Reflections on reading dignity

After reading dignity, feeling 1 dignity is the basic connotation of a person's existence. Dignity is equal to everyone. Dignity is an article in our fourth grade textbook. What impressed me most was the young people inside.

Xuefeng Li, the author of the article, told us a true story: In a cold winter, a group of refugees came to Walson, Southern California. People living in small towns have prepared a lot of food for these refugees to eat and entertain them. However, with one exception, he endured hunger and cold, refused the food in front of him, and insisted on paying the labor before accepting the food. Uncle Jackson, the mayor, was moved by his self-esteem. Uncle Jackson invited him to work in the manor. The young man not only became a good worker, but also married his daughter and finally became a billionaire. He is the oil magnate Hammer.

After reading this article, I understand that dignity is priceless. It is more precious and important than anything. As long as people have dignity, they will persist in their efforts, succeed and create great wealth.

The name Hong Zhanhui is no stranger to us. He is also a man with great dignity. From the disc "China Boy Hong Zhanhui", from the newspaper and the radio, I know that my brother dropped out of school, his father was seriously ill, and his mother left home, which brought great pressure to the young Hong Zhanhui, but he did not fall down. He bears a burden that he shouldn't bear, and silently suffers everything. Someone donated money to him, but he declined politely: I have hands, feet and brains, and I am a healthy person. Why do I want other people's things instead of going to work? He thinks that if he accepts other people's funding, he will get something for nothing. I was moved by his spirit.

Yes, if people live, they must live with dignity. Once a person loses his precious dignity, he leaves only an empty shell without initiative.

After watching Dignity 2, it's past six o'clock, and the restless afternoon slowly falls into the bleak night. The sky was full of his mysterious side, and the moonlight penetrated into the room through the cracks in the curtains, illuminating a sad corner.

Open the screen window and let the wind attack mercilessly, and the sadness in that corner will also turn. Approaching it, a wisp of fragrance comes to my face. The book "Living with Dignity in Suffering" engraved in Song Dynasty is Mo Yan's, and suddenly I seem to find great comfort in my heart, and a beam of light from heaven shines on me.

After the appreciation, it tells the story of Mo Yan's childhood life experience. Suffering is a portrayal of life at that time, and hardship is an endorsement. Nevertheless, Mo Yan's generation of famous artists started here. Mo's father was framed at that time, and Mo's mother had a relapse and had no money to treat her. The hard life oppressed Mo Yan. Mo Yan is not worried about this, but pays more attention to his mother, because many women in the village have found their own swords because they can't stand this suffering. And afraid of your own mother. Mo Yan deliberately raised his voice to call his mother when he came back from work every day, for fear that his mother would take things too hard and do something stupid. Finally, when he came back from work, Mo Yan, who had never seen his mother, knelt on the ground and screamed loudly. In the gloom, he suddenly saw his mother, who asked him why. Mo Yan didn't answer, and Mo Ma knew what her son was thinking, so she said cheerfully, "Don't worry, son, I won't leave until the king screams!" In this way, a silent farce ended.

This article also tells that Mo Yan was hungry and got together with a group of children to learn to bark, just for rations. After returning home, it inevitably attracted great criticism from Mo Ye: "The mouth is an aisle, so you can eat whatever you want. Why do you bark like a dog just to eat? You have to have backbone! "

Yes, a man should have backbone, forbearance, optimism and enterprising spirit when facing difficulties and disappointments.

You can't be so pessimistic and depressed. Where is my ambition? I want to work hard, I can't be overwhelmed by suffering, I want to look at problems with an optimistic attitude, and I want to solve problems with a positive attitude. I can't let this go on.

A breeze blows on my face, laziness has disappeared from my dictionary, replaced by hard work. When I face suffering again, I have accepted everything with a humble, calm and elegant attitude. Of course, I won't stop there, but I will work harder and be more active than before.

The evening breeze gradually brushed away my day's fatigue and looked out of the window. The night is quiet, the bright moonlight is scattered all over the floor, and the gray sky is dotted. On the roadside, the wind in late autumn and early winter beat against the camphor leaves, mixed with a few provocative dog barks, and I closed the book comfortably.

Only the right person, holding the right book at the right time, will bloom like a flower and wipe out the fragrance. I think this article and my chance encounter are also a kind of dust fate. Away from the cold, noise and impetuousness, I learned to face everything with humility, calmness and elegance.

