Is it a good thing that boys read too much?

The key is what kind of books to read. If you read classics that can stand the test of the times, have your own judgment and are an official, you should hone yourself in doing things. As a boy, the more you read, the better.

Because the books you read seem useless, but long-term persistence, reading excellent works and talking with first-class masters will naturally expand your pattern, broaden your horizons and make your life feel broader.

As long as you are determined to be a doer, instead of just reading and doing nothing, you should be one of knowing and doing. As a boy, the more you read, the better.

For most people, the boys of our time don't read too much, but too little. In my opinion, most of the life problems that plague a man are not because he reads too much, but because he thinks too much and reads too few books.

Read more after work! Open books are beneficial, as long as you are not a bookworm, the more you read, the better. The real national condition of our country is that there are not too many boys who can settle down to study, but too few. For most boys, it is a false question whether it is good to read more books.

1. The positive side: the connotation, background and temperament have all improved, but the essence is to change your thinking. I know you've heard these words countless times. Read well. Reading can change fate and improve temperament ... I don't deny that these words are reasonable.

But in my opinion, these are all too "empty" Fate, connotation and temperament are all intangible. I can't prove to you that I have read many books and changed my fate, temperament and so on.

But thinking can be proved. For example, I have read some books about communication, socialization and interpersonal communication, and the skills described in them are of great help to my interpersonal communication.

For example, how to comfort people, how to make demands on others, how to refuse invitations from others, how to talk to the boss about a raise, how to avoid quarreling and so on.

At first, these kinds of help were very rigid. After reading one, you have to apply one. But when it accumulates to a certain amount, it can change your thinking. At first, I deliberately followed the suggestions in the book, but later, the application and even innovation of the subconscious gradually changed the thinking habits of interpersonal communication.

Similarly, under each different theme, you can change your thinking slightly, such as work ability, time management ability, negotiation ability and so on. This process is very long, and you don't feel that you have been changed.

But when you can "feel" that you have really changed, you will suddenly find yourself different from before.

2, the bad side: reading takes up too much time, and it is easy to become a "home" and "boring" boy. Time is limited, 24 hours a day. It is very powerful to work 12 hours a day, provided that you are single and have no family burden.

Therefore, since time is a dead card, it must be that the more you study, the more time you naturally take up and the less time you can spend doing other things.

There was a time when I was studying every day, but I was told to go out for dinner and entertainment and was refused. I thought the previous dinner was meaningless.

But over time, I found myself becoming introverted, not talkative, afraid and afraid to deal with people. This influence is imperceptibly formed. In order to read more books, it becomes "home" and "boring".

So, why are there bookworms? Because you only concentrate on reading. In addition to books, there is no longer the characteristics of "people". Such a boy is still quite pitiful.

From then on, I began to change my thinking, not only to study, but also to exercise, to get in touch with people more, and not to delay my main business, so as to exercise my ability to "balance life".

3. Neither good nor bad: At least, a "boy" will become a "man" in the process of pursuing progress, and in the world of "man", the competition is fierce. Only men who "keep learning" and "keep improving" can win.

Therefore, if a boy reads a lot, insists on reading and reads a lot, at least it is not a bad sign. It's better than playing games, surfing the Internet, watching Tik Tok and having fun every day.

So, girl, if you meet a boy who reads a lot and has many feelings, don't hesitate to get married. Not to marry me, of course. WeChat official account: 1000 cities are books. Read together and open a new world!

It's really not a good thing that I'm a man. Since my junior year, I have almost read all the books I am interested in, and even once regarded reading as my only pastime. This seems to broaden my horizons and cultivate my temperament, but it is not. Because there are few people who like reading books in China, the environment is relatively poor. And because you read a lot of books, you will have a very extreme and sensitive view of many things and things in your life, thus forming a sense of alienation from others that you can't feel yourself, making it difficult for others to understand why you react so much to a small thing or a very insignificant thing. Moreover, reading too much is easy to be arrogant, and it is even easy to divide people into three or six categories. People who don't study are too vulgar, which is not conducive to a man's communication in society. After a long time, you will find that you can't communicate with your friends when reading, because sometimes simple drinking will be washed away by your romantic feelings. Men still read books occasionally, read more history and biographies of celebrities, and never read novels, otherwise one day you will really feel hopeless and die a pity.

