How many months' baby is the most difficult to take care of? Why?

How many months' baby is the most difficult to take care of? Why?

I am a stay-at-home mom. My children have taken care of themselves since 1 year old. I am 3 years old now, and I will go to kindergarten in 10 days. I will be liberated soon.

How many months' baby is the most difficult to take care of? For me, the baby has different difficulties at every stage and is very busy every day.

Baby 1-6 months, generally smooth.

When the baby 1 month, jaundice receded very slowly, and the blood test on the sole of the foot failed. I was scared 10 days, especially afraid of baby rickets. Fortunately, the reexamination results are good, and the jaundice has also subsided.

The baby didn't have flatulence and colic at 2 months, but he was often frightened. Every time he was frightened, he cried, couldn't sleep well, and had to hold him all night.

When the baby was 3 months old, he had a stomachache and didn't have stool for 8 consecutive days. Grandpa went to the hospital to see a doctor and rubbed his stomach several times after he came back.

When the baby is 4 months old, night milk is very frequent suddenly, which used to be 3-4 hours 1 time. This is 1 hour, 1 time. I quickly added rice noodles and had a good sleep immediately.

The baby is 6- 18 months old, and the suffering begins.

At 7 months old, the baby had an acute rash, high fever for 3 days, diarrhea for half a day, then rash for 7 days, tossing for 10 days, and suddenly lost 5 kg;

Baby 10- 18 months, almost every month 1 cold, every time 10- 15 days to recover, need to hold and coax all night, the baby has to observe the temperature and cool down in time.

Baby 18-36 months, chickens fly and dogs jump.

Baby 18 months old has a particularly good resistance. So far, he has only caught a cold twice, and it will be fine for 3-5 days each time. However, the baby is too thin. Every day, the house is at sixes and sevens like the devil entering the village. It takes nearly half a day to clean up twice a day. Don't be too slow with me, because a baby is dragging his feet. I was making noise while cleaning up, thinking of waiting until the baby slept.

It's no big deal to toss around at home. Children whose skin can't be controlled especially like to climb high. They were thrown twice and had stitches in the hospital, but then they forgot that their skin was terrible.

Now that the child is 3 years old, it is another rebellious period. I said he must go to the east and the west. I said he would go out to play while eating. I said he eats when he sleeps. I want to hit him thousands of times every day, but his mouth is so sweet.

It is the most difficult to take care of a baby for several months, mainly depending on the baby and mother. Mother is cheerful and energetic every day. If the mother is depressed and anxious every day, it is difficult to take care of the baby, so when taking care of the baby, the mother should adjust her mentality and face the baby with a positive attitude.

Hello, I'm Jurgis, my mother, and I'm glad to answer your question. Every stage of a baby is difficult to take care of. If you are a stay-at-home mother with children by yourself, you are very tired at every stage. Of course, to sum up, it should be from the child's 8-9 months into the standing stage and toddler stage to about 3 years old, which is a period that most mothers find particularly difficult to take care of. I'll write down the difficulties in each issue first, and you can compare them yourself.

Born about 7 months.

At this stage of 7 months, it is really difficult to bring up a newborn, such as the mother of Jurgis, without the help of Yueyue and the elderly. But fortunately, I learned a set of methods by myself. As long as the children's eating, sleeping and pulling rules are solved, it is better to take care of them if they are not sick. Some babies may often wake up at night if their sleep patterns are not well cultivated, and their mothers will be more tired. Some babies have bad stomachs, often colic and diarrhea, which may cause some trouble. But generally speaking, at this time, the baby can't stand, but can climb at most, which is safer and more worry-free.

(for 42 days)

8,9 months ~ 1 year and a half

1 year. 8, 9 months, most babies have been able to stand on their own and try to walk, has entered the toddler stage. At this stage, it is easy to fall and get hurt, and it is inseparable from people.

2. Due to the development of bones and teeth, babies are often prone to physical pain and can't say it. It may cause a long sleep at night and wake up at night.

At this stage, the baby's self-awareness and perception of the surrounding environment have increased a lot. At first, he had many ideas, but he couldn't express them yet. He often communicates by yelling, which makes him feel insecure. Some babies need to be hugged only when they are half a year old, and suddenly they need to be hugged.

4. Baby 1 year-old, will be particularly active after walking a little, can't sleep for a long time every day, and needs good energy from adults. Because I can't walk steadily at this time, but I like walking very much, so it's easy to fall and so on.

