Very philosophical and inspirational: don't think you are better than others, even if you are excellent.

1, think more about what you really want, and keep thinking if you can't figure it out.

2. Filter people around you and narrow your circle of friends.

Forget what you have done to help others, and always remember what others have done for you. Even if this person is good only once, he is the one who helped you.

4, don't control the pressure, we don't have to follow the time, just follow the mentality and ability, follow the fate, try our best to achieve life, have a clear conscience, and leave the rest to the sky.

Don't think you are better than others, even if you are excellent.

6, often ask yourself, who has been kind to me twice and never paid me back.

7. Mr kazuo inamori said that there are only two choices to live a full life. One is "doing what you like" and the other is "making yourself like work". I'm afraid the chance of meeting my favorite job is less than one thousandth or one thousandth. Instead of finding a job you like, it is better to like your existing job first and start here.

8, put an end to hands-on, learn to grasp the big and put the small.

9. Try not to participate in multi-person dinners, because it is difficult to have sincere communication, mostly for entertainment.

10, give yourself a good mood and let the world smile at you: give others a good mood and let life smile at us. Good mood is the wealth of life, let it always accompany us.

1 1, sail, not hanging on the mast, is a useless piece of cloth; A mast, without sails, is an ordinary pillar; Ideal, without action, is an illusory fog; No ideal action is an endless road.

12. Give time to reliable people and things.

No matter how good you do, others say you are not good. Tell me about it.

Kindergarten training institutions like to hold a WeChat vote, which will definitely have a certain publicity effect. What about education? Whoever wins the first place will win the first place and know whether he has done well or not. Those who can't get the ranking think it's useless to do it no matter how good it is. No matter what ranking, children's feelings are the same, ranking has nothing to do with their own efforts.

No matter how good you do, others say you are not good. Tell me about it.

I am very sad today. I feel my heart quietly. What makes me so sad? Do I feel that I am not good enough? Have you ever done anything to disappoint yourself? Are you still worried about something? Afraid of what? Gradually, I found that I was no longer needed because someone could take my place. Whether this man does well or not, he will replace me. No matter how well he does, I have no choice but to be replaced. I just left for two days and went back to my previous place. I can't blend in with everyone as naturally as I did the other day. I don't feel well and want to leave at once. Suddenly I feel worthless, become a dispensable person, have no meaning of existence, and feel very sad. But why do I have such an idea? Am I too concerned about others and neglect myself? I don't think I can really love myself. I have to be needed by others to confirm my value.

Second, how cold and malicious the world is, how cold and malicious the world is, no matter how good you do it, you can't be liked by everyone. There are always more people who wish you a bad life than those who wish you a good life.

3. An orchid grows in the garden. Although the vegetable farmer feels good, he doesn't take care of his food as carefully as he does, because your value is not what he needs. It's not that your taste and cultivation are not good enough, but that your environmental needs are different. No matter how beautiful it is, it is futile to do it well. Therefore, it is very important to choose the right demand environment, otherwise, no matter how beautiful and hard work, it will be a dark ending.

Fourth, no one will understand you no matter how considerate you are the first time. Open your heart and no one will look you in the eye. No one will want to see you if you do well, but if you don't do well, others will think you are easy to take care of and take many things for granted. Why do you take it for granted that TM is not born to parents? So, be nice to yourself.

5. Bad feelings will not be felt again, and bad experiences will not be experienced again. No matter how well you do it later, you can't be as good as you were at the beginning. Don't deceive yourself. There is always a kind of inexplicable power, and even some drowsiness is gone when it should be weak. The weather is so good after the rain, I don't want to go to class, I want to go out and bask in the sun.

6. Heh, heh, heh, heh, only you are good to TA, which hurts money and feelings. Maybe I'll stab you in the back. On the surface, I'm fine with you. Be nice to people you have known for a short time, not to people you have known for a long time. You are not good to TA, perhaps because TA is not good enough. The current TA will not be much better. If a person loves each other too much, it will appear that he doesn't love enough. I hate people who gossip about me most in my life! Not all of them!

Seven, the mobile phone is not good, and it is futile to do it well! Get out if you don't make your mobile phone!

Eight, I don't know when to do it well, no matter how good you are, you have to do it well, but if you don't do it well, you will be praised by others if you change it a little!

Sometimes I wonder why I am so busy. I get nothing for doing these things, no reward, no certificate, no matter how well I do it, not to mention the criticism of doing it badly. What have I learned? I know. This is a lesson. But to tell you the truth, I'm really tired. I will sacrifice my weekend, face all kinds of problems and correct them. If something goes wrong, I have to bear it myself. Sometimes I am physically tired, and occasionally I am mentally tired. Who can tell me why I am tired?