After reading Dignity, I feel that Dignity is a mountain and Dignity is water-I think we birds are the best! A grass and a tree convey the spring glow of love, give up one's life for righteousness and convey love, and light the torch of spirit with the firewood of life. "I fell to the ground again, mom. What time is it now? We children jumped for joy! Turn a corner and come to the promenade. In the middle of the corridor, you can see a vegetable field, an elephant skateboard carved with stone and an orange tree with golden "little lanterns". There are 9 chickens beside the promenade, including 3 black chickens and 6 white chickens.

The main idea of the article is this: a bus bound for the provincial capital stopped at a place in the middle of the village without looking at the shops behind it. The conductor and the driver announced in a tough tone that the transportation fee would be increased 10 yuan. Other passengers took out their money one after another. Only when they received the young woman sitting at the back, she looked out of the window as if she didn't see what was happening in the car. The angry conductor waved to the young woman who refused to pay. The young woman was slapped in the face, but she stubbornly turned to face the conductor. In a flash, everyone in the car was stunned by the young woman's "stubbornness".

Fierce and strong conductor, luxurious and beautiful young woman. She is certainly not without this area 10 yuan, nor is she unwilling to pay this 10 yuan. What she refuses to sell is the dignity that those "timid" people in the car are selling bit by bit anytime and anywhere.

I also read a story:1In the spring of 1995, a large number of migrant workers and female workers of Zhuhai Ruijin Electronics Company fell to their knees. This is only because of an exceptional 10 minute break, which makes the workers happily forget the iron rule set by Korean boss Kim: all workers leave the workshop in four teams during the break.

The only one who refused to kneel was a 22-year-old boy. Kim ordered him again and again, and his family tried to persuade him, but he still stood there. The young man said, "Never kneel before you die! I am a China person with personality and dignity! "

Indeed, when dignity is most needed, it is often too heavy to be borne by body and mind.

After reading Dignity, I feel that Confucius, a great thinker and educator in ancient times, once said, "People don't know what they can do without faith." If a person loses his integrity, he doesn't know what else to do.

I read a profound article today. It's not just the body that squats. The article tells the story of a lively, lovely and childish little boy who went down to the zoo under the guidance of his father. During the ticket inspection, his father actually asked his son to crouch down to avoid the ticket inspection.

Father and son not only lost their dignity, but also lost their honesty which is more precious than money.

I criticized the father and son while reading a book. That dad, don't you know that good habits are cultivated from childhood? Not only do you not teach your children honesty, but you also let them evade tickets. If you bring up bad children like this, you will only leave irreparable harm in the future. Is this just a few pennies? And that boy, you should have the ability to distinguish between good and bad, know how to be honest, and your temporary mistake will bring you lifelong regret. Not only did you lose your dignity in front of people, but you also lost your integrity. Integrity is more important than money. Honesty is precious, it is far more precious than those jewels and gold coins. Sometimes a word, an action, an carelessness, honesty will run away or disappear from you. So we must cherish it. You father and son are really like a chair. Dad's legs are weak, so the chair is crooked. The father is dishonest, can the son be honest?

After reading this story, I thought of myself. It seems that I almost evaded the ticket once. At that time, I was 7 or 8 years old and went out to play, ready to buy tickets at the door. At that time, I was close to 1.26 cm, only less than one centimeter, and I didn't have to pay the student fee. Why don't you squat for a while? It's almost the same anyway. No, it's dishonest for me to squat. Different answers are entangled in my heart, it doesn't matter, who will read it. No one can tell. If I squat, I will be sorry for the title of primary school student and lose my integrity. Finally, the one who didn't squat won. I didn't squat, the conductor aunt looked at it and said; "Almost, free of charge. I went in to play happily. If I crouched, I wouldn't be so happy and have no integrity. I am really proud of my choice at that time.

I must strive to uphold my integrity and not let him have a chance to escape. Students, honesty is the basic principle of being a man. Without honesty, even the qualifications for being a man are lost. We should act immediately, insist on honesty and treat others with sincerity. Honesty is far more precious than money.

Reflections on Dignity 5 This is a book that discusses how lawyers develop clients and realize the value of lawyers. This book introduces the advanced experience of European and American lawyers and some methods to obtain the source of the case, which is of great reference significance to our students who are engaged in the lawyer industry in the future. The Balance between Morality and Survival Lawyer Ma An found the dilemma of China lawyers through the investigation of European and American lawyers, which originated from the wrong self-role orientation. Lawyers can never position themselves as businessmen. If they adopt the method of "salesman", "marketing" is doomed to fail. How to find the source of the next case while maintaining dignity? This is the most fundamental theme of the whole book.

