Self-cultivation is more important than catering to others everywhere.

1, once in a lifetime, let's talk about a love for the purpose of marriage. No longer refuse to bow because of willfulness, and no longer break up easily because of stubbornness. Believe for the last time, go straight ahead and you will grow old. In this way, in the fleeting time, the years are beautiful. I only wish to hold your hand and grow old with your son in this life!

We shouldn't envy others' happiness. What you think you don't have is on the way, and what you think she has is on the way ... Some people are good to you because you are good to him. Some people are nice to you because they know your kindness!

3. What is happiness? Happiness is holding hands, walking through the noise together, waiting for loneliness together; Is to accompany a person who wants to accompany him, laugh together when he is happy, and cry together when he is sad; It is to have a heart that you want to have. It is not boring to repeat boring days and do the same thing ... As long as there is love in your heart, we will be happy. Happiness is in our original promise and in our future dreams!

4. A person always looks up to and envies the happiness of others, only to find that he is also looked up to and envied by others. The mountain of happiness has no top and no head. Don't stand by and envy the happiness of others. In fact, happiness is always by your side. As long as you have life and hands that can work miracles, you have no reason to be a passer-by, a bystander, and no reason to complain about life. Have you found happiness?

5. Don't forget what you once had; Cherish what you have already got; Do not give up what belongs to you; What is lost is left to memory. When you are tired, put your heart on the shore; Don't regret if you choose; Only when you are bitter can you know how to be satisfied, only when you are hurt can you enjoy life, and only when you are hurt can you understand how strong you are. There is always a windy morning, there is always a gorgeous dusk, and there is always a meteor night; No matter yesterday, today or tomorrow, it is a beautiful day to be suddenly enlightened. ...

6. If they had appeared earlier, they might not have clung to another person's finger. Or meet a little later, until two people slowly learn tolerance, understanding, kindness and compromise in their respective love experiences. Maybe when we come together, we won't give up so easily, turn around willfully and let go of love. Neither earlier nor later, that is a rare fate.

7. Men are naturally affectionate, but they will be affectionate to a person. Women are naturally devoted, but they can be rude to a person. When a man is with the person he likes, there is still one or more of her in his heart. Because he is affectionate. A woman is with someone she likes, and all she can think about is him. Even if there is a better man, she will not give up. Because of her loyalty. And when she decided to give up, there was no room for everything. Because she has no heart!

8, love is a little tempted, love is a tacit understanding, love is a chance encounter, love is an agreement, love is an oath, love is a vision, love is a persistence, love is a loyalty, love is a watch, love is a yearning again and again, love is a trace of melancholy, love is a sigh, love is a sadness, love is an obsession.

9, life, there is no eternal love, no ending feelings, always end; People who can't get it will always forget it. Life, there is no eternal pain, no matter how deep the pain, the wound will always heal. There is no hurdle in life. You can't sit next to an obstacle and wait for it to disappear. You can only try to cross it. In life, you won't give up easily. As long as you persist, you can complete an elegant turn and create eternal glory!

10, there are three things you can't keep in life: life, time and love. You want to stay, but you are drifting away. The most painful thing in life is not that you can't get the person you love, but that you can't get happiness all your life. I can't wait for you to leave; Lost love, I can't find it back; Even if everything is gone, I'll wait here until I see you get happiness, then turn around, smile and walk away quietly.

1 1, obviously people are online, obviously want to talk, but also learn to be invisible; Obviously very sad, obviously want to cry, but also crack mouth smile; Obviously lonely, obviously afraid, still alone; Obviously want to meet, obviously looking forward to it, but also refuse; Obviously, my heart is in a mess, and I obviously want to be accompanied by others, but I have to pretend to be silent; Obviously reluctant, obviously unable to let go, but also let go; Obviously in my heart, I care, but I don't care!