At this stage, the baby's diet has also changed a lot. Complementary food needs to change its texture with the growth of teeth and the development of the body, and it needs to cultivate children's eating ability. Because of the change of complementary food, the baby is also prone to indigestion or allergies. This is also a very worrying aspect.

6. Once the baby is over half a year old, it gradually exhausts the immunity brought by the mother and needs to establish its own immunity. Babies at this stage especially like crawling and walking on the ground, so some babies are prone to get sick at the stage of half a year to 1 year.

1 year and a half to 3 years old

Everyone has heard of the terrible two-year-old and the disaster two-year-old In fact, this means that the baby's self-awareness is further enhanced at this stage, and there are many ideas, especially like to challenge the parents' bottom line. Everything is new to him/her, and he/she often confronts his/her parents, and his/her personality begins to stand out. So this stage often makes parents very embarrassed. This stage is also a stage of learning a language. Children even swear or say shit and fart to death, which requires good guidance from their parents.

After 3 years old

After the age of 3, most parents usually feel better, mainly because their children are older, they can understand what their parents say and communicate better. Of course, another good reason is that children are taken care of by kindergarten teachers for at least a few hours every day when they enter kindergarten.

Of course, after the age of 3, there are also troubles after the age of 3, such as worrying about whether to enroll in early education interest classes, parenting education with children, spending more time with children and so on.

Is it easy for children to go to primary school? Of course not. Many mothers said that in fact, children only found out when they went to primary school that the busyness before going to school was a cloud. After children go to primary school, it is time to test their parents' ability. Nowadays, in addition to spending a lot of money, parents also need to have strong tutoring and learning ability, manual skills, specialties (they can participate in children's class activities) and time. So it is also quite difficult to wear.

Write it at the end

From the birth of a child, it is actually the concern of parents all their lives, and each stage has its own difficulties. But along the way, you must feel glad you came.

Mothers who take care of their babies are superman mothers. No matter how many months old, there are difficulties at every stage. Taking care of your baby is a process of fighting monsters and upgrading. After this level, there is still the next level waiting for their mother to succeed.

Tell me about the three difficulties that Mamun overcame with his baby and see what level your baby has reached.

The first difficulty: the baby of 0-3 months.

This one-month-old baby is still in the newborn stage, feeding, changing diapers and putting the child to bed every day. New mothers who like breastfeeding are looking forward to sleeping at night.

Newborns are difficult to take care of, especially new parents. Taking care of newborns will encounter all kinds of problems, and they will feel at a loss and even more tired.

The second difficulty: a baby of 4- 12 months.

This month-old baby is the fastest stage of physical development. At this stage, the baby's big motor ability will develop rapidly. Looking up, turning over, sitting up, climbing and walking against the wall are all learned at this stage.

The third difficulty: 1-3 year old baby.

Although this one-month-old baby is in the preschool stage, it is very energetic. From the age of 65,438+0, he just learned to walk independently, and then he can run and jump. Especially the 2-year-old baby, it is a rebellious period. Self-awareness began to be established, and I had the desire to leave my parents' hands and "break into the world" alone.

Many babies like to confront adults, like to say "no", like to cling to their mothers, like "adventure activities", and many behaviors that make their mothers feel unacceptable are the necessary stages for their children to grow up.

Summary:

And babies over two years old are trying to break through the third obstacle. Only experienced mothers can appreciate the hardships and happiness of a stay-at-home mother with her baby.

To all mothers who take care of their children alone: it's really tiring to take care of their children alone. When you love your children, you should also remember to care for yourself. Only when the mother is strong can the child be excellent.

Welcome everyone to talk about what difficulties you are experiencing with your baby in the comments section.

I hope my answer is helpful to you.

Although I didn't bring up my daughter alone, I stayed with her until she was almost three years old, so I was deeply touched by some things that happened during her growth.

In my opinion, there are three stages that are particularly difficult to take care of before the baby is one year old.

First, from birth to month.

My daughter was born at 2 1: 30 pm and was sent to the neonatal center at birth. The next afternoon, 14, the nurse sent the child to the cart beside my bed.

My mother-in-law and my mother looked at her daughter and tried to hug her, but they didn't. My mother said that I haven't held a baby for many years, and it seems that I can't hold it.

Therefore, it is conceivable that I am completely inexperienced and at a loss.

Especially at about 17 in the evening, the head nurse came to teach me to nurse the baby. Get rid of it. I couldn't even hold the baby at that time.

In this way, from holding the child like a porcelain, I entered the most difficult neonatal period for the child.

