My wife turned to her family and didn't care about me at all.

My wife turned to her family and didn't care about me at all.

My wife turned to her family and didn't care about me at all. My wife is integrated into your family alone. Ask yourself, as a husband, have you done it yourself? There is actually a reason why my wife has such a move. Marriage is not easy, and it is done and cherished. Let's talk about my wife's attitude towards her family. She doesn't care about me at all.

My wife doesn't care about me at all about her family. 1 1, her family has more status than her husband's family.

There is no doubt that people are divided into three grades. In our daily marriage life, some women's family situation is better than that of men's family. In other words, the woman's family is more promising than her husband's.

At this time, the woman's psychology will have a sense of accomplishment and pride. If we can't treat the differences between the two families correctly, we will form a wrong cognition, and even feel that we are in the man's house, which is very wronged. Some doors are not right.

Over time, there will be psychological characteristics of arrogance. Therefore, for husbands, children, or in-laws, there will be an indifferent and indifferent performance.

2, can not correctly position themselves.

Marry a chicken with a chicken, and marry a dog with a dog. Now that you are married to a man's family, you must learn to do as the Romans do. But in fact, many wives have not done this! Because they have never entered the role, lack of self-regulation, and have been immersed in their parents' world.

Married life must go through daily necessities, bottles and jars. If the woman has been living in the past, it is difficult to be a qualified wife and mother! At this time, the contradiction between husband and wife is aggravated!

Over time, the woman will become more and more indifferent to her in-laws.

Her family is more reasonable than her husband's.

Of course, there are two sides to this story. In marriage, quite a few women are unhappy! Husband, mother-in-law and other male family members are indifferent to themselves, even unreasonable and aggressive, and so on. All these will make women's psychological imbalance and produce negative psychological shadows.

On the contrary, her own family is reasonable and gentle. In such a sharp contrast, women are likely to go to the extreme of thinking and deepen their antipathy to the man's family.

Slowly, women are likely to alienate their in-laws more and more.

Her family is the only one.

In marriage, a considerable number of women become overly dependent on their parents. In their subconscious, they have regarded their family as their only one!

As a result, the husband's family is no longer the main body of marriage, but has become a supporting role forever. At this point, women's psychology has been seriously distorted. Wrong thoughts will inevitably lead to wrong behaviors.

Over time, the woman will become more and more indifferent to her husband's family.

5. For revenge

Perhaps at the beginning, my husband's family did something particularly harmful to themselves. To this end, the woman is very worried and has always kept this matter in her heart.

When the time is ripe enough, it is convenient for women to fully explode their long-hidden anger. From then on, turn over a new leaf, turn over a new leaf, completely subvert your previous servile image, in order to find back the lost self-esteem!

In married life, many women are actually very pitiful. No honest woman can stand the pain of her husband's family! It's only a matter of time before the psychological defense line collapses!

6. Summary

Marriage is no joke. I advise men and women who are still single not to enter the marriage hall easily. If two people don't know each other well, even in Yes Man, they will eventually become strangers!

For married women, it is necessary to adjust their emotions. It is not easy to get married, but live well and cherish it!

My wife turned to her family and didn't care about me at all. 2 (1) Looking for reasons: Generally, there are some reasons for the wife to transfer to her parents' home:

A wife has deep feelings for her parents. Even if her parents are well-off, she will often buy this and send it there to express her filial piety and miss.

(2) It is still difficult to live in front of family members, and the wife takes the initiative or the family members offer financial help;

(3) The husband went to his parents' house, but the wife was unconvinced and reluctant, and she also focused on her family:

(4) The wife was dissatisfied with some practices of her husband's family, so she vented her dissatisfaction and hatred;

The relationship between husband and wife is not good and the relationship is tense. The wife moved her things to her parents' house in case something happened. Husbands should reflect on this and understand their wives. Many situations may be caused by themselves. The key is to adjust the relationship between husband and wife. If the relationship between husband and wife is deep, it is generally unlikely that anything will happen to parents. Even if the wife is very filial to her parents, she will take care of the family and will not "bend her arms all the time."

(2) Understanding Jida: Generally speaking, a daughter pays more attention to feelings, and may take care of her family after marriage or support her materially. As long as this kind of care and support is reasonable, appropriate and moderate, the husband should support him with an understanding and open-minded attitude, and he should not bother himself, let alone blame him. Don't take money too seriously in family life, love is the main theme of family concerto. Where there is love, there is strength and there is joy. Husbands should know this.

(3) Appropriate decentralization: When a wife goes to her parents' house, it is often the husband who holds the economic power, and the wife does not consult the family economy. It seems that the quality of the family economy has little to do with herself, so she went to her parents' house. Faced with this situation, the husband should not act arbitrarily in the economy, but should let his wife participate in the management, let her have the idea of being the master of the house and actively care about the development of the family. When a wife has the right to manage the family economy, she also has the obligation to protect the family economy.

(4) Equal treatment: If the husband treats his family differently from his mother-in-law's family and goes to his parents' family, it is easy for his wife to fall to her mother-in-law's family. Husbands should not have such thoughts; It seems that my wife got married and left her parents, not a family, but her parents and her small family are still a family. A son should support his parents, while a daughter doesn't need to support her parents. This is an old habit in the countryside. In modern society, men and women are equal and have the obligation to support their elders. Therefore, we must treat them equally.