Should I talk to my father-in-law if I have problems with my mother-in-law?

No, the more people involved, the more trouble. Your father-in-law will hate you even more. At this time, your husband needs to reconcile. Advise your mother-in-law. At the same time, the old man is stubborn. You should give in. Listen to your mother-in-law. Great things go in one ear and out the other. The key to the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law lies in your husband. Try to get him to mediate.