The biological clock of a newborn baby is chaotic. Most of them sleep very fast during the day, and when they shake, they don't wake up. At night, they start to be as fine as rabbits. Sometimes she accidentally fell asleep while nursing, and she began to cry when she couldn't eat a bite.

You peed, too. I don't care that you didn't sleep at midnight, just fell asleep. For a lazy person who goes to bed early and gets up late 10 months, it's really hard to get up, feed and change diapers by rubbing his eyes.

What is even more frightening is that children can't express at all, but only cry. Hungry cry, uncomfortable cry, sleepy cry, I simply can't tell what each of her cries represents. Now that I think about it, children at that time were really difficult to take care of.

Second, learn to turn over for 3 months and start to learn to sit for 6 months.

Before my daughter was born, I looked forward to the moon every day and soon grew up. I felt a sort of surge of relief. However, when the child suddenly laughed, began to try to turn over, and even wanted to sit up, I felt that it was naive to expect the child to grow up.

At that time, my mother-in-law could not come because of something at home, and my mother had just returned to her hometown. Taking care of the children falls entirely on me. In the past, the child wouldn't turn over, put her on the bed, and you can go to the kitchen to toss lunch. However, I can't now.

In order to eat on time and not affect being a cow, I practiced the skill of rocking the stroller with one foot. Cut vegetables with your left hand and shake the stroller with your right foot. Sitting on the toilet with one foot out, rocking the stroller. You asked me what my hand was doing. Ring the bell for her, or what do you think?

However, these are all good. I think the hardest thing is that as soon as I sat down to eat something, she pulled … pulled. So, I had to put down my food and clean it up for her. After cleaning her up, she didn't want to lie down any more and needed a hug. Therefore, you can only stick your head out like a giraffe and slowly stuff the rice one by one.

Third, when you learn to walk at the age of one.

Looking back now, I always feel that the process of taking care of children is like playing a customs clearance game, and one level is more difficult than the other.

I used to think it was difficult to take care of my baby at the end of the month, but later I thought it would be difficult to take care of my baby when he would turn over and sit up. When she suddenly began to try to stand up and walk, I once again felt that all those difficulties were just the rain in Mao Mao.

Children who just learn to walk don't like other people's help or making their own decisions. They just want to walk sideways, like crabs. Sometimes if you are not afraid of falling, just cry for a while and keep walking.

Since my daughter began to learn to walk, the most common voice in the family is "Doraemon, what are you doing" and "Doraemon, where are you" ... If we can't see the child in sight for more than a few seconds, we think she is doing "bad things".

Before she can't walk, as long as she is in sight, she will be fine. After she can walk, someone must take care of her at home. Because, in the blink of an eye, she will disappear, and the speed is extremely fast.

Sometimes I can't figure out how she can run so fast with such short legs.

As the saying goes, newborns sleep in January and cry in February.

In fact, every month's baby may have a little physiological "abnormality". Generally speaking, most mothers who have taken care of their children in the past few months will not get enough sleep.

First month, jaundice, startle reflex, tidal period, milk overflow

Generally, newborn babies are more common in the first month, such as jaundice, startle reflex, tidal period, milk overflow and so on.

Jaundice is a necessary process for every newborn. As long as it does not exceed the standard, it usually appears at 4.5 days after birth, and will gradually fade around 10 days. If jaundice is severe and lasts too long. You need to see a doctor in time.

Frightening reflex is because the newborn's birth time is short and the nervous system is not well developed, so there are often sudden shivering and crying when sleeping.

Newborns generally have a soaring period from birth to one month, three months and six months. It is common for a baby to keep pushing when sleeping. This situation is that the baby has entered a soaring period.

Newborns are more likely to spill milk at the corners of their mouths after breastfeeding, and will vomit milk in severe cases (both babies in my family vomit after breastfeeding). Because the newborn's stomach is horizontal and shallow. So sometimes eating milk or drinking too much milk will cause vomiting. In this case, it is suggested that novice mothers should be moderate when breastfeeding, and don't feel that the baby is not full. After eating milk, holding the baby up and burping vertically and shooting the air in the stomach will also alleviate this phenomenon of spitting milk.

The second month, colic.

The second month is generally characterized by neonatal colic and unexplained crying, which is most obvious at night. It is manifested as sudden crying and shouting, no matter how to coax it. This situation will be relieved until you are tired of crying, exhausted or defecated. In this case, you can rub your baby's stomach or hug your baby by plane.

