Being a man: being able to carry things, not causing trouble, not afraid of things!

In this life, people have to go through countless things, big and small, difficult and urgent. If you want to live a good life, you must remember three things: being able to carry things, causing less trouble and not being afraid of things.

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People in this life, no matter who they are, will always encounter obstacles, large and small, and will bear some pressure more or less. Only some people will grit their teeth and hold on with tears, while others will be crushed.

There is never a lack of things that turn your world upside down. The important thing is whether you can handle it.

Yu Hua, a writer, said: Among the younger generation in China, there are many excellent people, but few people can resist things.

What do you mean you can move things?

You don't just run away when things happen, you don't give up easily, you just bite the bullet and try to tide over the difficulties when you encounter difficulties, even if you fail, you must have the courage to start all over again.

Just like a 67-year-old daughter, 7 1 was sentenced to life, and at the age of 74, she returned to the mountains to plant trees.

As a former tobacco giant in China, he was elected as one of the "Top Ten Reformers" in China, but he was deprived of everything because of economic problems, and he is still in prison.

Ordinary people will be disheartened and die if they are hit like this.

However, he was not defeated by fate. At the age of 74, he contracted 2400 mu of wasteland to plant fruit trees. Later, his orange sales exceeded 100 million.

A person who can move things is like a big tree. After four seasons of wind, frost and rain, it still stands upright and becomes more and more attractive.

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There is an old saying in China: You can forgive evil in heaven, but you can't live if you do it yourself!

Many times, people encounter more disasters than natural disasters, but man-made disasters are often caused by temporary fanaticism and eventually lead to irreparable disasters and regrets.

Just like a news I saw on the Internet today.

On February 2 1 day, a young woman broke the rules and order when waiting for the bus at the bus stop in front of a residential area in Shanghai, and cut in line unscrupulously. At this time, an uncle around her kindly reminded her to abide by public order.

Hearing this, the woman not only refused to change, but also hit her husband and uncle. After the fight, her anger disappeared. However, the uncle was beaten into a compression fracture of the lumbar spine and was admitted to the hospital. Her husband was also taken away by the police.

Facing the reporter's camera, the woman regretted it and collapsed to the ground, saying that her husband was the only economic pillar in the family and had a heart attack. The children at home are still young and need to be raised, begging her uncle's forgiveness.

We say that if you make trouble, there must be something hateful about poor people. If she didn't make trouble at first, how could she make trouble?

If life wants to be smooth sailing, it is necessary to make less trouble and divide the accounts, so as to be safe.

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Life is impermanent, and everyone will encounter things sometimes. The poet Wang Wei said: I will walk until the river blocks my way, and then sit and watch the rising clouds.

Don't be afraid and don't panic when you encounter difficulties. After all, things will be solved in the end, and people will cross the bridge when they come to it. There is nothing they can't cross, nothing they can't solve. If they can't solve it now, then wait. There will always be a solution.

Since you exist in this world, you must believe that you have the ability to survive. Those survival skills, accumulated over several generations, have been deeply buried in our blood.

And all we have to do is believe in ourselves and believe that we can overcome difficulties and solve any problems.

Many times, we lose to ourselves, not to difficulties. As a song goes, "I'm not afraid of thousands of people blocking me, but I'm afraid of turning myself in."

Don't be afraid to face things bravely, as Nietzsche said: those who can't kill us will eventually make us stronger.

People will encounter many things in their life, their own things, others' things and God's things.

At ordinary times, you should obey the rules, don't cause trouble, and you are not afraid of things. You must be able to resist!