How to get along with people with bad temper

We all live in this complicated real society. In this society, a person's ability is very limited, and it is difficult to achieve anything great, so we need to get along with others and make our own intimate friends. We grew up, it can be said that almost everyone can't avoid getting along with others. Of course, one or two of these people you want to get along with must have a bad temper. Maybe many people have a headache for them, because it is difficult to get along with them well. If you disagree, you will lose your temper. In the end, you may not even be friends and turn against each other. ?

Therefore, if you want to be comfortable in social interpersonal communication, you must learn how to get along with a person with a bad temper. On this issue, I have the following suggestions for your reference.

First, don't talk too much and leave room.

? Everyone feels the same way. If we talk too much in our daily life or work, there will always be people who are unhappy and say something to you. Why? In fact, the crux of the problem is that these people think that you have not considered the opinions of others, especially those with bad temper, which will cause their dissatisfaction. They will naturally have a problem with you. If you get along with them again, they will deliberately vent their previous dissatisfaction on you, thus making the relationship between the two sides tense and unable to communicate and get along normally. Therefore, when dealing with people, we must be cautious in words and deeds, especially not to talk too much and leave enough room. Such bad-tempered people will think that you respect them, so it will be much easier to get along with them.

Second, try not to play too many jokes on him.

We get along with friends, and many people have the habit of teasing and joking with each other as soon as they meet. For those who are generous and good-tempered, you make fun of my past indiscretions, and I will give you a shady story. Everyone is familiar with it and doesn't take it to heart. We were all passing by talking and laughing. But for a bad-tempered person, he can be happy to tell you something dark. It's not too bad if you joke with him in words. If he can't accept it a little, he will be furious with you, even turn against you, and finally he won't even have friends. Therefore, in the face of people with bad temper, we must remember not to play too many jokes with them. This will not make them angry, and then you can't save the situation caused by his losing control.

Third, be modest and tolerant when getting along with them.

There are many people in life who like to be unreasonable when they get along with others. They kept talking about each other, blushing and unable to answer back. A good-natured person will smile and say, "You are amazing and eloquent. I am willing to give up.". Please forgive me and stop talking. " That's over, but if the other person is a bad-tempered person and you are still aggressive, it will be difficult for them to control their emotions and lose their temper. The consequences can be imagined, from starting a fight with you to never seeing each other again. When you get along with people with bad temper, you must be modest and tolerant of their words and deeds, so that you can get along well with them although you may be wronged a little.

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