What should the newcomer do if he is wronged?

1. First, it can replace anyone, and then no one can replace it.

As a newcomer in the workplace, you should thank your leader for giving you all the mess. Only when you successfully do all kinds of work can people give you more things, and when you are doing something, you should concentrate on thinking: have you grown while doing these things? This is the only criterion for judging you. I'm not jealous that the leader gave you this job, but you went to play with your mobile phone. You really should hope that he can play with his mobile phone and do all his things for you, so that your ability will soon be the same as his. Do you look at the first half of my life? There is a classic saying, "First you can replace anyone, and then no one can replace you."

2, the leader takes credit, not to mention you? Put up with it or get out.

You can comprehensively evaluate whether this leader is worth following.

Forbearance: If this leader is very capable, you can learn a lot from him. Hold on a little longer and wait until your wings are hard. Think about it, you just entered the workplace, so that you can be independent is your goal. As long as this goal can be achieved, what is forbearance? A gentleman can bear the humiliation of his legs.

Roll: If the leader's work level is average, and you think you can't learn anything from him, you choose to leave.

3. Brush your face and let people see your efforts.

The eyes of the masses are discerning, and everyone can see what you have done. But, you have to let everyone see. Let colleagues get to know you first and know what work and projects you are busy with. Naturally, everyone knows which job is done by who, and you don't have to follow your colleagues everywhere to say that you are a leader. On the contrary, everyone can see it.

Rest assured, people who really do things will always be seen. However, the key is that you have the ability.

4. Don't take yourself too seriously.

In other words, even if you have a high degree, where are you from? high flyers joined a company, and you are just an intern and a newcomer to the workplace. Even if other employees are not as educated as you, but others have the ability to work and experience in handling company affairs, why do you think too highly of yourself? Another, if you are an old employee, you feel very experienced, so you don't like newcomers or other employees, and think that a high degree is useless. You are not a novice in the workplace, and you will take yourself too seriously. If others have a little disapproval or contempt for you, you will find it unbearable. Actually, why is this? Newcomers in the workplace will also become older people with more qualifications and experience, and older people with more qualifications and experience will be replaced by newcomers with new thinking ability and stronger work ability. So, don't take yourself too seriously, you will lose a lot of "grievances".

5. Handle the relationship with colleagues.

If the relationship between colleagues is not handled well, personally, it will directly affect your mood. After working for so many years, I have a good relationship with my colleagues around me, but occasionally there will be bad times, such as people who don't want to find a job and envy or despise me. Even if you are patient or enterprising, such colleagues will always make you feel uncomfortable in the dark. What's more, you have no intention to deal with colleagues at all, so the troubles around you are indispensable. Think of it this way: in an environment where you are always speaking ill of you or looking at you with disgust, it is too difficult to be in a good mood. Therefore, in any case, showing off the relationship with colleagues is also the most basic way for people in the workplace to survive.

6. Don't despise your boss.

Despise your boss, think your boss is bad, think your boss is glib and shrewd, think your boss is a playboy, think your boss is a standard upstart, and so on. I want to say, your boss can't stand it, and if it gets worse, aren't you working for the boss at this time? Don't you have to listen to the boss's arrangement? Don't you still expect your boss to pay you? I once disdained one of my bosses. I thought that at that age, all my time was spent on calculation and calculation. Later, I learned that he was a playboy and his wife didn't resent it. Forget it, don't count me and don't mess with me (hehe). That's it. You don't respect others when you take their salary. Do you think you will have a good life? If you don't like the boss, you can't help showing it and being known by the boss. It is strange that your work is not wronged.

7. Don't care too much about what outsiders say.

Who won't be told behind others' backs? I don't think so. Even great men, strong men and heroes in history will still be said, not to mention that we are mortals. At work, everyone has weaknesses, and everyone makes mistakes or doesn't understand. Just try to master those things. As for people who will look down on you or speak ill of you behind your back, I personally think it is really unnecessary to care, because the more you care, the more serious this kind of thing will be. In the end, you may change from a wronged category to a worthy person. I have worked in different companies for many years, and I always remember one sentence, that is, rumors stop with wise men, do your own thing, do yourself well, and do what you like the rest. If you care too much about what outsiders say, you will be really difficult to get along with in the workplace.

8. Don't ask too many questions

To work in another company, you should at least know what you do and what you will get. In other words, what you pay is roughly proportional to what you get. For example, if you do a job, it costs thousands of dollars a month, but your salary is several hundred dollars, then you will definitely not do this job. Now that you have chosen to do that job, it means that your pay and return can be in direct proportion, so you don't have to ask so many demands all day. There is a saying that hungry snakes swallow elephants. The more greedy, the less happiness you get, and so does the workplace. No matter what your harvest is, as long as you are worth paying. Don't think too much all day, envy other people's income, others get more, that means others pay more, you don't pay enough, why ask so much. Don't you think it's normal not to go to work at this rate? Who do you blame? Don't blame yourself for being greedy?