Talk about the benefits of talking.

In life, no one will be smooth sailing, always hit a wall everywhere, and will encounter a lot of trouble. Of course, I have the same experience.

I remember when I was in the fourth grade, I didn't appreciate the teaching methods of the math teacher at that time, so I didn't want to go to her class, so I couldn't listen carefully in her class. After a semester, my grades dropped a lot, but when Teacher Liu handed out the test paper, she said, "XXX is not good anyway, and her father is not worried about her grades ..." I couldn't listen any more.

After class, jeers broke out in the classroom. I ran outside the classroom to get some air. When I came to the window, tears trembled in my eyes. Then ZZZ came up to me and said, "XXX, don't be sad." I didn't do well in this exam. I hope I can do better in the next exam. " I dragged her to a secluded place and said to her, "I really want to do well in the exam, but I can't get the ideal results, and Teacher Liu never puts me in a middle school, which makes me lose confidence in my study." I said, with a sigh. She smiled and said, "That's why you have to work harder." I suddenly said, "Thank you, yes, that's right! Can't let her look down! "

Later, I studied hard with the goal of making Mr. Liu change his mind. Really want to thank ZZZ for his "wisdom"!

So when we encounter difficulties, we can't just carry them ourselves, which will suppress our heart disease. We should talk to our friends about our worries, so that your worries will be reduced a lot!

The beauty of talking and listening

Everyone will not refuse beautiful things, beautiful clothes, beautiful lovers and beautiful lies. Perhaps no one will find that talking and listening will also make people have a good mood.

I am a talkative, laughing and noisy person, and I have the habit of listening to others. I can easily cheer up people who confide in me, give them timely comfort, and know the benefits of confiding. It can not only make the heart of the confidante suddenly enlightened, but also give the listener a rare sense of accomplishment, and be happy because it will also have a rare good mood while helping others.

But when it's my turn to be sad and unhappy, I will hesitate. When you are in love, you will be dumped and feel uncomfortable. I think if I tell my friends, I will be laughed at. When the work is not going well, I will feel depressed and think about it. If I tell my friends, will TA think it's my incompetence? When I really like someone and my family objects, I don't know whether to listen to my elders or stick to my own opinions. If I tell my friends, will I feel that I have no opinion? When I was in full swing with the people around me, I found out when TA became so unreasonable. I don't know what the problem is. At this time, I always regard talking as a leak, fearing that it will bring bad consequences that I can't face!

At this time, I will suddenly become a typical introverted person, I will tightly close my heart, I can hardly speak, I will wash away my unhappiness with tears, I will think nothing in tears, and my mind will be blank. After a long time, you will find that the original problems have been overlapping in your mind, and there has never been less. I said that time can dilute everything, but after a long time, I still can't forget my feelings when I think of my previous unhappiness. At this time, I have long forgotten the benefits of speaking and only thought about so many ifs. .......

Recently, I encountered insurmountable confusion again, and I don't know where I got the courage. In my euphemistic speech, TA can directly tell the problem. I was surprised for a long time. In fact, I already know the answer, because I am an insider, so I am at a loss. Through communication with t a, it turns out that my question is too common, too common. My heart is not suddenly enlightened, and I can't describe the shock it brings in words. Maybe my friends I have known for many years will never get a chance to read this blog post, but I am here to express my gratitude and let me really understand that true friends should be like this, not just looking at each other quietly. It also made me understand that speaking and listening are the same, which can make people have a good mood.

My friend, my beautiful mood has your contribution. It turns out that listening and speaking are indispensable to a person and equally beautiful!

I hope you are satisfied and adopted.