Think of a theme (idiom or sentence) and use the name when my wife and I got married. Thank you! ! ! According to (construction)

Buddha's love exhorts (lives) words (faces)

Stone asked: should I find someone I love to be my wife? Or should I find a wife who loves me?

Buddha laughed: The answer to this question is actually in your own heart. Over the years, who can make you love her to death, make you feel that life is full, and make you stand straight and keep moving forward? Or someone who loves you?

Buddha said: in that case, your life is doomed to nothing from now on! You are used to constantly improving yourself in the process of chasing love. When you stop chasing someone you love, the pace of your self-improvement stops.

What if the stone grabs the Buddha and I catch up with the person I love? Could it just be ...

Stone also smiled: but my friends advised me to find a girl who loves me as a wife?

Buddha said: in that case, your life is doomed to nothing from now on! You are used to constantly improving yourself in the process of chasing love. When you stop chasing someone you love, the pace of your self-improvement stops.

What if the stone grabs the Buddha and I catch up with the person I love? Could it just be ...

Buddha said: Because she is your favorite person, making her live happily is regarded as the greatest happiness in your life, so you will continue to work hard to make her live happier and happier. Happiness and happiness have no limit, so your efforts have no limit and will never stop.

The stone said, then I live a hard life, don't I?

Buddha said: after so many years, do you feel hard?

Stone shook his head and smiled again.

Stone asked: In this case, should I be kind to those who love me?

The Buddha shook his head and said, Do you need someone you love to be nice to you?

Stone gave a wry smile: I don't think I need it.

Buddha said: Tell me your reasons.

Si Tong said: I am very demanding of love, that is, I don't need sympathy mixed with pity. I asked her to love me from the bottom of her heart. Although sympathy, pity, tolerance and forbearance are also a kind of love, although they can also bring happiness to people in a certain sense, they make me hate it. If her love for me is mixed with these, then I'd rather she ignored me or refused my love directly, and I haven't had time to quit.

The Buddha smiled and said, OK, you have given the answer!

Stone asked: Why was a girl the most beautiful in my eyes when I loved her before? Love a girl now, but often find a more beautiful girl than her?

Buddha said: Are you sure you really love her that much? Are you the one who loves her the most in the world?

Stone said without hesitation: of course!

Buddha said: Congratulations. Your love for her is mature, rational, sincere and profound.

Stone was a little surprised: Oh?

The Buddha went on to say: She is not the most beautiful in the world. Even if you love her so much, you know this fact clearly. But you still love her so much, because you love not only her youth and beauty, but also her youth and beauty, but your love for her has gone beyond these superficial things and years. You love her whole person, mainly her unique heart.

Stone couldn't help saying: Yes, I really love her innocence and kindness, and cherish her naivety.

Buddha smiled: For your love, the test of any time is nothing.

Stone asked: Why did two people lose their previous passion and become more interdependent when they got together?

Buddha said: that's because your heart has imperceptibly turned love into affection …

The stone touched his head: affection?

The Buddha went on to say: when love reaches a certain level, it will unconsciously turn into family affection, and you will gradually regard her as a part of your life, so that you will have more tolerance and understanding. Only family ties are arranged by you from birth, and you have no choice, so what you can do in the future is to adapt to your family ties. No matter how noble you are, you must accept them unconditionally and be responsible for them.

Stone thought for a moment, nodded and said that family ties are indeed like this.

Buddha laughed: Love begins with mutual appreciation, falls in love with each other, and gets married with each other, but more importantly, it needs tolerance, understanding, habit and adaptation to join hands for a lifetime.

Stone was silent: love is also a kind of fate.

Si Tong asked: In such an era and such a society, a person like me loves someone so hard. Is it worth it?

Buddha said: What do you think?

Stone wanted to think, was speechless.

The Buddha was silent for a while, and finally he spoke again: since the road is his own choice, you can't complain, you can only have no regrets.

Stone heaved a sigh. Si Tong knew he understood. He looked at the Buddha firmly and said nothing.