12, life is understanding, and life is facing reality with a smile. Life is about crossing the barriers of the mind, making the mind calm and indifferent to fame and fortune. Life is about crossing obstacles and looking to the future. Life is to have a scale on yourself to measure good and evil. Life is about knowing your own value, what you can do and what you should do. Life is to create strong happiness through hard hands!

13, a person can see the end at a glance, not because t a is too simple and not deep enough, but because TA is too simple and pure. Such simplicity and purity are admirable; Some people have fog covers, which look complicated and deep. In fact, this depth is not the depth of the soul, but the depth of talent. This complexity is the interweaving of sinister human nature, not the superposition of graceful wisdom. Simple, most beautiful!

14, if one day you want to cry, call me, I can't promise to make you laugh, but I can cry with you; If one day you want to run away, call me. I can't persuade you to stay, but I will run with you. If one day you don't want to listen to anyone, call me, and I promise to be by your side and keep silent; If I don't answer the phone one day, please come and see me, because I may need you!

15, when our love is stained with dust, we will wait for the baptism of a storm. Some people, some things, want to forget. Can they really forget? The most painful thing is that if something disappears, it will disappear forever, and it will never come back, but it will leave a thin and sharp needle stuck in your heart and can't be pulled out. If it wants you to get hurt, you must get hurt, and you can't erase the permanent scar.

16, listen, when you cry, I actually feel bleeding. After all, I have known each other before, and it is difficult to fall in love. You will feel tired on the day of racing against time, and I will feel tired when I am alone. So now we choose * * * to welcome a new day, not only thinking about welcoming a new day with you, but also doing it. It's just that now I don't know how to continue to face you, because you chose to trust your feelings!

17, happiness is not how big your house is, but how sweet the laughter in the room is; Happiness is not how luxurious the car you drive, but how safe you drive home; Happiness is not how beautiful your lover is, but how brilliant his smile is; Happiness is not how enthusiastic you are when you succeed, but when you are frustrated, a voice says to you: friend, don't fall! Happiness is not how many sweet words you hear, but when you are sad and crying, someone says to you: Nothing, I am here.

18, is there such a person, you have said to give up countless times, but you still can't bear it? Is there such a person that you are willing to be hurt, even though you know you will be black and blue? Is there a person who wants to cry when you are alone, but pretends to smile indifferently when you see him? Is there such a person who can exchange dozens of short messages with TA every day, but it is embarrassing to make a phone call?

19, the most exhausting thing is often not the distance of the road, but the depression in your heart; The most decadent thing is often not the bumpy future, but the loss of self-confidence; The most painful thing is often not the misfortune of life, but the disillusionment of one's own hopes; The most desperate thing is often not the blow of setbacks, but the death of one's own heart; Look down on everything, relax, and everything will get better gradually!

20. You can't change the environment, but you can change yourself; You can't change the facts, but you can change your attitude; You cannot change the past, but you can change the present; You can't control others, but you can control yourself; You can't predict tomorrow, but you can grasp today; You can't do everything smoothly, but you can do everything wholeheartedly; You can't extend the length of life, but you can decide the width of life.

2 1, optimism is calm after setbacks, optimism is self-confidence in plain, optimism is unyielding after setbacks, and optimism is calm in difficulties. Whoever is optimistic has the eyes to see through life. Whoever has optimism has strength. Whoever has optimism will have a ferry of hope, and whoever has optimism will have the spirit to dare to struggle in difficult times. As long as he lives, he has the strength to build his brilliant tomorrow!

22. Boys treat their wives better after marriage than before. At a party, a friend laughed at him: Why are you still so tired after getting married? He said with a smile: before getting married, many boys wanted to chase her, and many boys would be kind to her. Only by being kind to her can I catch up with her; After marriage, there are fewer and fewer boys who are kind to her. Only by being kind to her can I not let her down. After that, all my friends were silent, without ridicule, only admiration!

23. When tomorrow becomes today, yesterday, and finally a day that is no longer important in memory, we suddenly find ourselves unconsciously pushed forward by time. This is not the illusion that we are moving forward when we are in a stationary train and cross with adjacent trains, but that we really grow up on this matter and become another ourselves.

