Stay away from people at the bottom of society (stay away from these low-level people)

Text/July Chang'an

People with low levels have low-level tastes.

His experience and vision determine his views on life.

For example, if the same sentence is spoken by a low-level person, it will be vulgar, but in the mouth of a high-level, cultivated person, it will become elegant, even if it is not elegant. , and it won’t look so rough.

For the rest of your life, stay away from these low-level people, because their outlook on life can easily affect your thoughts and thus the direction of your life. 01. People who are full of swear words and full of "dirty jokes"

Getting to know a person starts with conversation.

Elegant conversation makes people feel like spring breeze; elegant conversation reflects a person's level.

People at lower levels are full of swear words, rude, and good at telling sexy "dirty jokes". When they tell them, they are very excited and make people shake their heads.

If people like this surround you every day, will your three views still be correct?

It is not unreasonable to say that those who are close to the ink are black. The longer you stay with these people, the more vulgar you will be and the lower your level will appear.

As a newly graduated college student, Liu Xin still has very upright views, has ideals and ambitions, and his conversation is gentle and elegant. Unfortunately, since he got mixed up with a bunch of people in society, , he changed.

Swearing and vulgar words are used at every turn, and anyone who doesn’t like them will just blurt out curses. When three or five people get together, they talk about topics that are of low taste, and the more they talk, the more enthusiastic they become.

People are afraid of being affected, especially those who have just come out of campus.

If you want to get out of the mud without being stained, unless you have strong concentration, it will lower your level and lead you to the extremes of life.

Those low-level people have already extended their claws to Liu Xin. He suffered so much that he didn’t notice anything. In his words, he lived his life as he pleased and casually. .

Eventually, he went astray.

Five people are together, and if four of them are low-level people, will the remaining one be of a high-level person?

Even if that person was originally of a very high level, he was deeply affected by it and became black even if he was not black.

Flowers and plants with sunshine. Flower grass with sunlight. 02. People who pretend to be elegant and elegant

Lin Yutang said this kind of people: "When gathering with friends, they will chant their sour poems."

In fact, The poem was just something he memorized by rote. He was asked to explain its meaning, but he didn't know.

This kind of people often attach great importance to the superficial image, but in fact they are nothing more than gold and jade on the outside, and nothing but ruins on the inside.

His gentleness and elegance are just a pretense, a beautiful bubble appearing on the surface.

I once met a literary friend. At the beginning, I had a really good impression of him. He was polite, wearing a pair of glasses, and had an air of elegance all over him.

When I was a guest at his place, the room was filled with various calligraphy and paintings, including those by Zhang Daqian and Li Keran.

"Li Keran's paintings are really beautiful, and the paintings are full of artistic conception." Looking at that painting by Li Keran, my eyes widened.

The literary friend was drinking tea and asked puzzledly: "Li Keran? Are his paintings beautiful? Are they comparable to the calligraphy and paintings hanging on my wall?"

Like I choked instantly after eating a dead fly. Without saying a word, he drank a cup of tea and silently exited the elegant little residence.

Ask yourself, are you not worthy of such an arty person who doesn’t even know which famous painting is hanging on your wall?

Ignorance is just ignorance, why should I pretend to be ignorant?

Those who pretend to be gentle and elegant are essentially people who love vanity and blustering. They are obviously a loser and pretend to be educated people. Why bother? 03. People who borrow money but don’t repay it, and talk behind their back

Someone describes a person who borrows money like this: “When someone borrows money, his face is like a beggar; when someone asks for payment, his face is like a king.”

Vividly summarizes this kind of low-level people.

When borrowing money, act like a grandson; when paying back money, act like an uncle. He has no ideological consciousness at all. Once he gets the money, it is his own. He wants to take it again unless the sun rises from the west.

And the most irritating thing is that even if you don’t pay it back, you are still talking about it behind your back, telling people everywhere, look at this person, isn’t it just to lend him a little money? I come to you every day to urge you, but you still have no shame!

Those who don’t understand the whole story will naturally lean towards him and scold the person who urges him to pay back the money every day.

If a person is like this, he is low and shameless.

In his eyes, he never thinks about right and wrong. Whether it is black or white all depends on his mouth.

Just like a classmate once lent money to a friend, the two people who were originally good friends became strangers because of this incident.

The classmate said: "Losing money is a trivial matter. At least from this I can see clearly what kind of person this person is. I will just stay away from him from now on. Calculating it this way, I still make money. If If this thing didn't happen, it would be bad if you continue to associate with him and something life-threatening happens later."

This kind of low-level person is the most hateful and the least approachable.

If you are with people at a low level, you will be affected by them to some extent, and you may become disoriented, or you may become vulgar, greedy for vanity, or you may be a good citizen and become a gossip behind others' backs. Villain.

For the rest of your life, who you are with is really important. If you are diligent and lazy together, you will have to be lazy if you are not lazy. If you are good and bad together, you will be bad even if you are not bad.

When you get along with people who have three upright views, your life is always full of vigor and passion. He has a benchmark in his heart, and he knows whether it is right or wrong.

For the rest of your life, stay away from these low-level people and spend more time with those who have ambitions and pursue ideals. Only then can they bring you full of positive energy.

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