The seventh season of "Qi Pa Shuo" has caused controversy. What is your view on marriage?

The topic of marriage in the seventh season of "Qi Pa Shuo" aroused everyone's discussion: What is marriage? How to run a marriage? How can we live a happy and fulfilling life in marriage? ?

1. What is marriage?

A happy marriage is when two people have been together for decades, and both people can still find novelty in each other. The woman can still be as shy as a little girl, and the man can still be as affectionate as when they first fell in love. A happy marriage means having someone to talk nonsense with, a playmate when you are bored, and a spiritual support when you are busy. It is the harbor when you go home when you are frustrated, and the peace of mind you can get when you are anxious.

Marriage does not require strong vigilance or pretense. A good marriage is about becoming who you are and making each other successful. No one can catch up with the other, both of them are making progress, whether in life, career or relationship.

2. How to run a marriage?

When running a marriage, you need to follow the rules and not do anything out of the ordinary. Otherwise, various problems and hidden dangers will appear in the marriage. The problems and hidden dangers will accumulate more and more. Even if there is no outbreak now, as time goes by, As time goes by, conflicts between husband and wife may break out anytime and anywhere. Whether it is love or marriage, we all need to work hard. If we do not manage it carefully and do not take up our responsibilities, then one day it will affect the relationship between husband and wife and even family relationships, just like the grass in the garden. If we do not clean it, One day the whole garden will be deserted.

Trusting the other person is the foundation of marriage management. In the workplace and socializing with friends, it is inevitable that there will be social gatherings such as work group gatherings or friend gatherings. If it is convenient to bring your lover, you can bring your lover to participate. If it is inconvenient to bring you along, you should clearly explain to your partner what kind of party it is, so that the other person will not be suspicious and overthink it.

To run a marriage, you need to not deceive or hide from the other party. Whether it is a big or small matter, you must be willing to discuss it with the other party. Because they are honest with each other, the family will be harmonious and the married life will be more complete and happy. No matter it is a big thing or a small thing, both husband and wife must be of one mind and unite, so that they can overcome difficulties together and move towards a beautiful and happy life together.

Both husband and wife must know how to honor their parents. The wife should be a competent daughter-in-law, handle the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law well, love her as a mother, chat with them about daily life, and maintain a good relationship; the husband should be a competent son-in-law. They say that a son-in-law is half a son. The husband should handle the relationship with his father-in-law and mother-in-law well, so that he can rest assured that his daughter has not married the wrong person.

When couples get along, they should know how to keep a distance from friends of the opposite sex. As the saying goes, "Love is selfish," let alone being careless. You must know that you are already married. This requires self-consciousness, not dependence. It can be resolved by admonishing or restraining the other party.

3. How can we live a happy and fulfilling life in marriage? ?

Only do one small thing every day, an insignificant little thing. Get up 5 minutes early, make breakfast for your lover, buy a bouquet of flowers on the way home from get off work, book two movie tickets, give your lover a hug, say words of encouragement, remember the other person’s parents’ birthday and buy a gift, etc.