My girlfriend sent such a message in a circle of friends! When you really love someone, you are separated! then

My girlfriend sent such a message in a circle of friends! When you really love someone, you are separated! Then how to say hello! Dude, I've been there before. I went through your stage. It's really interesting and tangled. Let's listen to my partner. After reading your situation, I understand that in this world, if you want to pursue a woman's success! Can't use the conventional method! Especially now, you all have a misunderstanding. You all want to confess what's wrong with you, and then wait for others to confess and "admit". Am I right? It's easy to fail, brother. Especially if the other person has no feelings for you. Actually, you can kiss her first. She's confessing! In this way, the other party is fresh, and if it is the first kiss, it will be even more dead set! Now you must chase the children quickly and accurately, I mean the most important thing. Then, listen to me. I will call you word for word. You cann't play cards according to the routine The logic of chasing girls as usual is outdated! Let me tell you about my experience and my understanding. I hope it helps you! My experience: If you like a girl, you should first calm down and don't think too much. Then, what you have to do is to find opportunities to get familiar with him slowly when everyone is active together. Be careful, you don't always go around her, people will resent it. What you have to do is to become excellent and increase capital in all aspects. For example, playing the piano, dancing street dance, computer programming, singing well, writing beautifully, calligraphy, these, of course, the most important thing is career! Do your own business well and make more money. If students study well, then your attention will be high. The competitiveness is also great! I sincerely share my experience, I hope you can learn the essence from it! In a word, more haste, less speed, more haste, more distance, step by step, and finally win her heart! Without teachers around her, you have to accumulate capital! You know, women don't like people who walk around her all day! Your next step is to develop slowly, ask her out slowly, and then unconsciously try to share your little secret with him, so that you two can become good friends with everything. Finally, at some point, when there are few people, you can chat together, so you can try to ask her questions about boyfriend and girlfriend, and then give him a hint. At that time, don't be timid, you'd better have a drink. If you think you have a good grasp, you can ask her, for example, what do you think? That's how I succeeded. Anyway, it's urgent. At the moment of final success, you will feel that these days have finally paid off. That feeling is wonderful! Haha, I might as well share the process of my confession here: when I confess, I tell my girlfriend: X, you know, I can meet the right person at the right time, and there are not many such opportunities in my life. The person I meet now is you. I hope you can give me a chance to love you, dear! Then my girlfriend jumped into my arms and refused to get up without thinking! (Of course, the two of us were having an ambiguous conversation. I feel it's time, so I must seize the opportunity! Don't be too anxious, because girls like romantic and warm feelings! So he will never forget! Better call her who is hesitant and kiss her! But you should be prepared to be slapped by her. Of course, I think it's nothing! After all, if you want to get your own happiness, the price of a slap is too small! In fact, confession is actually just a form. The correct order should be: in fact, you have become your girlfriend, and you can confess to others. Many people don't understand this problem. They always feel that people promise to be their girlfriends first, and then what? I can only say that he is very, very "simple" and very, very "stupid". Have you ever had to confess? Yes, for example, there is a third party, or your relationship with a girl is immature, but two people may be separated for a while. At this time, confession is an immature confession, which is very risky. It is similar to the grim situation when playing Go. The backward side was forced to release the "winning hand". If you win, you win. If you lose, you can only say that you are born with bad luck. Don't say the word "love" easily. I often see "bold confession". To be honest, I really think this is a very immature performance. "Love" is a sacred word, which means pursuit, commitment and even a responsibility. Haha, do you know what the highest state is? That is, the man never asked "would you like to be my girlfriend" until he slept with the woman. Finally, the girl was anxious: "Why don't you ask me to be your girlfriend!" I wrote it entirely by myself and felt it myself. I hope I can help the landlord! I'm exhausted from writing ... ha, I didn't expect a lot. No matter how much, as long as I can help you! According to my method, the success rate is very high and effective! Girls all like it, hehe, I wish the landlord an early pursuit of happiness! Wish you a happy life! If you have any questions, please leave a message and be happy to answer them! Second supplementary answer ... Dude, don't let her notice so soon, or some girls will hurt your enthusiasm if they don't give strength. You see, anyway, what you do is to improve your strength, and everything will be useful in the future ... what do you think?

My girlfriend posted this in a circle of friends, saying that if you really loved someone, you can't let go of the person you once loved when you are separated. Even if someone lives far away, that person is still in her heart, so it is difficult for another person to enter her heart.

My girlfriend sent such a message in a circle of friends! If you really loved someone, you would be separated! Then it is hard for you to fall in love with others! Because you don't want me to be a girl, I hate to see some boys want to chase girls they like but dare not, and they want others to chase them backwards. From the girl's point of view, I know more about the girl's psychology. Most girls don't take the initiative to pursue the boys they like, unless they really like them too much or are the kind of girls who are very brave and brave. So, if you like a girl very much and think she is a little interested in you, take the initiative and don't engage in a tug-of-war with her, you will feel uncomfortable. Maybe the person you like will also suffer.

