Will you save money after you get married?

The so-called private money is the extra income that the other spouse doesn't know. It can be said that most of the private money happens to men, because now women are the masters of family finance, and men will hide extra income from their wives after handing over their income.

So, will you save money after you get married? I am a woman. I really didn't leave a penny of private money after I got married. I used all the money I earned before to decorate the wedding room, and then my monthly salary was used to help pay back the loan. Later, when I had children, I quit my job and took care of them at home. Without income, I have no private money. After so many years, now that the children are older, I have my own time. I can write articles online to earn pocket money.

I spent all the money I earned at first, and I basically spent all the expenses at home. Later, my husband thought he had spare money, so he took the money to deposit online loans or buy stocks, and then most of the money was gone. So I'm angry. I am trying to find a job at home, but you are wasting it. When I lose my income, I don't drink northwest wind. This makes me feel that I have to save money by myself. Once, I asked my husband for money to buy food, but he muttered why I asked him for money. Later, he asked him for money several times, but he couldn't bear it. Then I realized that I was so stupid that I didn't even have the confidence to speak when I had no money, so I won't take out all my income and post it at home now. I will save half of it as my personal savings.

Tell the story around you.

1. My sister has always had the habit of saving private money, because her husband spends a lot of money and even spends all the money in his credit card. My sister earns more than 6000 yuan a month, so she saved 2000 yuan at my mother's place, which is her private money. Then for so many years, she saved some private money and asked my mother to help her manage her money, but her husband didn't.

My husband also hid private money when he was young. It turns out that we don't know. My husband is short of money recently. After he knew it, he offered to lend him money, saying that his wife didn't know that he had saved money for so many years. Let my husband borrow it with confidence, and don't worry about paying it back. But I don't agree with my husband to borrow money. Although we are short of money, we will not borrow money from other people's private rooms. Even our best girlfriends in the past are still small. When it comes to money, there are bound to be minor contradictions.

My friend lent her personal money to her best friend, and people thought it was private money, so they didn't want to pay it back. Borrowed thousands of dollars for two years, never paid back a penny, never mentioned it. I feel that the money is for her, and now the relationship between the two people is slowly fading, not as good as before.

My hometown and her husband live in AA system, so there is no need to save private money. Her salary is quite high. Now that she has bought a house for rent, life is better than that of many stay-at-home mothers.

Therefore, as a woman, I think it is better to save some private money, at least when men are unreliable in the future.