Reading more books does not necessarily make more money, which is deeply understood.

Read thousands of books, take Wan Li Road, and cultivate independent thinking ability.

Reading is not too much. In the past five years in college, I have barely read less than 200 books, some of which have just been read magnificently, some details can be "palindrome" occasionally, and some can be turned over and over.

I'm interested in ancient literature, so about one third of less than 200 books are written in classical Chinese. I think if I read them quickly, no one will believe me. As for novels such as A Dream of Red Mansions and Romance of the Three Kingdoms, the author habitually puts them in the category of ancient vernacular, and the boundary between classical Chinese and zaju is the lowest.

Whether reading is a good thing or not, I think it must be. The so-called open book is beneficial, and the benefits of reading are numerous, so I won't talk nonsense. We say that a thing is a good thing because its positive side is greater than its negative side, rather than saying that everything is good. Let's talk about the matters needing attention when reading.

1. The mistakes that are easy to make in the primary stage of reading are mainly self-feeling. Almost everyone will have some sense of self-superiority in the process of reading, and feel that everything is inferior. It's just that I'm high in school, and I'm not on the same level as you.

If you have a certain amount of reading, you will enter the transition period. At this time, you tend to be complacent about reading, and you will be impressed by what you have learned. At this time, there will be an inexplicable sense of superiority, willing to share their knowledge with others, and often recommend books that they feel good to the world. When you meet people with the same reading hobbies, you sometimes feel closer than your relatives. But at this time, things in books often exist as memories of knowledge points. When writing, they can be used as examples or a beautiful passage, and they can't form their own writing style.

3. In the so-called mature period, individuals think that they have initially formed their own writing style, and the books they read at this time have been naturally integrated into their own writing and research. At this time, it is also a glimpse of the literati's door wall, and the "old tradition" that literati despise each other gradually emerges, feeling that what others have written is not as good as their own.

The author may have just passed this period and have no personal experience of going up, but the teacher gave me a piece of advice before, feeling that I can pay attention to it in the next stage.

He made two points. First, when we write, we tend to be self-centered, unwilling to revise, unwilling to listen to other people's opinions and unwilling to listen to other people's criticisms. Then we will write for the sake of writing, especially prose and poetry, which are emotional works. It is not worth the loss to lose your true feelings for the so-called writing skills. Looking back on these years, we should not only see the progress in these years, but also see the feelings of that year. This is the most important thing we want to write.

Finally, I want to talk about my views on reading. I think there are two kinds of reading, one is recreation and the other is study.

We should see what kind of attitude we take to study. If we have fun, we should read magazines, novels and stories ... I personally think there should be no attitude that I am proud of reading. It's all a pastime anyway. Although reading books for recreation can get more things than watching TV, playing games and watching movies, the original intention is essentially the same. It's also a form of entertainment, so don't think it's more advanced. If you want to pay attention, everything is clear and knowledgeable. If you don't take it seriously, Wei San will be ruined. I have a classmate who claims to have read all the online articles in those years and can read hundreds of chapters every day. If he writes it, it will only be a natural egg.

If you are reading, you should pay attention to quality, not quantity. It is necessary to read a good book for several months, draw a few red bars, write a few words and record a few beautiful paragraphs, but you don't have to be so serious at this time. You'd better be casual. If you reach the level of learning, you have to endure loneliness and sacrifice too many things. A book can be chewed for several years, reviewed, left in a drawer and read later.

Finally, dry the lovely bookcase.

I read a joke before. Someone asked, after reading so many books, I always forget. What is the use of reading them? Another person replied, if you eat so much, you will always be digested. What's the use of eating it? The books I have read are like meals. Although they will be digested in the end, they have become my blood and bones. Shaped me.

