Husband is too patriarchal, what should I do?

Parent-child relationship is a social problem formed in ancient China society. Old people always think that boys can carry on the family line, while girls will become someone else's family one day. But now the situation in society is much better, and most people can communicate. First of all, you should have a good talk with your husband and make this problem clear.

For example, you can talk to him about the benefits of girls. Economically. Parents can leave a large income outside the pension money and invest in their daughter's education, regardless of the future house and car; If you have a son, unless you have an incredible fortune to inherit, the house and car you prepared for him will take up the child's education budget. Emotionally, my father can put down Lao Zi's airs and enjoy family happiness. Although the mother should take the responsibility of education, the daughter will always be the closest to her when she grows up. You can't let go of your dignity in front of your son. The care of your mother and the hard work of education are not necessarily a one-stop process. On the surface, the son is incompetent-parents can't lift their heads; Girls are mediocre-hehe, girls without talent are virtues.

Secondly, now the traffic is developed, the communication is convenient and the concept is open. Girls often go to their parents' home after marriage. Even a son-in-law is sometimes nicer to the elderly than a son, and a daughter-in-law always has conflicts with her in-laws, so it is much better to have a girl than a boy.