What should I do if the marriage that quarrels every day makes me very tired? My indecision made a third party have children.

The marriage of a man with dirty eyes is every wife's nightmare if her husband cheats. So what does it mean if the husband not only cheats, but also has children with a third party and forms a family? So I'm tired of the marriage that quarrels every day. How to deal with it? What are the corresponding methods? Let's take a look at the article that140,000 married Bian Xiao in March.

If so, it means telling the principal room that it's time to stop sleeping and living in a muddle.

Only one of the two daughters-in-law and the third party can be saved unless a wife and a concubine are allowed to have a threesome.

Some Tang Huoren, who are inherently weak in law, have always been timid and tolerant, and they don't even have the courage to speak loudly to defend their dignity. Tolerance of timidity not only does not make the third party grow a sense of responsibility, but becomes more rampant. The legal end result of this kind of Tang Huo is that the two places are separated, and they are driven out of the house after marriage, or they lose their homes because of depression and divorce, or they wait for a third party to become the new owner of the house and the maid of the new house.

Procrastination, indecision, the independence and tenacity of the main room immediately caused the existence of two "homes", and needless to say, their own pain will continue to endanger the happy growth of children. Putting this marriage in turmoil is like being tied to a bomb. It is more difficult to wait for the bomb to explode anytime and anywhere, and it is more difficult to endure it than to explode immediately.

Is it necessary to save this marriage if it really degenerates to this point? In the marriage of a man with dirty eyes, feelings are not afraid of hardship. What he is afraid of is a change of heart, and his heart is gone. Where is love? Without love, what practical value and practical significance does this marriage have?

Snow girl married her husband 10 years, and everyone has a different job. Although there are occasional minor disputes, the overall situation is harmonious. The daughter is smart and wishful thinking, and is usually taken care of by her elders.

Three years ago, she found out that her husband had a third party outside. At that time, the third party was not pregnant. She was very angry when she learned about it. She made it clear to her husband that they quarreled and had a cold violence for some time. Xue woman is afraid of losing this man and this family. They choose to tolerate cowardice and infidelity, but they never divorce.

A third party got pregnant two years ago and gave birth to a boy last spring. The husband ran to the third party's residence more often, as if he regarded it as a "home" and a hotel. It is considered the responsibility of a husband and a father to come once every ten days and a half months.

10.4 million For the marriage in March, Xue Nv sadly found that this family had already become an empty shell. But she doesn't want a divorce. She always feels that she is over forty years old, and her appearance and figure have lost their former charm. She is full of confidence and fear to start a better life and find a new marriage.

After that, Xue invited a technical professional psychological counselor to help her and made a set of careful and meticulous plans to save her marriage. Finally, after successfully persuading her husband to abandon the third party, Xue secretly reached an agreement with the third party.

My husband has gone home. Although there are still some bad feelings between them, at least my family is here. Family reunion and the details of the main members of the family are the most important things in a family, followed by how to repair and maintain this tortuous marriage relationship to some extent.

Among the help seekers, there are many such examples with similar experiences, but the results are usually very different because of different temperament and solutions.

For divorced people, they have started their own beautiful life. I wish them new happiness and never meet that playboy again.

_ Divorced people, many of them complain about others in their worries and differences, are depressed and depressed, want to be reluctant to leave, are inseparable, are miserable, and are upset and haggard all day. This is the key goal that Uighur teachers should support.

Most of these thoughts are: on the one hand, they are unwilling to leave, unwilling to leave, and afraid to leave. The purpose of trying to save the marriage is not to have a divided family with children, nor to imagine a sudden change in one's lifestyle, and to be full of fear and worry about the daily life of a single-parent family in the future.

On the other hand, I'm not divorced, and I can't stand her husband's blatant resistance. I also have an illegitimate child with a third party outside. The most basic trust and emotional foundation between husband and wife has already been reduced to the lowest value. I make do with my daily life just to continue my original lifestyle better, or imagine that my husband can start all over again one day, reconnect himself and rekindle the flame of love.

It's not easy to say no or not. When the husband and the third party have children, there is another bridge between them. And with the change of time, the bridge has become more and more unbreakable. Even if the husband and the third party have differences and no longer contact, there are still children as a cache, which makes it more difficult to save the husband's heart and save the marriage.

Boys have children born out of wedlock, but they refuse to divorce. First, all boys have an ideal of enjoying "happiness together". Second, because of the work pressure that men bear after cheating, they can't give up enjoying the "happiness together." It is not all that a man who loves divorce must have family responsibilities, husband obligations and father obligations. This is just a smoke bomb.

Only by increasing work pressure and letting boys show their true thoughts can we see how much affection is left between husband and wife and which part of the marriage between husband and wife has gone.

In any case, when you learn that your husband is cheating on you and has a child with a third party outside, you must separate the third party decisively and in a way. The sooner, the better for everyone. Especially when children are young, they don't know the difference between dust and things, and the third party is young, so there are many opportunities for remarriage. On the other hand, the longer it drags on, the bigger the short board will be, and who will be given all the pain in the end.

The marriage that quarrels every day makes me very tired. When the husband returns to China, both of them should think carefully: what is wrong with the married life, how to make up for the damage caused by this period together, and what else must be changed. Make a repair plan for this marriage and then put it into practice. As the main office, it is necessary to properly solve the work pressure and pain during this period to calm down the psychological state, otherwise the interaction between the two will continue to be tortuous and difficult, and the diligence of saving the marriage will be greatly affected.