Lawyers are a profession that wins by virtue. Abandoning morality and becoming a lawyer who sells himself everywhere like a businessman are doomed to failure. When the client chooses a lawyer, he wants to find an expert and a wise man, not a businessman, but the lawyer must regard himself as a businessman, which is contrary to the client's expectation.

At present, Britain and the United States attach great importance to professional ethics, while Chinese lawyers are indifferent to professional ethics. They believe that only by selling their conscience and morality and ignoring the public image can they solve the problem of survival, and attaching importance to professional ethics will restrict their access to the source of the case. But this book tells us that professional ethics is not only a constraint on lawyers, but also a weapon to enhance their professional competitiveness. Emphasizing the professional norms of lawyers is actually a study of the public demand as the object of legal service. She reflects what the public hates and likes, and the secret of lawyers' entrepreneurship is hidden in these rules. Therefore, as a lawyer, it is more important to uphold a just heart, constantly pursue the moral height that lawyers should reach, and find a balance between morality and survival, so as to become a lawyer who is respected by society and can meet his own survival needs.

How to expand business with dignity

1, establish significant business expertise to locate customer preference experts. You need to limit your business to a specific field. Specialization will make you familiar with and experience this field, which will make you better and more efficient in serving customers. With the improvement of customer satisfaction, the reputation in this field will be established, and the source of the case and the lawyer's fee will also increase. Specialization will also help you enjoy your work and conduct continuous research in your fields of interest, which is more conducive to increasing your experience and expanding your business.

2, determine your target customer base, determine your target customer base, that is, the customers you need to choose, you need to determine the customers that suit your standards, such as his philosophy, his ethics, or specific points, such as occupation, income, status, etc. Only by determining these standards can you find your customers in this direction, which will not only improve the efficiency of your development direction, but also avoid wasting precious time to develop the wrong customers and bring them to your work.

3. Make sure your service is different. You should make sure that you and your service are different from other competitors. As a lawyer's personal competitive advantage, including your education, background, experience, and your idea of "survival and dignity". Generally speaking, the more dazzling your education, the richer your skills and experience, the more you can gain the trust of customers and the more substantial your lawyer's fees will be. Your service advantage lies in whether you have an impressive service model and whether you can meet the needs of customers.

4. Promote yourself with dignity. Take the road of "EBM", establish the image of experts and tutors and expand their professional reputation by hosting lectures, writing articles, writing and mailing legal newsletters and TV interviews for free. Establish a "mailing list", which includes (1) past and present customers, (2) potential customers, (3) people who may become a leverage network, and groups who may become your target customers, (4) media editors and producers contacted by your target customers. Make full use of your mailing list, which is very helpful to expand your business.

5. Know how to use non-promotional methods to establish credibility and influence with potential customers. Customers need to build confidence in your ability, whether you really pay attention to his problems, and whether the expenses they invest are effective. When meeting potential customers, you should not try your best to persuade them to accept your service. On the contrary, you should try your best to help them. When a potential client becomes an actual client, he should uphold the lawyer's professional ethics and provide him with sincere and high-quality services. In fact, most of lawyers' new business sources come from satisfied old customers, which deserves all lawyers' attention.

How to develop your own career

1. Morality is the theme that legal persons will always remember. Law and morality are as inseparable as two wheels of a car and two wings of a bird. The relationship between them is an eternal topic in history and reality. The history of human legal development tells us that from the emergence of law to the realization of the rule of law, it is an interactive evolution process of moral legalization and legal moralization. Moral legalization emphasizes that human moral concepts are cast into law, that is, the formation process of good law; The moralization of law emphasizes the quality and morality of people internalized by law. As a legal person, we should be good at handling the relationship between the two and maintaining the fairness of the law. Only by constantly improving one's moral level can one's career develop continuously.

2. Serve the public and provide free professional services for charities and the poor. Providing free services to charities and the poor will bring you personal and professional rewards. Personally, this will enhance your goals and ideals, which is very important for you and the firm. Providing public services for charitable organizations, or working in a local bar association, can expand your social circle, improve your legal skills or leadership skills, and is an excellent way to expand your reputation.

Dealing with other lawyers, humility and professionalism are absolutely necessary. The establishment of reputation has a great influence on the communication with peers. If you do whatever it takes to win the lawsuit, it will immediately make you notorious and "difficult to cooperate". Or if you make low-level mistakes in some professional fields, you will also let your peers look at you with colored glasses. Therefore, only by actively handling the relationship with peers can we have a long-term and rewarding career.