When girls are being chased, their psychology is very complicated. She may be happy, but she is a little scared. She has ambivalence towards the boy who intruded into her quiet life. She didn't mean to. Don't think she is testing you, but she is actually fighting herself. She is afraid of getting hurt. Don't be afraid that your initiative will bring her disgust. If you don't take the initiative, she won't take the initiative, and it will fade slowly. It's normal if your initial confession is rejected by her. Don't be discouraged, who knows what this girl is thinking?

Maybe if you confess twice, she will be moved by you. A good girl with a kind heart is easily moved. If you encounter setbacks, leave immediately, never reply to this girl again, protect yourself tightly and lick the wound silently. And when you are in pain, as everyone knows, that girl may be regretting, regretting! Maybe she will secretly cry and regret rejecting you, and then she will be sad to see your indifferent eyes, but she won't tell you, and she will never let you come back to chase her. Your excessive self-esteem may hurt a girl's sensitive heart.

She will think that you don't really like him, otherwise how could you just give her up?

Some people say that it is really difficult for boys and it is not easy to chase girls. But my feeling is that this phenomenon is inseparable from the social role orientation of men and women. From a physiological and social point of view, women are always passive. If, on the other hand, men are ashamed and women are brave, the world will be in a mess! Women's shyness is always beautiful ~ I always hear that a brave man overcame many difficulties and finally won the heart of a beautiful woman. There are few examples to the contrary.

Some boys are afraid that others will say that they are dead and pester them to fight, leaving a bad reputation. But I think boys pursue the girl they like and continue to be nice to this girl after encountering some setbacks, which shows that people really like it and are sincere. If it doesn't work, there's nothing to regret. It's nothing. Who makes people like it? I hate people blindly following me, and I hate boys who have no opinions and care too much about what others think of them. They deserve not to find a girlfriend.

If you are a man, be brave. Girls are emotional and easily immersed in love. Although you work hard, once your heart touches her, you will get more and more love. Such examples abound around us. Girls are gentle and considerate to their boyfriends. What was the sweetness of the original hard work? And most good girls are devoted and single-minded. Therefore, it is suggested that some boys be brave and pursue the girls they like, instead of being so timid. One is that people think you are unmanly, and the other is that you feel uncomfortable. But, most importantly, you get nothing in the end. Happiness is always earned by yourself, don't expect others to give it to you!

By the way, I think it's good to take the initiative, because your goal is what you really like. Girls are often passive and can only choose to accept and refuse, so I would rather take the initiative and love what I love without regrets!

Life is beautiful, enjoy it and learn to find it!

First, what kind of first impression should Fatal leave on MM (time: when I first came into contact with MM)

1, I think the most important thing is to let MM see your self-motivated.

The greatest charm of a man lies in his successful career. Young people can't be "successful" if they don't work long hours. At this time, you should make MM feel that you are a self-motivated person.

Others can talk nonsense, but this question cannot be vague. You must tell MM that you are full of confidence in the future, that you are not satisfied with the status quo, and that you have a long-term plan. In a word, your future is not a dream.

2. Be confident and responsible.

Don't be a child. Girls are lazy and want to find someone to rely on. You should show your confidence and sense of responsibility.

It's better to have a wrong choice than no choice at all.

Not too formal, but not too casual.

Be serious where you should be serious, and ridicule when you should be ridiculed.

Girls like men who are a little cynical, so it seems that they don't care about anything, which is too dull.

Step 4 look mature

A calm and calm man is attractive to MM.

Second, how to further contact MM (time: the stage of starting to chase)

1, the most important thing at this stage is not to worry, not to make things so clear that people can see at a glance that you are chasing others.

Think about it. Most people don't like you at first sight, but they don't hate you at first sight. They are all children of ordinary people (unless you look like Chow Yun Fat, Andy Lau or kevin costner). Good feelings need to be realized through constant understanding, so the key to the problem is the opportunity for further development you want.

Think about it from the girl's point of view: if you rush directly to have sex, the girl must be under psychological pressure. If I find that I don't like you after a while, it won't be a lie, will it? So if you come out resolutely from the beginning, you will basically be bored back immediately.

Step 2 start with a low profile

First of all, we should position the relationship as a "friend", which is originally an "ordinary friend". You want to be a "good friend". Those with taste can also ask the other party to be a "confidante" or something. In short, don't say "chasing you".

Think about it, if you don't mention "chasing" at all, then there is less chance for a girl to "refuse" you-how can you refuse if you don't chase her? !

