What should I do if I want a divorce and can't let go of my children?

Want to divorce but don't want to have children, the best way is actually to do this:

1, take the initiative to confess to your child

When both husband and wife have decided to divorce, they should discuss how to explain it clearly to their children instead of continuing to hide or act in front of them. The most important thing for parents is to let their children know that the love and hate of their elders will not affect their care and love for their children. After the divorce, mom and dad will still love him and give him the best living conditions. Although the lifestyle has changed in the future, love will never decrease, and efforts should be made to make children accept this decision.

2. Accumulate divorce capital.

Since the relationship with her husband has reached an irreparable level, it is better to start the free-range mode, stop paying attention to his every move, and shift the focus of life to yourself and your children. Take care of yourself and your children, try to save money, try to save enough money to get a divorce as soon as possible, and end such a bad life. A woman must not divorce impulsively without money and ability. If you lose your survival capital, you will lead an extremely difficult life with your children. Don't ruin your life's happiness because of a temporary anger. Being sober and rational is the best way.

Don't complain in front of children

Sometimes there may be conflicts between husband and wife because of their children's upbringing, but emotional problems are not entirely caused by children. Now that both husband and wife have reached the stage of divorce, there will definitely be a lot of resentment and disgust towards each other. Don't show it in front of the children at this time. Parents are the most important people in children's hearts. No matter how much you dislike your partner, that person is the most important person in the world to a child. Since complaining can't solve the problem, it's better to leave a good impression on your children and make them feel that you are a gentle parent.