24. I am used to going into space every day to see the dynamics of each of you. Then I will know which of you is happy, who is struggling, who is starting a new relationship with whom and who is ending the old entanglement with whom. Distant care and yearning, but can not be contacted. I just miss you. I'm used to going to space every day to see the dynamics of each of you. Then I will know which of you is happy, who is struggling, who is starting a new relationship with whom and who is ending the old entanglement with whom. Distant care and yearning, but can not be contacted. I just miss you.

25. It's not that I can't meet better, but because I already have you, I don't want to meet better; Not that I won't be tempted by others, but because I already have you, I don't think it is necessary to be tempted by others; It's not that I won't fall in love with others, but that I know how to cherish you better. Being together is not easy. Don't let go of those who have already chosen. There are countless good people in the world, but meeting you is enough.

26. We once cherished it very much. Because of the invisible hand of the years, the aura of love was slowly stripped off, and the original vows turned into crystal glass fragments. Love should be washed in time, either to precipitate into a yellow photo or to bloom in our simple life. We didn't meet by chance. Happiness is not a momentary feeling. It melts in the sweetness in our hands and in the seemingly mottled life.

27. Don't think that there is something better behind, because what you have now is the best. Don't think that you can get married later just because you are still young. Love age is different. In fact, for love, the simpler the happier. If you experience too much, you will be numb; More separation will get used to it; If there are more couples, they will compare; In the end, you will stop believing in love; You will give up on yourself and live like this for the rest of your life. Let you and I make mistakes.

28. Only when you have experienced pain can you know how to protect yourself; I didn't know what heartache felt like until I cried. Only when you are stupid can you persist and give up in time; I didn't know I was actually very fragile until I loved him. In fact, life doesn't need this meaningless persistence. You really can't give up without anything.

29. Be quiet when you are alone; When you are alone, you will feel lonely, fill the wounds at night with the past, and then giggle at your innocence; If a person is free, he will not be affected, and the small world will go at will; Be strong when you are alone, and hold your head high when you have no shoulders to lean on. No one loves himself more than himself. One day alone, we smile, smile, walk and smile. A person is beautiful and romantic! A person is quiet and elegant.

30. People who know how to give up, sincere people know how to sacrifice, and happy people know how to be detached. For those who don't love themselves, what they need most is understanding, giving up and blessing. Too much self-love is begging for charity. To love and be loved is a happy thing. Don't let this turn into pain.

3 1, and the person you don't have a chance, no matter how much you tell him, it's nonsense; The destiny takes a hand's person, your existence can awaken all his feelings. Some people are strangers even if they have known each other for several years, and there always seems to be a gap between them, like flowers blooming on the other side, far away and untouchable. And some people are close at the moment they appear, as if they have been lost and recognized again. That closeness has a warm and real texture.

32. Fate is a wonderful thing. Many times, we have met each other without knowing it. Then we turned and came back here. Everything is accidental, or fate. Therefore, we should cherish everyone we meet in our life, because you don't know why this short meeting will come to an abrupt end, and then meet by mistake, only to find that we can never go back. What a terrible thing this will be.

33. We always like some people when we are unprepared. There is no reason, maybe it's just a gentle smile and a caring greeting. Maybe we have never met, maybe we have no common interests, maybe we are not at the same height, but we all keep it in mind. Just like liking a song, it is often because a melody or a lyric touched you. Like it or hate it is a puzzling thing.

34. Dear yourself, don't cling to memories. A kite with a broken thread can only let it fly, let it fly and let itself fly. Dear yourself, you must find something besides love that can make you stand firm on the earth with your feet; Dear yourself, you should be confident, even narcissistic, and always remind yourself that I deserve the best.

35. It is the greatest happiness to have someone who knows you. This person may not be perfect, but he can read you, go deep into your heart and understand everything in your heart. The person who knows you best will always be by your side, silently guarding you and not letting you suffer a little injustice. People who really love you don't say much about loving you, but do a lot of things that love you.