The third and fourth months. The situation of milk aversion is more serious.

A considerable number of babies who are more than three months old or about four months old will suddenly have a sharp drop in milk. Excluding the child's physical discomfort, he is entering the period of lactation aversion. There are many reasons. Babies' vision and hearing develop rapidly. Maybe he is playful and doesn't concentrate on breastfeeding. Maybe his taste developed, and he thought breast milk was tasteless, so he didn't eat it. It is suggested that in this case, feeding should not be forced, the feeding time should not be too long, and the feeding interval should be longer.

In fact, many newborns have just come to this world, but as the baby grows up, it will become easier to take care of, and this abnormal phenomenon will become less and less.

A newborn refers to a baby born 28 days ago, and a "newborn" refers to a newborn. It can be said that most children are particularly easy to take in the newborn stage. The state of children eating, sleeping and eating is usually the neonatal stage, so for novice mothers, we must cherish this stage, because children will encounter different parenting problems at each stage.

Frequently asked questions for 0-3 months

The first three months of a child's life should be the hardest to take care of, because many mothers are inexperienced and children will encounter many problems in the first three months, so the first three months are usually the hardest to take care of.

Colic: Colic often occurs in babies who are about to be full moon or second month. The originally well-behaved baby suddenly became particularly fond of crying, pestering her mother all day, which was difficult to appease and could not be put down. The symptoms of colic in children will gradually improve in 3-6 months, and most children will disappear in about 4 months.

Spitting milk: Spitting milk is not a big problem, but some babies will spit milk more seriously. Novice mothers will be flustered when they meet for the first time, especially when the baby spits milk.

My daughter is a very serious spitting baby. Every time she lies down after burping, she may spray milk, which is really like a fountain.

If there is nothing unusual in the baby's spitting, his weight is growing steadily, and his mental state is good, don't worry, give him more burps and vertical hugs, or pad his upper body for 30 degrees. After the child is over half a year old, spitting milk will gradually improve.

Red buttocks: Newborns will have red buttocks more or less, sometimes because they are not replaced in time, and sometimes because they are washed too frequently, which destroys the protective layer on the baby's skin and makes the baby red buttocks.

Solution: As long as you insist on changing diapers in time and giving your baby's buttocks a "sun bath" or close contact with the air every day, you can effectively reduce the probability of baby's red buttocks.

3-6 months

From 3 months, many babies began to learn to turn over. At this time, mothers need to face new problems.

I prefer to be picked up: after 3 months, children's brains develop rapidly, their eyes can see farther, and they begin to interact with adults, so many babies prefer to be picked up and become sticky.

Learn to turn over and be careful when you fall off the bed: more babies will learn to turn over in 4 months, and some babies may start to turn over in more than 5 months. It is dishonest for a baby who learns to turn over and sleep. It is best not to stay away from the sight of adults during the day. It's best to put it on a mat, not on a bed or sofa with a certain height.

6-9 months

After half a year, babies begin to add complementary food and learn to crawl, and mothers will face more parenting problems.

Breastfeeding period: Many babies don't like to drink milk after adding complementary food, so in the process of complementary food feeding, they should drink milk first and then eat complementary food. The amount of complementary food must be controlled at first.

Sleep retrogression: 8 months old baby began to crawl. The biggest problem at this time is the retrogression of sleep, and the frequent waking up at night, especially for breast-fed babies. It is necessary to distinguish the reasons why children wake up at night, not to give milk blindly, and to cultivate children's attachment to breast milk.

Start to recognize strangers: children can't live without their mothers for a moment and will start to cry; You can't meet strangers. I started crying when I saw a stranger. This is all because children are experiencing separation anxiety, which is the process of children moving towards independence.

Safety: After climbing, the child's behavior will be unrestricted, and there is no place at home where he can't go. At this time, we must pay attention to the safety of children, protect corners and corners, and put away dangerous tools.

9- 12 months

It's almost one year old, and children begin to learn to walk. At this time, adults will be tired.

Communication difficulties: because children's self-awareness is getting stronger and stronger, many things need to be tried, and various communication obstacles will appear in this process, that is, the so-called children are becoming more and more difficult to manage.

Safety: 65,438+0-year-old children begin to like all kinds of holes, hot water bottles, patch panels, and all dangerous goods should be kept away.

/kloc-babies before the age of 0 can be divided into these four stages, and each stage will face different problems. Let's just say it's never a good time to raise a child. Relatively speaking, the newborn stage should be the best, eating and sleeping.