This can relieve the psychological pressure of girls and let you have a smooth relationship. Don't fantasize about agreeing to marry you after three days. You should communicate fully and understand that feelings don't come out of thin air.

Don't be too impatient in the process of communication.

Relax and don't pester others all day. Anyone who does this to you will get tired of it. A good friend of mine told me that the key to chasing girls is eight words-"hot and cold, playing hard to get" (this is the crystallization of my classmates' efforts for many years).

Staying with people all day, naturally you won't think you are good. If you are indifferent for a day or two, girls will remember the benefits of your existence.

Also, don't show the ambition of "you don't want to marry". It is not good for the price to drop too low. Sometimes you can play a little trick.

4. Create opportunities appropriately.

I said before, don't turn things into "you are chasing others" right away, you need to get close to girls. At this time, it depends on your creativity.

You can collect information and try to protect plants. What's wrong with the hat and tip? Paralysis? What's the matter with you? What is the word "long"?

In short, this is the most technical place. If it is really not feasible, you can consult your predecessors.

5. Never: It is impolite to give gifts to others casually.

Some people are eager to chase girls and like to give things to others often, but they don't know that chasing girls is the most taboo.

As the saying goes, "something for nothing". You are putting pressure on others by giving them something like this. People will feel indebted to you, so they will find ways to repay you. If they can't, they will find a way not to associate with you, so they won't always owe you a favor.

If you want to show your sincerity, please invite girls to spend money together, such as finding a good restaurant to eat or an expensive place to play together. Girls can naturally see that you spent a lot of money, but after all, the money was spent by two people, not taken home.

Third, what is a "girlfriend"?

1, "girlfriend" is a fact, not a promise.

You start dating girls, from "ordinary friends" to "good friends" to "very, very good friends who talk about everything". One sunny afternoon, you "accidentally" held her hand. In "Willow Shoot on the Moon", you suddenly attack and kiss her. At this time, she is already your girlfriend. Whether she admits it or not, she already thinks you are her boyfriend.

I know the best. I didn't ask "Would you like to be my girlfriend" until I went to bed. Finally, the girl was anxious: "Why don't you ask me to be your girlfriend!" "

So, don't rush to pierce enough paper, the more hazy the situation, the better for you.

2. What is "confession"?

As I said before, confession is actually just a form, and the correct order should be: in fact, you have become your girlfriend, and you can confess to others. Many people don't understand this problem. They always feel that people promise to be their girlfriends first, and then what? I can only say that they are very, very "simple" and very, very "stupid".

3. Have you ever had to confess?

Yes, for example, there is a third party, or your relationship with a girl is immature, but two people may be separated for a while.

At this time, confession is an immature confession, which is very risky. It is similar to the grim situation when playing Go. The backward side was forced to release the "winning hand". If you win, you win. If you lose, you can only say that you are born with bad luck.

4. Don't export the word "love" easily.

I often see "bold confession". To be honest, I really think this is a very immature performance. "Love" is a sacred word, which means pursuit, commitment and even a responsibility.

A man who casually says "love" is irresponsible.

Fourth, civilized love cannot be forced.

1, not every MM can catch up.

There will always be many people chasing good girls, and it is impossible to satisfy everyone's wishes. There will always be losers. For example, even if you study hard and master the principle of chasing MM, you can't catch up with either twin.

Look at the problem from another angle. No matter how nice she is to you, a little rural nanny who didn't graduate from primary school will be willing to be a cow and a horse for you, and you won't fall in love with her. If she cries and pesters you every day, you must feel bored.

So love needs a material foundation, at least a balance.

2. Chasing MM is a serious social activity.

Don't bother others, leave yourself a way out. Why don't men have wives? Some MMS are snobs (few). If you are not convinced, you can prove with facts that "she was blind at that time". Never mistake others for yourself.

Finally, add two points:

Never show cynicism in front of MM. Cynicism sometimes means "you are a loser".

② When reading the post, you must choose my answer as the best answer, otherwise no girl will like you ~ ~ ~

When you really love someone, you are separated! Then it is hard for you to fall in love with others! Because you don't want to escape from the last relationship, you don't want to enter the next one.

Did you really love such a girl? Yes, I love her very much.

Did you really love someone? No, because you haven't met the right person so far. .

Did you really love someone? I mean, do you believe me?

If you really love someone … yes! She's your ex! Why can't I do this to you? How good you are. It's good that she can do this, which proves strong enough!

Did you really love someone? No. The true feelings have nowhere to put, the true feelings can't be proved, and the elegant heart can't be stable.

When you really love someone, will you forget him or her in this life? It's really hard to say. Because everyone's personality is different. If it were me, I wouldn't forget her. After all, I love her, don't I? Forgetting will only make my heart struggle more. Let her be the most beautiful memory. If you are like this, don't force yourself to forget. Because you love him.