Ten, a good man is hard to do, and no matter how good he is, he is not a good man. I owe you nothing. Why should I do this to you with a clear conscience?

1 1. Are you lucky today? I don't understand. People who haven't lost their temper since last night really want to lose their temper and can't even defend themselves well. What is the importance of protecting other people's faces? However, for half-baked people, getting close to themselves is only a few times. Others may think that once or twice is not a long time, and others may think that they have something important and will not ask you for help first, because they know how to find a reliable one. I hope everyone is surrounded by people who can promote your growth and transformation as catalysts, and you can reap happiness every day.

Twelve, it is difficult to be a daughter-in-law, and it is too good. People say that you have a conspiracy to curry favor with her, and you are not doing well. People say that your conduct is not good! No matter how good you do, people say you are not good! Laugh at cynicism and gossip, hide your inner grievances and dissatisfaction in your heart, and continue to carry forward this spirit for the harmony between husband and family.

Thirteen, people are like this: people like you, and people praise you everywhere. If people don't like you, even if you usually do well, people will say you are not good everywhere.

Fourteen, one day these things are boring, no matter how well they are done, they all say that you are not good, so I don't like you.

Fifteen, no matter how good a person does, some people say that you are not good, and no matter how bad you do, some people will value you. Some things still need to be calm and indifferent, and go your own way.

Sixteen, the family is like this, there is no way, no matter how good you do, you will only blame your small mistakes, and then forget all your bad.

Seventeen, I often say I want to do it, but sometimes I can't. When can we really do it? I don't like moral kidnapping, but I know I'm really not good enough. I know that once I decide to do it, I have to do it with my heart, even if I get nothing in the end, at least I have experienced it. However, I should also consider that my main purpose in school is to study. My academic performance is not good. In fact, no matter how well I do, there is nothing to be proud of, because I have to consider my family, and they are all expecting my success, so I can't let them down. But I also know that the person who criticizes you wants to make you better, and she doesn't have to say anything annoying at all. Well, I know I still can't balance study and work. I lack the ability to summarize. ...

18. I have to change my job. There are too many procedures in this matter. I won't blame you for not doing well, and I won't praise you for doing well. They are all conscious, there is no objective evaluation standard, there is not enough room for improvement, or the exam is simple, that is, you compete with the paper, and there are no other human factors. These people let me down, and I know that even if I do well, I may be screwed up by a stupid X.

19. There is always a barrier between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. No matter how well you do it, you will keep it in mind. This is the biggest difference from your mother. You are depressed and don't want to stay at home.

Twenty, it seems that people around me don't like me very much and feel that they have done something wrong. I always want to change myself because of other people's eyes. One day I will understand that it's not that I'm not doing well, but that no matter how good you are, someone will always dislike me. Why bother being yourself?

2 1. Whether you do well or not, people will say, no matter how good you are, it is really difficult to block people's mouths and hearts. You have to understand too many talkative people when you are hanging out in society.

Twenty-two, there is a saying that is right: at work, you should do it well, and if you can't do it well, that's your pot.

Twenty-three, I thought it was because I didn't do well, but I didn't understand until now that even if I did well, it wasn't what you wanted.

No matter what you do, someone will hate you. The same is true of saints. Even if a saint does something perfectly, someone will find fault. Even if it is right, in that person's eyes, the saint is always wrong. He thinks that saints are either ill-conceived or ill-considered, or it is not easy to find fault if they miss it. If you don't like it, it's already a great sin, and it's wrong for you to do it no matter how good you are.

Twenty-five, every time I do the evaluation form, I feel like I'm going to explode. Personally, I feel that no matter how well the watch is made, it can't change the fact that its performance is poor.

Twenty-six, going to work is like going to the grave. No matter how well you do it, it depends on the mood of the leader every day. Whether you can leave work on time depends on her mood. People can't get paid if they are in a bad mood. I really don't know whether you come to work or see her mood.

Qq philosophy says that you beat yourself far more than others.

Adversity is a melting pot for tempering will, hardship is an accelerant for completing personality, ideal is a beacon for building life, and confidence is the driving force for achieving goals. Personality is like Three Kingdoms. If you stay together for a long time, you will be separated for a long time. Emotion is like a journey to the west, eighty-one difficult, just to get true love; Career is more like a red chamber, and there are always people who regard it as a climb and spend their lives; Life is most like the Water Margin, no matter how vigorous you are, in the end everything is a silent hug.