It is the most difficult to take care of the baby at the end of the month, because the child has just been born at this time, and the development of physical resistance and some organs has not yet been completed. The main reason is that children have to eat milk every two hours and have too much urine, which needs to be changed constantly. At this time, the child is relatively small and the body is very soft. Many new parents are afraid to hug their children in the first few days.

During confinement, the parturient needs rest, and at the same time, she is weak, and consumes too much energy and physical strength throughout pregnancy. So at this time, the mother needs qi and blood and physical recovery, but she has to take care of the baby, so it is easy to get tired, especially for the breast-fed baby. In order to let the children eat the best nutrition, the mother basically feeds them every two hours. At the same time, because children eat too little and produce too much milk, mothers still have to suck the milk out every time.

At the same time, newborn babies are also prone to jaundice, and children born now are also prone to jaundice. If it is mild, severe jaundice needs blue light, and the child needs hospitalization. It is not easy to breastfeed a child when he is in hospital. If they really want to give their children breast milk, they have to suck it out and send it to the hospital, which is not a challenge for mothers.

Therefore, it is not easy to take care of the children in the second month, but as the children grow up, their resistance will gradually increase, their sleep will become more and more regular, and the children will slowly take care of them.

How old is the child the most difficult to take care of?

Taking care of children is a job that exhausts physical strength, brain power and endurance. People with a particularly good temper may be tortured by children and have a bad temper. They used to speak softly. Since taking care of the baby, they have become bolder and louder They should stop talking and shout.

I have taken care of my children for a long time. In the eyes of children, I am a grumpy mother. In my husband's eyes, I am a mental derangement. What's even more ridiculous is that in the eyes of outsiders, I am entertaining myself!

At every stage of raising children, there are times when it is difficult to raise children:

The first stage is the newborn. As a new mother who has urinated more than ten times, do you feel that you have never given birth to a child, but a straightforward child, so it is inevitable to complain. Drink milk more than ten times a day, no matter day or night, as long as you are hungry, you must feed it. After giving birth, you were weak and had to take care of the children. Think about it, it's better to be pregnant.

The second stage, children of three or four months. Children at this time, who have little sleep, will communicate with adults, but during this period, the baby begins to recognize people slowly, and when you are not around him, you will cry every second. I want to stay with him all the time, hold him everywhere and practice cooking while holding the baby.

The third stage is eight nine-month-old children. At this time, the child will crawl everywhere, and his freedom can no longer be restricted. Where there is danger, he touches it, and all the fragile things in the house are basically broken. Moreover, there is a bad habit of stuffing anything into your mouth, no matter what it is, even the stone is not spared. At this time, you need to chase after his ass all the time, and you should always be vigilant. You can't stop children from trying new things just because you are quick-witted and quick-witted.

The fourth stage, children around one year old. Children at this time are the easiest to wrestle. If you are not careful, you will either hit your head or fall on your leg. Look at his stumbling. It's funny and energetic. At this time, you are a mobile seat belt, keep up with the pace and protect your children at any time. Sometimes I have to act as a crutch and bend down to show the children the way. Children either walk or run, sometimes I wonder who is leading who to run. Sleeping at night hurts my back and I feel that my legs are not my own. This period is the best time to lose weight.

The fifth stage, children aged one to three. At this time, the child will go over and start talking. Teach children to talk, often tongue-tied, and be taken into the ditch by children. Twenty times in a word, it takes super patience to control your temper. When the child points at that thing, you need to explain what it is. What's the use? Color, shape, size, I suddenly found that my language expression ability has improved. I used to practice calligraphy like this, and every article was of high quality. Children also need to learn to eat. Children eat, not eating, but beating. Tables and chairs are on the ground and can be seen everywhere, all of which are rice. It is also necessary to teach children to urinate and show them in person. If you can't do it once, do it twice. If you can't do it twice, do it three times. Don't worry, there will be countless repetitions in the future. I dreamed that it was raining when I was sleeping, and I felt that the effect of this 7D was really good. There are really raindrops. After waking up, I realized that the doll wet the bed, so I moved from the head of the bed to the end of the bed, and then moved from the end of the bed to the head of the bed.

The sixth stage, children aged three to six. At this time, the child went to kindergarten. You think you can finally be liberated, but you are so happy. The children who just went to kindergarten are crying loudly! I was moved to cry and finally got used to it, but the child began to get sick again. A semester lasts for four and a half months, and I find that my child has been in school for less than a month. The cold, fever and cough are repeated. This disease is cured and that disease is coming again. The children got used to it in the last month, but they had a holiday in a few days. In the second semester, the child has basically adapted. Congratulations, you can get rid of it. Enjoy these three years! These three years are the easiest three years in the process of taking care of the baby. Don't worry about being late for school, doing homework after school, making breakfast and picking up at noon, so hi! I feel that life has reached its peak!