But in my opinion, this is not a good thing. I have loved reading since I was a child, and I have been involved in a wide range. Later, I found that the classics of every subject were too messy to read, but I found myself still naive. Classics are called classics, not because of the language we praise, but because they are all created with great foresight by concentrating the experience of predecessors, and you will also find that classic narratives have strong literariness in reading. So biting off more than one can chew has become a reality. I haven't absorbed many things yet, but I can say some. Say I did. I did. No, I haven't read it. But it is undeniable that I also got my current personality and thoughts from it.

Secondly, studying for a long time makes me more careful, and I have better female friends, but few male friends. After all, who wants to be friends with otaku?

Is it a good thing that boys read too much?

Personally, in the matter of reading, both men and women should read more. After all, both boys and girls should pursue progress.

I am a girl, so I will answer why it is good for boys to read more books from a girl's point of view.

1. Boys who read more books are more likely to be admired by girls.

When I was in college, there was a boy in our class. This boy is very talented, and it is no exaggeration to describe him in words. He received a good education from an early age. At the age of six, I began to read the Book of Changes and famous Chinese and foreign books, and I was familiar with them.

He can also write poems When he was a freshman in military training, a group of people sat on the playground at night, and then he was selected by the instructor to perform for everyone. I remember that he read a poem written by himself to everyone at that time, which was very literary and heroic. Many girls were fascinated by him on the spot. Since then, he has gained the reputation of "gifted scholar".

Many freshman classes are in large classes, and he often has to do some group homework because he reads a lot and has a good eloquence. When he needs to speak on stage, everyone will unanimously elect him as the "spokesperson". Listening to his eloquence on the podium, not only girls admire him, but also boys admire him.

Later, I heard that many girls have written him love letters. However, this student is obsessed with academic research and isolated from lust. Although many girls pursued him, he didn't fall in love with him during the whole undergraduate period. The place where he goes most often is the library. He didn't fall in love or play games. A year later, he finished reading hundreds of books.

I chatted with my college roommate the other day. Speaking of this great god, one of my sisters said that he was admitted to the Doctor of Journalism and Communication of Nanjing University. This is his dream from freshman year. It has finally come true.

2. Boys who read more books have stronger professional competitiveness.

I started writing on Jane books last year, so I got to know Peng Xiaoliu, the elder brother of Jane books.

Peng Xiaoliu graduated from three schools. He was originally just an ordinary programmer in a fourth-tier city, doing ordinary work day after day, and his life was as calm as a stagnant pool.

But from 16, he insisted on getting up at 5: 30 every day, reading a book after work every day, and insisting on working with simplified Chinese books every day. A year later, he earned more than 10,000 yuan a month, signed a simplified book, published his own works, and became a well-known knowledge network celebrity.

One or two years, for many people, it is just a simple passage of time, but Peng Xiaoliu has completed the counterattack of an ordinary person.

Peng Xiaoliu's starting point is not high, just like most people's ordinary people, but through reading, he completed the counterattack from diaosi to Great God. Personally, I think we can learn from his experience.

Boys who read a lot are respected.

When I was in Beijing, my leader was a respected young expert in the industry. 1984 he is still very young, but he has reached the level of vice president. In the company, almost everyone respects him from top to bottom because he really has ideas. Although he doesn't talk much, he always hits the nail on the head and is impressive.

Because of my work, many people I usually contact are government workers, many of whom are leaders, but they have no dignity in front of my leaders, and they will still show great respect even if they face young people who are a generation younger than themselves.

Why? A very important reason is that my leader has real talent and practical learning. Although very young, I have a very unique understanding and views on the industry. A young man in his early thirties has grown so fast in his career that he has won the respect of everyone with his own strength. In fact, it is precisely because he has always insisted on reading and absorbed a lot of knowledge and nutrition from books that his thinking and views are more profound and original than ordinary people.

He has the habit of carrying a book in his bag at any time. As long as he has more than five minutes, he will spend it on reading. He is very busy at work and usually travels a lot, but even so, he has to read at least 70 books a year.

Under his influence, I also unswervingly embarked on the road of reading and writing.

So, if you are a boy, I advise you to read more books.

