Reflections on Yi Shu's My First Half Life

Recently, the TV series "My First Half Life" is very popular, and many friends around myna are chasing it. Starling saw that many netizens on the Internet were criticizing or voicing their views on marriage, and then associated with Yi Shu's many golden sentences about marriage, love and love, she felt that she had many ideas and shared one or two.

I used to "support you" and finally divorced. Maybe the reality is even more tragic than this TV plot. Is my personality changed or my mood different? ? How many couples love each other before and after the wedding, but when it comes to marriage, some people shrink back, some people walk into the marriage hall, enjoy everyone's blessings and start the prelude to a dull life. At this time, one side can't help it, and the parallel lines become parabolas or hyperbolas. Yi Shu said that true love is "Hello, I'm not bad, you won't feel pain, and I won't be swayed by considerations of gain and loss". Myna feels more and more that in today's social reality, two people coming together must be the result of the right match, which has several meanings:

The families of the first two people are similar. It is true that love in the city is a strong alliance, which is more common in the upper and middle classes. This is a high-quality class with a long-term vision. Usually it is planned for a long time in advance, full of wisdom and systematicness;

Second, the social classes of both sides are a little far from the economic point of view, but the other side with a little poor condition can make its ability stand out through its own efforts, and then it really has great potential in the eyes of parents with good conditions, and it is likely to become an upper-middle class in the future. In addition, men and women have similar world outlook, values and outlook on life. Here's a question. Why are they similar? Starlings feel that the side with good conditions lacks a lot of training for children. Because of the good conditions, children are given the best preferential treatment so that they can develop freely without fighting, which usually occurs in the middle and lower classes of society. On the other hand, people with poor conditions have a strong enterprising spirit, unwilling to be content with their own destiny, carefully observe and constantly improve themselves. In a subtle way, IQ and EQ can indeed change and gradually become similar. This second layer includes most groups and is the main body of normal distribution. This part of the prescient brothers and sisters desperately drill to the first floor, which requires great cost and sacrifice.

Third, there is a huge class difference between the two sides, which may be a huge difference in hardware or software. Maybe two people look at each other and stick together. Usually, the parent of the superior class will strongly oppose it. At this time, the two of them become small probability events, but usually the happy ending is still relatively small, and the big probability cannot be reached. Unless the less qualified party is amazed by perseverance, through their own efforts to completely counterattack, onto the peak, marry Bai or.

These three layers can't cover everything. There must be very special examples, which are not discussed here.

Therefore, myna believes that we should pursue hard-won things. First, we should improve ourselves, make our value stand out and make this value really more and more valuable. At this time, everything comes naturally. Instead of lamenting the future, lamenting the years and complaining about love in the workplace, we should think about how to go our own way and what we really pursue in our hearts, whether it is emotion or life goals.

Far away, or return to emotion. Yi Shu said, "It's so affectionate, but it's hard to say. It turns out that if you really love someone and feel sour in your heart, you will be speechless and sweet, and most of them will tell irrelevant people. " Myna herself has experienced this kind of love, which goes deep into the depths. A lot of words are in my brow, and I really love them. Many words come out of my eyes, just to look at each other deeply, as if the other half is eternal in time.

Yi Shu said, "Marriage has nothing to do with love. People always think that when love is mature, they will get married naturally, but they don't know that marriage is just a way of life. Everyone can get married. It's simple. And love is quite another matter. " Many people are together just for their parents' life, but when it's time to do something, they still haven't found that true love, so they will do it. Marriage can be done, and love can really be done! ?

Yi Shu said, "Is it useful to talk about it? Send a dozen flowers during the Spring Festival? A real man is a man who protects women. Everything focuses on her and takes care of her spiritual and life needs wholeheartedly. " Yi Shu is doing justice for women. Myna, as a man, also thinks this statement makes sense. Men should protect women and take care of them from the heart and life. Because of love, they have no hesitation. They are trying to understand every detail of her, every movement, a wink and a pout, and they can understand one of her intentions. These are all observations and getting along with each other, not making do, but really treating her as one of their own.

Yi Shu said, "That kind of rare friend. She is not jealous of my success. I am depressed, and she doesn't despise me. It is enough to have a confidant in life. " The world is so big that everyone will pass by many people. Why do you treat me like this when you know each other? This is the true meaning of a bosom friend. If we are drifting away from our parents in a foreign land, we really have such a friend around us when we are at our driest. I will tell you that you are rich. Then, can we also develop some possible friends into such lifelong confidants and close friends? Myna likes eternity, which is the eternity of you and me. Starlings are also glad to have such friends around them, but there are not many and they are still consolidating.

Yi Shu said, "The grievances that can be said are not grievances; A lover who can be taken away is not a lover. " Society is too cruel. Sometimes there are many grievances that can only be swallowed by yourself. We can't tell our parents or strangers. Friends who come too close should think about it, but we should also put it down. What we swallow is the cornerstone of growth. Myna believes in fate, which is amazing. It can make two people who are not related by blood come together quickly, and it can also make two people who are familiar with each other separate because of one or two small things, and then let these two people care about each other inexplicably and gradually take root. Finally, it depends on whether the fate is in place and whether it is strong. Even if there are many twists and turns in the middle, it will be together. All the episodes during the period are lubricants for the rest of life. If the fate is not enough, then if there is true love in the world, why not you and me?

Yi Shu said, "If you really want to do something, even if there are many obstacles, you will try your best to do it. But if you don't really want to achieve something, then even if the road ahead is smooth, you will try your best to stop yourself from advancing. " In the workplace, we usually encounter many obstacles, but the goal is set. If we really love this job, we should try our best to do it well and exceed the boss's expectations. If we don't love our present job, we should at least do it well and then pursue what we want to do. After all, we will only concentrate on what we want to do most, but the best thing is to create value and wealth. Emotionally, the world is noisy. It is not easy to meet a lovely person who can fall in love. Because of love, he will never hesitate. Because of love, he will cross Qianshan. He remembers every word. Everything he does for himself is warm in his heart. Because of love, he just wants to pay for him regardless of the consequences. Of course, he also hopes to have a good return. In our time, few people are completely willing to sacrifice themselves, which has become a material reality. Therefore, pursue your happiness within the pressure and scope you can bear, set your ideals free, build your healthy body, work hard, sweat and adjust bravely. We are still young, why not! ?

Yi Shu said a lot, isn't there a saying on the Internet, "Most people have heard too much truth, but they can't live a good life after all. That's because if you just listen to what others say, you won't really grow up. " These words have passed through our own minds and combined with our own lives, and we have to find different ourselves every day. If you know me and he knows me, that would be great!

Finally, Yi Shu's sentence cannot be missed.

"How to grow old gracefully?" "Be diligent in caring for the body, don't smoke, don't drink, don't touch drugs, get enough sleep, don't eat enough, and often bring three points of hunger." "What about love?" "Enjoy the company of the opposite sex and don't expect the other person to be a servant."

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