What are the characteristics of black sheep?

Children who say these words from novels are probably not very filial, and they don't have to wait until they grow up to know. However, it is often seen that the elderly are abandoned, and their children are unwilling to take care of the giant babies and young babies at home because of support or age.

No, yesterday, my friend WeChat spoke: What happened to the children now? Parents have worked hard to provide them with food, clothing, housing, transportation, schooling, a wife, a wedding room and children. As a result, I have worked hard all my life, but no one cares. What a waste of water.

No wonder so many people want to be dinks. I have calculated an account before. It will cost me more than 2.4 million yuan from the birth of the child to the graduation of the university. Oh, I'll go. This money can buy a small room on the Second Ring Road in Beijing. Otherwise, how can you use this money to support the elderly in luxury? ! Why do you have to raise children? If you don't know how to be grateful, you may even become a burden to yourself. Think about it. It's all a blockage.

Well, after listening to it, I can't help but think of a report I read before: an old lady in her seventies has to support herself and her son with a pension of 3,000 yuan every month.

I guess many people think that her son must have some kind of disease or defect? No, this super giant baby is over forty years old now. She was a legendary schoolmaster since she was a child, and even became a graduate student of a famous university with the support of her mother. But it is incomprehensible that he didn't choose to work, but stayed at home and played computer all day.

When the reporter asked him why, he threw the pot directly to his mother. "All because she hurt me and ruined my future." . You see, it is estimated that no parent can be calm when hearing such words.

But in fact, some unfilial children can see it from an early age. If they are not corrected in time, their old age will be really painful. If parents find that their children often say the following words, they must take them seriously. Don't think that children will get better in the future just by talking.

"This is my stuff. Don't move."

Some children are particularly selfish and like to say "this is my business, you can't move" all day. When they leave home, they don't like to share with other children. When something is obviously not his, he still wants to keep it for himself, and even won't let others move.

Usually at home, I always want my family to take him as the center, and all the delicious and fun things at home are his. As long as someone touches it carelessly or eats delicious food, it will attract his temper. If such children are not corrected in time, they will be extremely selfish in the future, as will their parents.

"I don't like you, don't buy me ... are you my kiss XX?"

Some children take what their parents give for granted. As long as their families don't meet their demands, they will start to say all kinds of ugly things and even threaten their parents with emotional offensive.

Perhaps this kind of words is lovely in the eyes of some parents, but if children habitually take threats to ask for them, they will form habits after a long time and it will be difficult to change when they grow up.