A good lawyer who steals from his boss is good at learning from a good lawyer. In the office, we should actively learn from the strengths of others, form comprehensive skills and styles that are beneficial to ourselves, and promote them to our own methods.

5. Dare to ask questions, admit that you are inexperienced and dare to ask simple questions. Everyone has their own unfamiliar areas. When you are not ashamed to ask questions, your colleagues will be happy to teach you their knowledge. Their experience will help you avoid detours.

6. Work hard on the details. When dealing with trivial matters, you will find some important clues, which may sometimes play a very important role in your case. A good lawyer's career and reputation are built by finding big things in small things. This keen insight shows attention to detail and active efforts. If you don't consider this, you ignore what other good lawyers can find. You know, good lawyers work on details.

7. Be familiar with your technology. Before you are familiar with your technology, you must learn your professional knowledge well, lawyer Ma and An said in the book. The purpose of studying jurisprudence is to improve the ability to use law. Even at work, we should constantly learn legal knowledge and apply what we have learned. Improve your professional skills and be good at all kinds of legal proceedings.

8. After a period of feedback, the people who manage you will evaluate and comment on you. Usually these comments will mention your development, work attitude and contribution to ordinary affairs. They rarely improve their feedback on specific problems and technologies. Find feedback and use it as a learning tool to constantly improve yourself, so that you are not far from becoming an excellent lawyer.

Through the understanding of this book, I think we law students should actively improve their abilities in all aspects, especially their communicative competence, on the premise of learning legal knowledge well. Especially in the case that the employment situation of law students in China is so severe, we must constantly improve our ability if we want to stand in this society.

Thoughts on reading Dignity 6 I learned a text called Dignity, which benefited a lot and is still fresh in my memory.

The article describes that in one winter, a group of refugees came to the town of Walson in Southern California. They were sallow and tired, and the kind Walson family made a fire to entertain them. As soon as they saw the food, they didn't even bother to thank them, so they wolfed it down. But when Jackson handed the food to a pale and scrawny young man, he asked, "Sir, do you need me to do anything for you to eat so much?" "No, I don't have any job for you." "Sir, I can't eat your food, because I can't eat it without working." After chatting for a while, Jackson thought for a moment and said, "Would you like to rub my back?" The young man immediately squatted down to help him rub his back. After playing for a few minutes, Jackson said, "Young man, you played very well, and now my waist is extremely comfortable." With that, the food was handed to the young man, who immediately wolfed it down. Jackson said to the young man, "Young man, would you like to stay and help at my estate?" The young man stayed. Two years later, the young man became a chef in the manor. Jackson also betrothed his daughter to him. He told her: "although he has nothing now, he is 100% rich because he has dignity!" " Twenty years later, the young man really achieved great success. He is the oil magnate Hammer.

After learning this text, we can learn from Jackson: we realized his kindness and learned to respect the personality of others; Respect the fruits of others' labor. From the hammer: We have learned self-respect, self-love and self-improvement. Being a man is to be a dignified person. From this, I deeply realized that in life, we should respect the fruits of other people's labor like Jackson and be a dignified person like Hammer. Because only by being a dignified person can we achieve great success.

Dignity 7 Dignity is an article about what happened to oil tycoon Hammer when he was young. In the small town of Walson, a group of refugees came, and the kind and simple Walson family cooked food for them. They wolfed down their food without even saying a word of thanks.

Except for one person, that person is a hammer. He is as thin as a bone. Uncle Jackson brought him food. He looked up and said, "Is there anything I can do?" Jackson thought, leave something for others to eat, and every kind person will do the same. And it is negative shook his head. ...

This article made me understand that a person should have dignity. Hammer maintained his dignity with his words and deeds and gained the trust of Uncle Jackson.

In life, I want to say to beggars who get property by the roadside without working: "Those who get it for nothing will be poor for life, because you have lost your dignity."

Speaking of which, I remembered one thing: Luo Zihan and I lined up in the science classroom together. When his things fell, I didn't pick them up, but gave him a push. I felt very happy at that time. At this time, I learned the article "Dignity", only to know that my behavior at that time was wrong, which made me feel very guilty, and it was still so deeply imprinted in my mind, which was really unforgettable!

This article made me understand a truth: you have to respect people and safeguard your dignity in order to gain trust.

The article Dignity really gave me a hint.

After reading the dignity, I feel that all eight cars have left, carrying a car full of people who gave in and the only woman who did not give in. "After reading this article, this sentence is deeply imprinted in my mind.