36, what others have, you don't have to envy, as long as you work hard, you will have it; You don't have to show off what you have, because others will have it if they are struggling. More happiness, less trouble, regardless of wealth, status, depth of knowledge. Laugh happily every day, sleep when you are tired and laugh when you wake up.

37. Everyone has such a complex in his bones: he wants to have a blue confidante or a red confidante, neither a husband nor a wife, nor a lover, but a person who lives in your spiritual field and can speak his mind, but only warms his heart but can't warm his body. When you are hurt, you will think of him/her for the first time. It is your inner diary and the longest secret in your life.

I thought that as long as I held you tightly, I could live forever, but I didn't expect that the tighter I held you, the faster I lost it. In fact, I don't want to tie you up, but I can't, because I'm afraid, I'm afraid of losing you, and I'm afraid of facing the lonely world alone. I'm not that brave, even if you say I want to be strong. Please don't say sorry to me either, because I don't know what other words can be used to answer those injuries you have given.

39. If you love, you love. Nothing serious, nothing strange, and nothing to say. Don't listen to other people's bluff, you have to complete every step of your life by yourself. I have no material in my stomach, no skills in my hand, and it is useless to know more people. Networking will only give you opportunities, but it depends on real skills to seize them. Therefore, self-cultivation is much more important than pleasing others everywhere.

40. I despise arguing with anyone. Those who love me, don't argue. If you don't love, it's no use fighting for it ... There is always an answer to everything. Love may make you confused, jealous, angry, sad and make you cry. But it is warm in the end, which can give you pleasure and security. If not, you either love the wrong person or use the wrong method. Being single is better than suffering.

4 1, true love, know how to cherish: no one and no one are born together. Life is not long, how lucky you are to meet the person you love. Why not hold his hand? There is nothing shameful about loving only one person in your life. I know in my heart that there will be better people besides him, but one can't be so greedy. One heart needs to warm another, so that we can be happy.

42. Marriage is like a marathon. Love only brings people to the starting point. Harsh midway running can destroy almost everything. You must have super endurance to get to the end. Cherish your lover.

43. The best thing two people can do together is companionship. I do my job and you do yours. There are two or three hours of prime time in the evening, and they are all exclusive. But when you know that there is another person sitting there in a space, you feel very practical-this is the so-called "personal space." Although they all stayed in their own world for two or three hours, the difference is that they all had another person to accompany them-this is love, the most normal love.

44. Love is not just about two people. You love me and I love you. Those fairy-tale loves are found in novels and TV plays. Perfect love needs two people to create together, and watching too many novels and TV plays will only corrode the brain. True love is like a pyramid, with food at the bottom, followed by money, energy and emotional contribution. All's well that ends well for lovers, only by accumulating to a certain extent.

45. If you love someone, you don't necessarily know him. Knowing someone doesn't necessarily mean having him. Having a person doesn't necessarily bind him. You love him only because he is worthy of love. You married him because he can accompany you for life. However, when this person betrays and leaves, he is no longer the one worthy of your love. In that case, why bother?

46. Love is the most unreasonable thing in the world. This is not a reward that falls from the sky. It doesn't mean that you can get a return of 100% through hard work and dedication. It takes two people to be congenial and work together to continue, but because either side gives up unilaterally, it is fragile to the end.

47. What kind of person you are, you will meet. You will be your friend. What kind of person your lover is, what kind of life you live. To protect them is to fulfill yourself.

48. Don't believe the promise in love. Even if you sign a contract, you can break it and tear up the sales contract. What's more, I said a lot in one day and didn't even pay the deposit. People who keep their promises verbally are just people who regard their promises as clouds.

49. Time can make women fall in love with men slowly, but time can hardly make men fall in love with women slowly. Because men and women have different love cycles. Women's love can be more and more through companionship and accumulation, but men's love will gradually decrease over time. When men and women get along, it is useless to love deeply, just love for a long time. Therefore, strong love is the end, and love as a relative is eternal.

