Why are many daughter-in-law reluctant to go to her mother-in-law's house for the New Year? Is it really a mother-in-law or an enemy?

Because the mother-in-law is really an enemy, if it is not because of her husband, the mother-in-law is a stranger. Daughter-in-law is not free and uncomfortable in her husband's house, because his house is not her own. When I arrived at my mother-in-law's house, my husband was really comfortable, letting go of himself and reuniting with my parents and relatives. It's fun. Sometimes it's really hard for a daughter-in-law to blend in, like an outsider. Even though the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is good at ordinary times, daughter-in-law sometimes feels uncomfortable and inconvenient in her own home, so there is an idea from the bottom of her heart that she is unwilling to go back to her mother-in-law's house for the New Year.

If the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not good at ordinary times, pinch them as soon as they meet. They are even more reluctant to go back to their mother-in-law's house in order to avoid the unpleasantness of the New Year and not to embarrass their husbands halfway. More people are worried about going back to their mother-in-law's house for the New Year with their husbands, and their parents are not accompanied. This is mainly manifested in the one-child families born after 1980s and 1990s, and both parents also need to take care of them. If you go to your mother-in-law's house for the New Year with your husband, the home will be deserted, so you don't want to go to her mother-in-law's house for the New Year. During the Chinese New Year, except for the 30th and the first day of the New Year's Day, I began to visit relatives at other times.

Relatives of seven aunts and eight aunts are going, greeting each other and seeing each other off every day, and visiting relatives and friends, which is especially not free. Most relatives and daughters-in-law don't know each other, but it's embarrassing to follow them out of courtesy. I went once and I don't want to go back next year. I remember going back to my husband's house for the New Year in the first year, and going to visit relatives at my husband's uncle's house on the second day of the Lunar New Year. There are so many uncles and cousins in my uncle's family that I can't tell who is who. Later, I went back to visit my relatives for the Spring Festival. I never went, so I took my children to the streets to play and watch the fun. My mother-in-law is also very understanding and won't let me follow my relatives.

Young couples grow up in different environments, and the living habits of young people and old people are even more different. Family members get along with each other in different ways, which leads many daughter-in-law to have a lot of discomfort when they go to her mother-in-law's house for the New Year. Daughter-in-law likes to stay up late, mother-in-law is used to getting up early, and there are many differences in life. Daughter-in-law is unwilling to go. It is customary in the husband's family that whoever makes an early move will welcome the New Year early, and whoever is lucky. At first, I was particularly unaccustomed to going. Think about watching the Spring Festival Evening on New Year's Eve until one or two in the morning. Just as I was about to go to bed, he woke everyone up again. Who can stand it?