleep with you today. In his eyes, any sweet words are just casual remarks. 3. Extremely controlling and possessive. The only thing they want to achieve is to successfully conquer you and treat you as one of their many trophies, rather than wanting to be with you. When you fall in love with a scumbag, you can easily feel the contrast between before and after they fall in love. They treat you like a treasure before they fall in love with you, but they treat you like a piece of shit after they fall in love with you.