Why can't a boyfriend spoil his girlfriend indefinitely? Can you elaborate on it?

1. You can spoil her indefinitely, but you can't go on like this just because you are normal. You have your own life and emotions to deal with. When one day you can't do it, she will feel that she has fallen directly into hell. You will personally push the person you love to hell, so don't spoil her too much. If you really love her and want her to be happy, please remember that if she can't be happy, everything I do is in vain. Don't do anything bad for both of you.

2. Because the more you give unilaterally, the more you want to give back. It's terrible to pay too much. If the other party can't give back to you, this pressure will only make both parties choose to escape from this world. It's never fair. What we have been doing is to make ourselves as fair as possible. When you pamper a girl infinitely, you will raise her expectation threshold for you infinitely. If you spoil her all the time, she will never be satisfied.

3. In love, fear is the fear of power imbalance. Girls think that "it is very appropriate for boys to fool themselves". Boys have no bottom line and temper, and rely on grievances to maintain this relationship. Sooner or later, boys will also have academic pressure, dissatisfaction with their careers, and dissatisfaction with interpersonal relationships. How can a person who is used to your favor tolerate a moment's neglect when his enthusiasm begins to spread on other things?

I wonder if the understanding of doting can be understood as a reward. Infinite love is infinite reward. If possible, we can think about a problem carefully. When we are with a person, are we meeting our own needs or getting paid? There must be a voice telling us that two people together is a process of giving each other.

When we put two people together, there will be a comparison. Whoever pays more pays less. It is not uncommon to give unilaterally without the other party giving. Interestingly, when one person says that he has given too much and the other person has not responded at all, after two separate interviews, we will find that these two people will think that they are different from each other and have not responded. Instead, I paid a lot and got no response from the other side.