It is said that knowing people knows their faces but not their hearts, how can we see the essence of a person clearly?

In life, no matter what kind of environment we are in, we have to contact with many people. At this time, interpersonal communication becomes very important. It can involve many things and even affect our personal development. Therefore, if you want to do a good job in interpersonal communication, you must fully understand a person. As the old saying goes, "Man and his stomach are inseparable", so how can we see the essence of a person through the phenomenon? Here, I have summarized some effective methods to share with you, hoping to help you:

1, let's see if he knows and does it.

Confucius said: "To see the essence of a person, you will only know if what he says is the same as what he does." Actually, I think this sentence is very reasonable. For example, if a person says one thing and does another, then this person is obviously very unreliable. We should be very careful when dealing with him, but if a person keeps his word, he must be a very reliable person. When I was working with him.

See if he keeps his promise.

There is an old saying in China: "People don't believe, but they don't stand". Whether a person's credit is good or not directly determines how far he will develop. From the perspective of being a man, credit is the foundation of a company. From the commercial point of view, credit is the key to the growth of enterprises. It can be said that if a person loses credit, then he loses everything. Therefore, we can judge whether a person is reliable or not by seeing whether he keeps his word.

3. Is there a principle?

This is also very important. It is ubiquitous in our life, and we should emphasize principles in all walks of life. A person without principles also means that he has no bottom line. Such a person is terrible, and we can't trust him. But a person who speaks principles, no matter whether he is excellent or not, at least he is not dangerous, so whether a person is good or not can be determined from the fact that he speaks principles.