Second, everything can be put off. There is no need to be in such a hurry. If you slow down, things will be round.

Third, the steps of a ladder are never used to put feet. They just let people put their feet on for a while so that the other foot can climb up again.

Fourth, know how to be flexible and learn to empathize; People have to make mistakes, and there are always mistakes and irrationality. When you make a mistake, you will feel guilty; If you are impulsive, you will inevitably regret it. At this time, we need to calm down and clear our minds, don't always complain about the hardships of life and the injustice of fate, don't suppress ourselves, lose ourselves, let ourselves fall into sadness, and don't give up on ourselves.

5. Life is a cup of tea, a ballad and an intriguing poem! Let's go all the way, taste all the way, experience all the way, and enjoy this beautiful life quietly!

6. Gratitude is the source of happiness. Know how to be grateful, and you will find everything around you is so beautiful.

Seven, the road of life, like the intestines in the stomach, turns thousands of times and finally comes to an end.

Give yourself a good mood and let the world smile at you: give others a good mood and let life smile at us. Good mood is the wealth of life, let it always accompany us.

Nine, if one day, you happen to see these words, I hope this part of Zhong Zhen belongs to you, here you cheer for yourself, continue to complete your dream, bravely challenge yourself and experience yourself!

10. Being happy is faster and more efficient than imagining something happy in your mind. So, please smile heartily, let your feet shine, hold your head high, talk, dance, laugh and sing happily, and do anything you like, so that positive energy will be driven and all beautiful situations, people and things will be brought into your life! In other words, if you want to be happy, you have to feel the coupons first, so that you can have the energy to attract beautiful things.

When I feel unlucky, I will think: This is my bad luck. After that, the rest are lucky!

Twelve, don't create pressure, we don't have to follow the time, just follow the mentality and ability, follow the fate, do our best, have a clear conscience, and leave the rest to the sky.

Thirteen, I beat myself far more than others.

Fourteen, don't give up this second, there is hope for the next second! Stick to it and you will succeed!

15. I think I can do it, but I can't. Actually, it's just a moment.

Sixteen, whether we do it or not, others will laugh. If we don't do it well and do it well, people will laugh. So let's do better and bring laughter to people!

Seventeen, life is a cup of tea, a ballad, an intriguing poem! Let's go all the way, taste all the way, experience all the way, and enjoy this beautiful life quietly!

18. Different ways of walking are also closely related to emotions. People who stride are happier, while those who procrastinate are prone to depression and increase negative energy. Happiness can be created, and a small change in the body can make the body full of positive energy.

Nineteen, complaining is just a sign of cowardice; Hard work is the attitude of life.

Twenty, it is wise to invest in knowledge, and the knowledge in the investment network is even more wise.

Twenty-one, if you feel hard at this time, tell yourself: the easy way is downhill. Hang in there, because you are going uphill, and you are bound to make progress. If you are complaining about fate, enlighten yourself: life is an excuse for losers; Luck is a modest word for success. Fate has always been in our own hands, and complaining is only a sign of cowardice; Hard work is the attitude of life.

Be yourself, there is always one thing you can do better than others.

First, you should keep your heart like this in your life, be a little nervous, not slack, and calmly deal with uncertainty. The hurt is bearing, and the silence is expanding. The end is a new beginning. Only in this way will the world respect your heart and you will have what you want.

Second, like is presumptuous, but love is restraint.

Third, when love turns into water that can't be caught, leaving becomes its only expression. Leave bravely and fly to the blue and hot sky like a kite. Even if there is no home, the sunset is like blood and the flowers on the other side are enchanting. When the beautiful scenery overlaps and loses focus, the scenery has gone, leaving only the past along the way, and then the wind is forgotten. The curve of the palm of your hand will meet in a narrow way in your life, but it won't last long.

Fourth, what others think of you has nothing to do with you. How you live has nothing to do with others.

5. Time has shaped women, and women have dressed up for time. Ordinary days have obliterated the charm of youth, and the flowing time has robbed the light of publicity, but those years like songs have honed women a little noble, elegant, calm and calm. Women mature with the passage of time. Maturity is calmness after glory and introversion after blooming. When youth can't stop, temperament completes a woman's taste.

6. Some people are warriors of love. When they are in love, they always take the lead and never consider the consequences. So these people always die the worst. But the best thing in feelings is that you will hurt, you will cry, you will die, but there is always a breath. As long as this tone exists, there will be a day to turn over a new leaf. The warrior of love is also the warrior of breaking up. I cried, I was hurt, and I started over.

