Which sister-in-law do you want to be?

? On a whim, I talked about two sisters-in-law, "Mrs. A Qing" and "Sister Xianglin".

? A Qing Sao, a character in Shajiabang, a Beijing opera, is a mature, alert, eloquent, smart and brave underground female worker with a unique and plump personality.

? She doesn't directly show her heroic revolutionary spirit in front of the enemy like Li Yuhe, nor does she express her revolutionary lofty sentiments like Yang Zirong. More often, she just talks eloquently, improvises and makes puns. In the battle of wits and wits, Madam skillfully took advantage of the contradictions of the enemy's infighting and her own advantages to take the initiative, skillfully passed information under the eyes of the enemy, organized villagers to cover the soldiers of the New Fourth Army, changed passive into active when the enemy threatened Grandma Sha's life, and cooperated with the New Fourth Army to win the battle.

Sister Xianglin in Lu Xun's Blessing lives in a society under the cruel rule of feudalism. Her life has experienced the great misfortune of her late husband remarriing and losing her husband and children. How unfortunate and lonely a woman like Xianglinsao needs the spiritual support of others! She told it to everyone, even to those children who are not sensible, and repeated it countless times before she reached the level of charting. Without any spiritual support, her numerous complaints turned the listener's initial sympathy into numbness, contempt and sneer.

Due to feudal ethics and superstition, remarried and widowed people will be punished by being sawed in half after death. Donate a threshold to be a body double before death, and you can reduce your sin. Sister Xianglin decided to donate the threshold, which was sad and regrettable at first. Sister Xianglin finally died silently, in the street surrounded by year-end blessings and in the sound of others' "blessings". What is even more infuriating is that her death brought a vicious scolding to Lv Si: "It's neither too early nor too late, but at this time-this is a fallacy!"

Sister Xianglin is so kind, quiet, lonely and pathetic. Where is she guilty? In a word: No matter how unfortunate, how willing to endure, how determined to struggle! -even if you donate more threshold and let millions of people step on it, it will be futile and doomed to be irreparable. Sister Xianglin's tragedy is deeply branded with this era and has its inevitability.

? Although Mrs. A Qing is in the forefront and her life is in danger at any time, she must fight the enemy. If she fails, she will die. I think a man should learn from her. He shouldn't be afraid of anyone or anything. He should try his best to at least not die. If it's a big deal, he should start all over again. People should have a little fighting spirit and backbone. Fight against heaven, fight against life, fight against yourself, and life will never stop fighting.

? Now in socialist society, the soil of "Sister Xianglin" tragedy has been completely eradicated. ? Today is the digital age, and the high speed of information dissemination is full of people's vision and hearing, and most of people's minds are thinking about maximizing economic benefits. Don't complain to everyone. Others have no time, energy or mood to listen to you. It's enough to be able to sit through it, not to mention the "Xianglinsao"-style wheeled chatter. It's unbearable. The complainer finally gains nothing more than two things: 1. If it is good, it will get some material support or verbal comfort from the flood of sympathy. 2. Bad ones will be rejected and despised, and they will stay away from them in the future.

Which sister-in-law do you like? Which one do you want to be?