The main idea of the article is this: a bus bound for the provincial capital stopped at a place in the middle of the village without looking at the shops behind it. The conductor and the driver announced in a tough tone that the transportation fee would be increased 10 yuan. Other passengers took out their money one after another. Only when they received the young woman sitting at the back, she looked out of the window as if she didn't see what was happening in the car. The angry conductor waved to the young woman who refused to pay. The young woman was slapped in the face, but she stubbornly turned to face the conductor. In a flash, everyone in the car was stunned by the young woman's "stubbornness".

Fierce and strong conductor, luxurious and beautiful young woman. It's definitely not that she doesn't have 10 yuan, and it's definitely not that she doesn't pay this 10 yuan. She won't give up, it's the dignity that those "timid" people in the car give up bit by bit at any time and place ... I've also read such a story:1In the spring of 995, a large number of migrant workers and female workers in Zhuhai Ruijin Electronics Company fell to their knees. This is only because of an exceptional 10 minute break, which makes the workers happily forget the iron rule set by Korean boss Kim: all workers leave the workshop in four teams during the break.

The only one who refused to kneel was a 22-year-old boy. Kim ordered him again and again, and his family tried to persuade him, but he still stood there. The young man said, "Never kneel before you die! I am a China person with personality and dignity! " Indeed, when dignity is most needed, it is often too heavy to be borne by body and mind.

Dignity is the most dazzling bunch of wintersweet in the ice and snow; Dignity is the blooming saussurea involucrata on the Himalayas; Dignity is the flag of a ship that suddenly appears in the vast ocean. ...

On Sunday, my mother and I went to Chengdu to play. Arriving at the ticket gate of the station, my mother whispered to me, "Hello! When you check in later, squat down a little and evade the ticket! " I opened my eyes wide and said, "This is not good!" "What's the matter? Anyway, people can't see it! " I wanted to retort, but my mother interrupted me: "Well, well, where did you get so much nonsense!" " "I was silent.

Ticket gates and evasion are all I can think of now. How can I not carry out my mother's orders? Alas! There's no time to think. The ticket gates are all here.

When the ticket inspector saw us, he stopped us and said sternly, "Tickets!" My mother gave the ticket to the ticket inspector with a smile on her face and stepped on me. My face froze, but I still swallowed the "ah" that should have been called alive. I choked for a long time, but I had to squat down at the thought of my mother's eyes. "Go!" With the call of the ticket inspector, I kept this uncomfortable posture and walked out of the ticket gate. Sitting in the car, I feel uneasy, as if there is a lively rabbit in my heart, and I can't be happy. Finally, I couldn't sit still and tricked my mother into buying an underwater car. I ran to the ticket gate in one breath. At this moment, I heard a voice saying, "Alas, there are more and more people who evade tickets now!" " "My heart" hitched ",more uneasy. I took out my mother's pocket money and gave it to the ticket inspector, and then I ran into the car.

My mother looked at my empty hand and asked, "Where's the water?" I replied with a smile: "You don't have to drink water, but you can't lose your dignity!" Mom, Zhang Er and Monk are at sea.

I got my dignity back!

After reading the dignity, I feel 10. In an ordinary day, we finished writing the article "Dignity", which made us feel that this day was extraordinary.

The article tells the story of the oil magnate who exchanged dignity and labor for food when he fled. The article clearly tells us that a person should have self-esteem, self-confidence and self-improvement. Don't look down on yourself. By working hard, you are sure to succeed. Speaking of which, I thought of my classmate Shen Zhihua. His parents are old and his family is poor. The clothes he usually wears are washed and washed, and he wears them again and again. Therefore, his clothes look pale. So none of his classmates wanted to make friends with him, and they gave him many ugly nicknames. Shen Zhihua can only play alone at ordinary times. Nevertheless, he never gave up studying, finished his homework on time every day, worked meticulously and made progress unconsciously. And one thing, completely changed the students' views. It was a Chinese class. When teacher Wu asked questions, the students froze. They all sat there thinking hard. One minute passed, and no one raised their hands. At this moment, a small hand was raised and all the students looked at it. Surprisingly, Shen Zhihua, the students are very surprised. So Mr Wu asked Shen Zhihua to answer. I didn't expect him to be silly at ordinary times. Not only did he answer questions loudly, but he also answered accurately and spoke boldly.

Reason. His wonderful answer won the praise and encouragement of the teacher and warm applause from the students. Every time I think of this, I always think of the sentence that Lao Tzu said, "If there are three people, there must be my teacher." After the students passed this incident, they no longer looked down on him and often helped him in life, making him feel the warmth of the group.

After learning this lesson, I really understood the meaning of dignity.