50. Love someone, her sad past, her chaotic present and her uncertain future. Human love may be a process of constant compromise and self-compromise. The reason why we live in such a mess is that we haven't completely loved our souls.

Only when you practice by yourself will others kiss you.

Friends are not far away, as long as they are in their hearts; There is no meeting in the morning and evening, as long as you have the heart. Good friend, always with you; True friendship always shares joys and sorrows.

1, meeting the person you like is like a disaster for the rest of your life, crossing the ocean and finally seeing land.

2. What others say and do can never determine who you are; What you say and do to others can determine what kind of person you are.

3, the best, effortlessly fall in love with each other, do not pursue hard, do not deliberately please. Love that needs to be managed to stay is itself full of loopholes. And if TA really loves you so much, she doesn't want you to love so hard.

It's willful to slam the door in anger and leave immediately. Probably only people with love are qualified to do this. My cousin keeps a black dog and usually eats leftovers. Whether she sleeps at night in spring, summer, autumn and winter, she is locked out. No one treats her like a pet dog and doesn't touch her gently. But it never escaped when it untied the chain during the day. I think it must be afraid to leave, and no one will look for it. -Gu Lange

We can have a monotonous life, but there is no boring space.

6. When you encounter troubles, you should first eat well and take care of yourself, so that you can have the energy to face more difficulties. Do not give up on yourself. Don't fall down before the test comes.

7. People say that you don't know how to cherish until you lose it. In fact, the loss after cherishing is more painful than anything else. Sometimes, it's not that others take you too lightly, but that you take others too seriously.

8. I feel lonely not because no one cares about me, but because you don't care about me.

9. Try to please everyone and keep a relationship every day, but in the end, it's not that person you try to please or the relationship you need to maintain every day. One truth remains unchanged: only when you practice by yourself will someone else kiss you.

10, every time I quarrel, I think about what it would be like to lose her, so I cherish it. I'd rather take the initiative to apologize and make up, because I cherish every day with her, man! There is nothing wrong with admitting your mistake, but you will lose it before you regret it. -Csillam

1 1, I hope you are so busy every day. Everything you do is your favorite, and the people you love love love you, and the people you hate disappear from your sight. One day, all your smiles come from your heart.

12, learn to dance with the wind on windy days, and learn to hold an umbrella for yourself when it rains. Life is expected to wear autumn water, and there will be unexpected joy.

13. Suddenly, when you appeared, the whole city became gentle. I came from thousands of miles away just to hear you sing. I didn't feel really happy until I saw you smile and didn't know how sad you were.

14, the essence of life is to greet, accept quiet people and things, and bid farewell to right and wrong. There are thousands of ways in the world, and everyone only chooses one. People who travel with you should cherish, no one will accompany you to the end; When you leave, be open and sometimes don't be forced. The journey of life is mostly lonely and desolate, and one must stay outside the glitz, and there is silence in the noise. All that comes is scenery, and all that goes is memories. If you don't enjoy the process, just watch the flowers bloom and fall all the way.

15, there are three things in this world that others can't take away: one is to eat food in your stomach, the other is to dream in your heart, and the third is to read books in your mind.

16, there is no difference between tragedy and comedy in the world. If you can get out of tragedy, it's comedy. If you are addicted to comedy, it is a tragedy.

Happiness belongs to grateful people, and happiness belongs to contented people. Treat every day of life with a normal heart and treat everyone in front of you with a grateful heart, and happiness will come uninvited. People who know how to be grateful may turn into blessings when they encounter disasters; People who only complain may turn into disasters when they encounter good luck. Learn to be grateful in prosperity and never lose heart in adversity. The secret of happiness is not to complain about the past, not to be confused about the future, not to cling to the present, but to enjoy the present!

18, a true friend may not give you material help, but can give you spiritual encouragement; A true friend is not face to face, not eating, drinking and having fun, but silently paying attention to your growth and everything.