The seventh stage, children after the age of six. The first big problem is tutoring homework. Parents who are in poor health should never help their homework, cherish their lives and stay away from it. Eight times a day, back and forth, rain or shine, I was not so lucky when I went to school by myself.

The eighth stage, children after the age of twelve. Congratulations on your child's puberty, the so-called rebellious period. Children in this period should not scold or fight, but also be prepared to be despised by children at any time. Only you can't think of it, and no child can't do it.

With children, there are difficulties at every stage, but one thing is happy. Children grow up day by day, and children bring us laughter. May the children grow up healthily and happily.

I am the mother of two children, and I take care of two children by myself. Now Dabao is 4 years old in kindergarten, Bauer 12 months old, and just started to learn to walk. Every night after 4 o'clock, chickens fly and dogs jump at home. You said it was the hardest to take care of a baby for a few months. I think this is my time to take care of the baby.

The feeling of a new mother

When I gave birth to Dabao, I looked at the baby who slept quietly like an angel. I think mothers who say it's hard to take care of their babies should be a little melodramatic. This baby is easy to take care of! Eat and sleep, sleep and eat. I didn't delay anything. At that time, I still felt energetic, and I could catch up with a drama by breastfeeding at night. The novice mother is so happy.

The baby is growing.

After adding complementary food to Dabao for six months, I began to feel a little flustered. I feel depressed every time I cook complementary food. Either my baby doesn't like it or I look like a failure. In order to supplement food, I spend most of my energy every day and constantly deny myself. Don't weigh your baby at any time, lest you get hungry and thin.

At this time, the baby began to be disobedient, often crying or looking for a hug, walking like this, often carrying the baby to cook, carrying the baby to the toilet, I believe experienced mothers have this feeling.

I'm going for a walk.

Dabao 13 months began to try to walk, often holding the sofa to walk back and forth. Obstacles on the ground should be cleaned at any time, more frequently every day and more outdoor activities. After all, Dabao has to walk, and his mother should cooperate with him to take him out for a walk and step on the solid ground, so that he can feel the happiness brought by walking.

I think this period is the most tiring in the whole process of bringing a baby. I have to make a lot of preparations before going out every day. With the increase of going out, the number of bacteria I contact is also increasing. Babies are particularly fond of getting sick, and they are particularly uninterested when they are sick. He spends more than half a month at a time.

Sleeping at night when the baby is a toddler is also a problem. My Dabao started weaning at this time, and tried not to use diapers at night. So get up several times at night to pee, or you will be flooded. At this time, due to the excessive physical consumption during the day, there is really no time to follow the drama.

In a word, bringing a baby is a new kind of practice, either becoming an immortal or a demon. I know what this means. When the baby learns to walk, it is my mother's most tired period. I don't know if you are like this.

Every stage has its difficulties.

Newborns should be fed many times, especially at night, which is sour and refreshing. . .

1-3 months, observe whether the stool is normal and whether there are any symptoms of colic (I also feel pain according to the way he hurts).

3-6 months, if the baby has a fever or virus infection, go to the hospital day and night to understand what it means to wait in line for 2 hours and see a doctor for 3 minutes.

6- 12 months, choose complementary food, match nutrition, coax children to eat, spend money like running water (the trouble of the poor)

12-24 months, I learned to walk (I was worried that my children would not learn to walk because they were stupid), took them out to get in touch with the outside world, started talking in a high mode, and kept talking in my ear.

24-36 months, choose kindergarten, choose early education, buy toys, learn to talk, and get along with children of the same age (either bullied by other children, or bullied by other children, the teacher interviewed)

Go to kindergarten after the age of 3, prepare materials, register, and look up materials in the park (another life drama in Where are you going)

After that, it is.

Elementary school, junior high school, high school and university (worried about their children falling in love, preaching and not listening)

After graduation (worrying about children being bullied at work)

Get married (worried that the child will be bullied by her husband, there is an old father crying here)

Give birth to a child (worry that the child is too tired to take care of)

Finally, it is

In the newborn stage, grandchildren often eat milk and eat a lot, which needs many times. . . . . . .

My wonderful and hard life. . . . . . . .