Facing the embarrassment of "the first time"

It sounds a little harsh for the first time, especially for this cold boy who doesn't know anything yet. Of course, the girl who has been hiding in the boudoir without wind and rain is no exception. Because before the road of life has been fully developed for them, they are almost always faced with many "firsts", and it is inevitable that there will be many embarrassment and even helplessness. So "the first time", for us, has too many feelings, which sounds particularly harsh.

We often hear the phrase "he knows nothing" hanging on the lips of young people to condemn each other's ignorance or even uselessness. In fact, if you think about it carefully, the convicted person didn't understand anything at first. He is qualified to condemn the other party because he is more experienced and has accumulated a lot of experience in it. No one is born with everything. Only by constantly honing yourself in labor practice can we accumulate rich experience.

What our ancestors left us, such as eating, drinking, sleeping, being happy, having children, seems to be natural, and some of them are instinctive, and they don't learn from talent, but it's still embarrassing to meet for the first time, and we don't know right or wrong, so we can only rely on others to prove it. The rest is to face the world, and we know almost nothing. Without the guidance and guidance of our predecessors, we may be eliminated in a short time. Therefore, learning with an open mind and trying to imitate have become the main means of "living".

With the growth of age, we have a feeling that there seems to be a lot less time to face the "first time", and sometimes even no time. But don't take it lightly, it's an illusion, because when your life circle expands gradually, you will find that this "first time" still exists, especially in today's high-paced society, there are too many things to face with "first time" With the development of high technology, it appears more and more frequently.

Confucius' life path is often spurred and proved by many people as a specimen, and he agrees with the life stage of "standing at thirty, not being confused at forty, and knowing destiny at fifty", because Confucius is a great thinker and educator in the history of China, and his life path is absolutely the most successful. But people who know Confucius will say that it is ok to spur, and there is absolutely no need to produce evidence. Because the era in which Confucius lived was not demanding of today, the social environment in which he lived was different from today. Besides, Confucius' life was extremely bumpy, and he lived in the cracks almost all his life. His "traveling around the world" was forced, not a chic and free trip. He also met many firsts and firsts in his later years.

Therefore, for a person who has accumulated a lot of rich experience, he may face less "first time", but it is certain that it is not completely absent. People who are complacent that they can "live on their laurels" will inevitably be embarrassed. In today's fast-developing information age, it is very possible to kill a journey halfway. If you don't pay attention, something beyond recognition will appear The way to deal with it should be calm and calm. Only by being brave, modest and wise can we solve the "first time" in front of us without being at a loss.