19, friends are far and near, as long as they are in their hearts; There is no meeting in the morning and evening, as long as you have the heart. Good friend, always with you; True friendship always shares joys and sorrows.

20. When I was young, Long song ended. In the long river of years, how many lives, wave after wave, continue to write ordinary or passionate life. After experiencing misty rain, wind and frost, ups and downs and hardships, people embarked on their own long journey.

Talk about your own sadness: it is better to love others than to love yourself.

1. Love is actually a habit. You are used to having me in your life, and I am used to having you in my life.

What I lost never really belonged to me. I won't regret it, and I don't have to regret it.

3. Days are as sweet as lemonade in the morning, like the sun in winter, like the sea in my dream, like meeting you for the first time.

4, the most powerful sentence: people are not poor.

When you walk into my heart, you will find our memories and you will make me laugh.

I am still waiting for you to come back.

7, the so-called forever, the so-called commitment, after all, can not escape the distance, can not escape the time.

8. I always start the conflict first, and then try to suppress it.

9. [You don't know, maybe I'm in a bad mood when I laugh. ]

10, if you don't feel, don't give me the illusion, I'm afraid I'm romantic.

1 1. It is better to love others than yourself.

12. The truest and most beautiful love words I have ever heard are all in your sleep and wine talk.

13, the reality is true and false, the color is black and white, and it blends into a turbid picture. You can't see or hear the truth you want. .

14, some words are true, but they sound false; Some words are false, but there is no doubt.

15, I am willing to be your time lover all my life.

Let's talk about closed-door training. Talk about closed-door practice on WeChat.

1, learning makes me happy! Close the door and practice! Wait for me to fly to the sky!

I want to eat grilled fish when I pass the customs. I want to eat boiled fish! I want to eat Maoxuewang! I want to eat Jiugongge hotpot!

3. In addition to fitness, I sleep and play games every day. Why are you still so tired? Go home and practice for a few days.

4. There will be less and less time to come out and practice in isolation.

5, do not disturb mode's state, is trying to improve themselves!

I'm in a bad mood these two days. I'm recuperating and practicing in isolation.

7, practice for a month, the final exam.

8. Eat, drink and be merry before you close the door. Eating and drinking is a perfect match ~ ~ ~ so happy ~

9. I want to refine the elixir of life.

10, I want to disappear for a while. Yes, that's right. I'm going to set up a flag, practice in seclusion, and cheat corpses from time to time.

1 1. From today on, we will practice behind closed doors. Study hard and make progress every day.

12. I spent a day cleaning the dusty study. I have been practicing behind closed doors recently.

13, recently upset, closed to practice.

14, closed for 53 days, the result is not important to me, because I will definitely not get ashore.

15, temperament, aura, maybe I have to practice behind closed doors.

16, wish me good luck tomorrow, and I will close my door and practice.

17, I have gone into the mountains to practice, please don't disturb.

18, I'm going to practice in seclusion. I'll come back if I have enough courage.

19, good morning. After a short relaxation, it is probably a new wave of closed-door practice. This monster is really difficult to fight.

20. After living in seclusion for so long, I read and endorsed books every day, and finally finished the exam, and the oral exam was perfect.

2 1, there are reasons why I don't need to know my closed-door practice!

22. I'm a little weak these two days. I'm closed to practice today. Good night, boy 2 1.

23. Prepare to save exams and practice in isolation. Please don't disturb.

24. In one direction, practice in seclusion for ten days, and then go to the battlefield. Let's go

25. I closed the door and practiced for a while, during which I refused to be disturbed. After becoming famous, practice funny Dafa and return to the rivers and lakes!

26. To be a low-key and interesting person, you need to close your eyes and cultivate yourself.

27. Every tiny dream should not disappoint serious closed-door practice.

28, began to practice closed doors to improve position and learn to punch in for 60 days.

29. I may need to practice alone.

30, recently more sad, full of aggression, habitual bait hides the hook.