My wife won't talk to me during the cold war. What should I do?

When two people are together, the most terrible thing is that there is no effective communication.

Usually when it seems calm, they are all playing with their mobile phones and rarely communicate. There is no problem at first, but after a long time there will be problems. Everyone has a need to communicate. If you don't communicate, she will communicate with other people or things, such as chatting with her best friend, chatting with other men and chatting with Mi Meng's articles. Over time, your feelings will fade, and her feelings with others will grow.

In case of conflict, there is still no communication, and the cold war is over, which is more likely to cause big problems. It might have been just a trivial matter, or maybe she didn't know who to turn the fire on at the moment, but because you didn't communicate in time when the small contradiction appeared, it is likely that a single spark will turn into a fire that will start a prairie fire, and finally ruin your dull and stable happiness.

So I suggest that lovers or lovers must make three chapters of the law. No matter what kind of problems arise, neither party should cut off communication channels, give the other party a chance to communicate, and don't let Xu Shu enter Cao Ying without saying a word. Once you find out which one has not been observed, you must seriously raise it when you make up, and tick your fingers to indicate that it will not happen again.

As for your question, since the cold war is over and you especially want to end it soon, I suggest you put down your dignity and face for the time being. When two people are together, what you want is equality, not who suppresses who. When she is angry, you should talk more and do more, say what makes her happy, do what makes her happy, and show her that you love her and care about her with your positive words and actions.

Once the communication channel is established, you can tell me why she is angry and what she has against you. As long as it's not in principle, you can and should be able to satisfy her as much as possible, and she won't force you like her son to study. You can also slowly raise your expectations for her. Then you two can make a pact first. As I said just now, the main content of the three chapters is about communication.

Women need companionship and persuasion. When I was a child, I watched Jet Li's movie "Zhongnanhai Bodyguard". Xu Zhengyang, played by Jet Li, felt this way during her trip to Hong Kong, and told Yang Qianer's boyfriend, Mr. Song, and all the male compatriots who watched the movie. Today, I tell you this feeling. I hope you can put down your mobile phone, play less the glory of the king, spend more time with your wife and communicate with her.