How to find a topic to chat with the opposite sex

1, you can ask each other's name first and let them introduce themselves: finding a topic is actually very simple, that is, capturing each other's information first, and the first step in capturing each other's information is to know each other's name, and then know their studies, education, life experience and work experience. These are the best ways for you to understand the information and develop the topic between you. 2, you can start a topic about the other person's name: Sometimes the other person's name is strange or domineering, but as long as you know the other person's name, you can ask if the other person is the name given by his father. Or did someone give it a name? When talking about his father, he can talk about his family, and when talking about family, he can better start a perfect topic. 3. You can start a topic according to the other person's school experience: for example, the other person's middle school, high school, university and other institutions may be in a middle school with you, may be in a high school with you, may have your classmates in the place where he went to college, or may be the same as your major. In short, the other school has experienced too many topics. You can talk about attending classes every day, what you do in the organization every day, and whether you study. 4, you can talk about each other's emotional experience: I believe that everyone will have something to say about emotional experience, because emotional problems are always the most difficult to say clearly, but also a chaotic situation, so this is a big topic, you can praise each other's love, but also comfort each other's loss in love, in short, there are too many topics to talk about. Chat with the opposite sex to find a topic-1. Don't be too nervous. Many people will be nervous and incoherent once they communicate with the opposite sex. Don't be too nervous. If you are too nervous, you can relax. You just need to treat the opposite sex as ordinary friends. 2, to understand each other's acceptance, you need to pay attention to each other's privacy, generally don't ask the girl's age, don't ask personal matters, if you want to communicate with each other well, you need to know what the other party will do once your conversation involves other people's privacy, if the other party can't accept it, this can only be a precursor to communication failure. 3, praise each other's advantages, everyone has advantages and disadvantages, you should be good at discovering each other's advantages, so that you can have something to say, if you always hold on to each other's shortcomings, the other party will certainly not be happy, if you want him to continue to communicate with you well, don't even think about it. 4, treat people sincerely, treat people sincerely, don't think about using others, he is just your friend of the opposite sex, what about the friendship that can't be bought and sold? Why make things so complicated? If you can't be sincere to others, you'd better hurt those who are sincere to you less. If you don't communicate sincerely with others, others will naturally get tired of you. Chatting with the opposite sex to find a topic 2 1. Do you like traveling? This is a good opening remark, not only a topic that everyone likes, but also what he likes and whether he is an interesting person from his description. 2. What games did you play when you were a child? Through the games played as children, we can open each other's chatterboxes, find the same topic, or share the fun in the game, so that both sides can find the points of interest, which is very practical. 3, talk about hobbies, no matter what kind of hobbies he has, we can talk, not only get to know him, but also take the opportunity to praise him, create a good impression, and create the possibility for the next meeting. 4. Talk about the weather. English people only chat when they meet, avoiding the embarrassment of directly asking others about their privacy, so we can also talk about the weather and people here to avoid embarrassment. Chatting with the opposite sex to find a topic 3 1, pay attention to the topic of chat: when chatting, let the other person have a good impression on you. In the process of chatting, be sure to talk about the topic and what the other person likes, such as what he is interested in, or talk more about his own advantages when talking about his own situation. 2. Humorous opening remarks: Many people don't know how to start chatting. They often ask boring opening remarks, such as are you there? What are you doing? In fact, you can just say what you want to discuss. If he is free, he will definitely reply to you. 3. Appropriate chat frequency: Pay attention to the frequency when chatting. If two people are office workers, you can't talk all the time at work. It is best to choose lunch break or chat after work. 4. Grasp the time of chatting: When chatting, you can talk around a topic for a while, then end it, and wait until the next time period, such as talking about the interesting variety show you saw yesterday at noon and the end of the day at night. How to find a topic to chat with the opposite sex II. Hobbies 1. What do you usually like to do on weekends? Do you like reading books in your spare time? If you become a superman at this time, what do you want to do most? 4. Do you like keeping pets? 5. Have you ever played the dance machine in the game hall? 6. Do you like growing flowers? 7. What kind of movies and TV do you like? Why is this TV series or movie so unforgettable for you? 8. What is the most interesting game you have played? 9. What's your favorite flavor of food? Which flavor do you like best? 10, what is your favorite color? 1 1 What brand of clothes do you like best? 12. What kind of clothes do you usually like? 13, do you prefer to play real cs or escape from the Chamber of Secrets? 14, do you usually like to brush Tik Tok or Weibo? 15, do you like to pay attention to gossip news? 16, what's your favorite sport? 17. Do you like snacks or snacks? 18, do you usually use a beauty camera? Do you like swimming? 20. What is the best music you have ever heard? 2. Life 2 1. What is the happiest thing you have ever done? 22. Have you ever quarreled with your girlfriend? 23. If you can travel through it, what era do you want to go back to? 24. Do you think the Spring Festival is still fresh? 