Seven, only 5% of a person's life is wonderful, only 5% is painful, and the remaining 90% is dull; People are often tempted by 5% of the wonderful, endure 5% of the pain, and spend 90% of the dull.

Eight, don't let yourself bear too much, just listen to the wind, you will walk more easily. Some gains may not last long; Some have been lost, but not necessarily there will be no more. The important thing is: let the heart learn to dance in the sun; Let the soul learn to smile in pain. Not afraid of injury, not afraid of giving, not afraid of love, not afraid of dreaming. Please believe that the passing of youth is not terrible, but the loss of that brave heart that loves life is terrible.

Nine, like a person together, do not like to break up. It is the most shameless to tread two boats in the name of love. The so-called love of this and that is nothing more than wanting everything. But the focus of love is never getting, but giving up. Giving up everything else for one person is true love. So whether a person loves you or not lies not in what he wants you, but in what he gave up for you.

No matter how crowded the world is, let your heart beat freely. The more you grow up, the more you understand that life sometimes really needs to wait. Come if you should, and leave if you should. Don't force or retain. What you can't see will be relieved one day, and what you can't get will be given to you in another way one day. Don't worry, don't complain, we will wait and see what kind of answer time will give us.

The most important thing in life is not the choice, but the direction of choice. The most painful thing in life is not love, but loving the wrong person; The most terrible thing in life is waiting. Because you don't know what day you can wait and what kind of result you will get. You think your waiting is worthwhile, but you don't know that your waiting makes you humble.

Twelve, be yourself, there is always one thing you can do better than others.

Thirteen, people are more likely to be angry with close people, not with annoying people. The so-called close people are people who spend most of their time together. It shows that we are often angry because we expect more from people close to us or want more from them.

Fourteen, a person's day, you have to do only one thing to make yourself excellent.

Fifteen, to be a man needs to be half smart and half confused, to look at yourself smart, to be aware of your shortcomings and mistakes, to be like a mirror, and not to let go; Look at others with confused eyes, but can't see others' right and wrong gains and losses. Just like the Tang Priest, there are no goblins and bad people in your eyes. Even if you can't see it, at least learn to know what you are doing and not say it. Say, it is hurt; No, that's tolerance.

Nobody really cares whether you are sad or not, so be happy. Some people are the past, and they are only allowed to show it repeatedly in their memories. Another manifestation of not knowing yourself is not knowing how to treat yourself correctly. Or indulge, or blame yourself, in short, you can't live in peace with yourself.

Seventeen, this kind of thing, some people are lucky, some people are unlucky. But anyway, don't be afraid to wait. Waiting is better than loving the wrong person. We always love the wrong person, but as long as we learn to leave, learn to wait and stick to everything we insist on. Whenever, you will find the right person. Because all my life, I only need one person, and it makes no difference in the morning and evening. The longer you wait, the happier you will be.

No matter how hard you work, how lonely and hopeless you are, you must never let yourself be mean. Emotional ups and downs are only temporary discomfort. Begging and compromise are often the beginning of self-awareness and the collapse of life value.

Nineteen, there are always some things that make you see some people inadvertently. If you have too much orientation in life, you will lose it. In the journey of life, everyone is busy getting to know all kinds of people, thinking that this is to enrich life. But the most valuable meeting is to meet yourself again at a certain moment, and then you will understand that traveling around the world is just to find a way back to your heart.

If life is like the first time, many things will not happen. Unfortunately, everyone is constantly changing. Some people are advancing at high speed, others are taking a fork in the road. You think you're standing still, but in fact you're just going backwards. So sometimes, the change of feelings is not that people have changed, but that people have changed. If you don't want to be apart, you have to change together. Cohabitation means that you become me and I become you.

Look down on the troubles in the world and only look for coolness in your heart. The more desires a person has, the narrower his mind becomes; The less desire he has, the wider his mind becomes. People's mentality, more desire is busy, less desire is idle. People's minds and desires are too risky and too few are dull. People's worries, if they want more, they will worry, and if they want less, they will be happy. People's hearts are full of desires, but they lack them. Long-term use of modesty and retreat can ensure the safety of life, good points and tranquility can make everything smooth, tolerance can make people know themselves, and free and easy work can make people happy all their lives.

Everything in the world has been arranged, but when the time comes, you can't understand it, and the moment you understand it, it's your destiny. Neither too much nor too little, neither too early nor too late, can we say the right words at the right moment and form the right fate.