A woman who is always nourished is like this...

There is a kind of woman who is nourished by love, nourished by life, and nourished by men...

And this kind of woman is like this.

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The landlady who lives downstairs from me is a well-mannered "lady". Her charm is still there, but since her retirement, her life has entered a contented mode.

Every day, she and her husband get up early to exercise, then go to the market hand in hand, drink tea at home, listen to dramas, and dance waltz in the square. This is almost her daily life.

Although she is our landlord, she is not as violent or aggressive as the housekeeper in Stephen Chow's movies. On the contrary, she is kind-hearted and tolerant.

She is the kind of friend who will cheer you up when she meets you at work; she is the kind of warm old man who will allow you to pay the rent a few days late when you are in a hurry; The noble person who is obsessed with the dictionary will lend a helping hand when you are confused.

The landlady is the first lovely old person I met in this city who loves life and is full of joy. So I enjoyed spending time with her and listening to her tell stories about her youth.

I heard from the landlady that the reason why she is so happy today is mostly because of her husband, Uncle Xu, the man who has loved her willingly for nearly 50 years and who has nourished her for nearly 50 years. .

They are about to celebrate their golden wedding year. They have walked hand in hand for nearly 50 years through wind and rain, and now they are as loving as ever. Now they still go to the market holding hands in the morning and fall asleep holding each other at night. When they mention each other, their voices are full of love, just like an old couple in love.

In the early years, Uncle Xu had been busy running around and working in order to support his family, so he felt that he owed his landlady, so when he got old, he always wanted to make it up to her and pampered her like a treasure in his hand.

Not only did he allow the landlady to retire two years early, but he also bought the building we live in now, allowing her to become a housekeeper and live a life where she can earn money while lying down. A look that countless women would envy.

Generally speaking, after getting old, the love between many couples slowly turns into family affection, and gradually there is no passion and sweetness. But the landlady and Uncle Xu still fight against each other and make others envious. They are simply a textbook example of a model couple.

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I once asked her, are the couple always so sweet?

Her answer is: Of course not, life is not a TV series about killing people, of course there will be quarrels. The days of stumbling together hand in hand can lead to the sweetness and peace of mind today.

The two people had been separated for a long time and had constant quarrels, and their relationship almost reached the point of breaking out. Just when the landlady was discouraged and thought about breaking up, something happened. And it was this incident that made them slowly understand how important each other was to them, and they never gave up on each other again.

Several years ago, the landlady accidentally got into a car accident and broke her leg. She was hospitalized for nearly half a year. At that time, Uncle Xu was with her in the hospital every day. He had never been able to cook, but during that time he also learned to cook and make soup, and tried his best to satisfy his landlady in different ways every day.

People often say that to test whether someone loves you, you need to get sick once. It was precisely because of this hospitalization that the landlady discovered that Uncle Xu actually loved her very much.

The landlady was originally slender, but during the days when she was hospitalized, Uncle Xu used various tonics to nourish her every three days, so she gained weight when she was discharged.

This is undoubtedly a sweet trouble for her who loves beauty. But Uncle Xu comforted her and said: "It's okay to be fatter. Then you can't run away anymore, so just stay with me."

When the landlady heard this, she felt that her husband was glib and dishonest, but she This trick is really useful for her. She was never tired of listening to Uncle Xu's love words for most of her life, and felt that it was a kind of happiness to be with him like this.

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The landlady and Uncle Xu have spent nearly half their lives to prove that each other is the right person. Even if they grow old, they still love you as before. Even after many ups and downs, They all kept walking and helping each other.

As the most representative loving couple in Happy Lane. The neighbor's aunties like to chat with the landlady while playing mahjong. Most of the topics were about how the landlady and Uncle Xu managed to still be in love after decades.

The enthusiastic landlady always answers everyone’s questions. She hopes that through her story and experience, more people can understand that both marriage and love are inseparable from a few words. : "Marry the right person."

She often said that the most important thing for a woman is not to marry well, but to marry right. Marrying the right person will make you live happily for the rest of your life. Even if you are not so wealthy in this life, you will still live a happy life. But when you marry the wrong person, even if he is rich and wealthy, you will still be unhappy.

When you get older, you will find that what women want is happiness, not money.

Therefore, she often advises some young girls to keep their eyes open before falling in love and getting married, to love the person who truly loves you, and to grow old hand in hand with him.

A man does not necessarily have to be very good, or how many sweet words he can speak. But if a man is unwilling to accompany you when you need him, and is unwilling to speak sweet words to you when you want to hear sweet words, then he can basically be judged as not worthy of your trust.

She will comfort some married couples: Being able to become husband and wife is a blessing that has been cultivated for several lifetimes. Therefore, no matter how difficult life is, we must support each other, rely on each other, and work together to overcome the difficulties of life.

Yes, both love and marriage are a science. You need to learn and understand together, and slowly digest and understand it in life. Only in this way, when you grow old, can you understand the preciousness of each other, understand the difficulties of the wind and rain, and cherish each other more.

04

Presumably, many people are familiar with these pictures.

In her last class before retirement, He Haiqin, a female teacher at Yancheng Normal University, was teaching her classmates seriously when her husband suddenly appeared in the classroom and gave her a big surprise.

It turned out that Teacher He’s husband rushed to class and gave his wife, who was about to retire, a bouquet of carefully prepared flowers.

Then, the gentle-looking husband asked Teacher He to hold the flowers and take photos with the students, while he was responsible for helping to take photos. After class, Teacher He and her husband rode their bicycles, chatting and laughing, and went home leisurely.

With the most treasured grace.

Even if we have gray hair and slowly falter, love will always be young.

If you love the right person, you will be nourished day and night, by love, by marriage, and by life.