25. What do you think of the Wang He Ma Rong incident? (Any news hotspot will do) 26. What saddens you the most? 27. What kind of people do you hate to get along with? 28. What sign are you in? Do you usually study constellations? 29. Do you believe in fate? 30. What is the most unforgettable thing in your childhood? 3 1. Is there anything you wanted to do when you were a child but haven't done yet? 32. Which season do you like best? Do you think we can go to space in the future? 34. Who are your favorite male and female stars? 35. What are you going to do if you become a rich man? 36. If you are poor, do you care what others think? 37. Are you willing to exchange your beauty for immortality? 38. If you could go back to ancient times, how would you live without a mobile phone? 39. Have you ever dreamed that you were doing something dirty? 40. If you could choose which city would you like to live in most? 4 1. How to vent when you are sad? 42. If you could only choose one face or wisdom, which one would you choose without hesitation? 43. Can you cook? What do you usually do in life? 44. What do you usually like to do after work? 45. Where are you most confident about your figure? 46. If you could live again, would you like to be a man or a woman? 47. Do you think there are aliens in this world? Do you believe that the end of the world will come to us? 49. What do you fear or hate most? 50. What have you done to make you feel ashamed? 5 1. If you were ugly, would you choose plastic surgery? 52. Do you prefer to live in the city or the countryside? 53. What have you been doing recently? 54. What made you happy for several days? Are you afraid to talk to strangers? 56. Can you drive? Did you take a driver's license test? 67. Are you satisfied with your present life? 58. Do you dare to go alone at night? 59. What kind of dressing style do you think is suitable for me? Third, work 60. What career did you want to do most in your childhood? 6 1. What's your boss's personality like? Are you satisfied with your present job? 63. Do you think it is better to be a strong woman or a full-time wife? 64. Have you ever been embarrassed at school or at work? How did you study at school? 66. Is there a teacher who impressed you the most? 67. Did you skip class at school? 68. How did you survive the college entrance examination? 69. How do you encourage yourself when you encounter difficulties? V. feelings 70. What kind of boys do you like? 7 1. Did you have a crush on any little boy at school? 72. Did you receive any love letters from boys when you were at school? 73. Can you tell me how many times you have been in love? 74. Do you believe in love at first sight or long-term love? 75. A handsome guy but scum and an ugly man but talented, which one would you choose as your boyfriend? 76. What is the best love in your heart? 77. Do you like children? How many children do you want in the future? 78. How old were you when you first fell in love? 79. Are you still in touch with your first love? 80. What was my first impression of you? 8 1. What was your first kiss? 82. What would you do if you quarreled with your boyfriend? 83. Who do you think should dominate this relationship in love? 84. What attracts men most? 85. Have you ever lied? Do you think you can lie when you fall in love with your boyfriend? 86. Are you an emotional person or a rational person? Which do you like best, your father or your mother? If I kiss you, will you close your eyes 89. Do you think online dating is reliable? 90. What would you do if your family kept urging you to have a blind date? 9 1. What will you do if your parents don't agree with you to fall in love? 92. When did you feel that you suddenly grew up? 93. What date do you expect most? 94. What are your principles and bottom line? 95. Do you still keep in touch with your best friend? 96. What is your ideal height? What is your ideal height for your boyfriend? Travel 97. Do you like traveling? Is there anything interesting during the trip? 98. Are you going to travel during the May Day holiday? 99. What are the customs in your hometown? Or any special snacks? 100, which city do you want to travel to most? What makes you want to go there most? How to find a topic to chat with the opposite sex 3. First, vote on the topic. Let's share a few lark chat topics: 1. What constellation are you? 2. Do you usually like traveling? Which city impressed you the most? 3. Did you see the XXX movie that was just released recently? 4. What flavor of food do you like best? What is the best food you have ever eaten? 5. What do you like to do in your spare time? What is the most interesting thing to do? 6. Weather, music, books, constellations, hot news, Tik Tok, games ... Second, find a topic from the time dimension 1 Think back to the past, for example, you and a girl were talking about pets: female: "I really want to have a pet, but my mother won't let me." Man: "I had a husky a few years ago, and it tore me to pieces every day when I came home." 2. Describe the present situation. For example, you can share what you are doing with girls. Male: "I ate a bowl of noodles with my friends today, one * *158, eight noodles 150 service." Female: "Ah? What noodles are so expensive? "Then you can talk about food or recall the past. 3. Talking about the future Ask girls what plans and plans they have in the future, or discuss what will happen in the future together. Man: "What are you going to do in the future? Woman: I want to open my own clothing store in the future. "Then you can talk about each other's hobbies. Third, the extension of the topic 1, undercut method The so-called undercut is to divide the topic into fine parts. The general practice is to grasp the key words replied by the other party and imagine around this key word, which can be described in detail with time, place, people and events. Of course, the topic can also relate to you and girls. Chat demonstration: Female: "The weather is really unstable this year"-Key words "Weather" Male: "Yes, I went to dinner with my parents excitedly today, and the whole family got soaked. "Woman:" Now you don't have to eat, just stew it yourself. "2. Parallel method The so-called parallel method is to connect one thing with another and pay attention to this connection. Parallel chat can help you build a * * * voice. Chat demonstration: Female: "Our boss made us work overtime again today" Male: "Why does your boss like to squeeze you so much? My former boss often made us work overtime, and every overtime was all night. " Woman: "Then you are worse than me. "