The book has its own golden house, and the book has its own Yan Ruyu. Boys who read a lot will not be bad. Because reading enriches a boy's vision, enhances a person's vision, enriches a person's thoughts and increases a boy's charm.

If you are a girl, I also advise you to read more books. Because your face will get old, but reading can improve your temperament and make you have a richer spiritual world.

I'm Xiao Wei, a girl who returned to the fourth-tier town from the Imperial Capital and lived a free life by reading and writing, with a monthly salary of over 10,000 yuan.

Multi-platform signing author, good at book interpretation, and the reading volume of many articles reached 65438+ million+. Reading for efficient growth, from a painful Harle to a relaxed Harle to finish 20 books.

I remember when I was in high school, I wrote a topic composition in an exam. The topic was "It is beneficial to open books" and the topic was self-made. The Chinese teacher talked about many skills. First, the title of your article should be eye-catching, and second, the idea should be novel. As a result, some students began to demonstrate on the topic "Opening books is not necessarily beneficial". The same is true of this topic. There are many kinds of books, some of which are beneficial, some are purely entertaining, and some are harmful. Does "too much" mean quantity, or is it beyond the normal range and affordability?

I don't know why the theme is limited to "boys". Do you think reading too much affects the cultivation of masculinity? My family also has shota. Like many parents, I also hope that my child can grow into an active, healthy and sunny big boy, but this does not conflict with reading. On the contrary, I think the inner sunshine is the real sunshine. To keep the sunshine in your heart, you must create a sun by yourself, and reading and studying is the only way.

For example, a senior three boy is about to enter the university and is in the sprint stage. "University" and "The Doctrine of the Mean" are all good books, but reading them now is not a good thing. Is it a good thing to read more counseling books? Counseling books are also good and bad. Some counseling books are copied from east to west, and the answers are all wrong. Instead, it misleads students and wastes precious time.

For example, a technician wants to improve his skills, so he finds many professional books to study. This is of course a good thing. The more books he reads, the more he gains. As a business leader, it is certainly a good thing that he has read more books on business management, learned more ways to control people, and improved his personal ability and management level.

There are many kinds of useful books, including those with professional skills, moral cultivation, management and communication, and even books with pure entertainment nature. As long as it doesn't mislead others' children, it also has the value of existence. Reading more books must be a good habit. Only by reading good books and useful books can we grow. Bai once interviewed a professor in Taiwan Province. He said that the ancients had less knowledge and more wisdom, but today people have more knowledge and less wisdom.

Indeed, the number of ancient people reading books may not be as much as ours, but in-depth study of classics, such as Zeng Guofan, regards reading as a confrontation between the two armies, thus gaining wisdom. Now that information is developed, it is very easy for us to acquire knowledge and have more knowledge, but we think less and lack wisdom. When we watch a movie, we will be graded. Just skip the ones with low scores. Books are not graded, so we need to identify and choose them so as not to waste time and energy.

First of all, it must be clear that reading is an extremely "extravagant" thing. The reason for luxury is that when you are studying, you are wasting time and energy, but there is no output.

So when you sit in the classroom or study room, don't feel pain, you should feel it is an honor.

Next, let's talk about whether reading too much is a good thing.

As we get older, we have to pay more for everything we do.

For example, an adult man has to bear not only his personal life, but also the burden of his family. When you delay the normal development of your family for your own study, your reading activities are extremely wrong.

We can often hear such a story:

There is a man who hides in his study every day to avoid responsibility. You said he was watching, and he did, but after watching it, he just did nothing.

This kind of person is the most terrible. Even if he reads more books, he still has no output. For his family, he is not a contribution but a heavy burden.

Therefore, it depends on whether it is a good thing for boys to read more books. The key is to see if there is any output.

If you don't want to produce, you must meet such a condition, that is, your family background is very thick, that is, you have very rich parents who can support you to do only reading and not produce such extravagant things.

Or go to work!

Don't think I want to cheer up. This is a problem that many college students don't realize. They may just study to escape the reality of employment.

They don't want to face housing prices, marriage and naked social reality.

So every time I say, alas, I'd better go to school!